The saddest composition for primary school students: If you don’t have a mobile phone…did it hit you?

The school assigned a homework assignment to my nephew who is in elementary school, a topic composition \”If there is no mobile phone\”. After my nephew came home, he asked us: \”What would you do if you didn\’t have a mobile phone?\” I said, if there were no mobile phones, I might write some articles in my spare time, but if there is no inspiration, I think I will have nothing to do! My husband said that if he didn’t have a mobile phone and the children were not at home, he would feel lonely and deserted at home… My sister said that she can’t live without a mobile phone. She is a micro-business and relies on her mobile phone to make money. Got it! My brother-in-law said that if he didn’t have a mobile phone, he would play on the computer, watch TV, or be in a daze… As a result, the next day I saw my nephew’s composition: Without mobile phones, adults seem to be unable to live a normal life. Uncles and aunts will feel that life has lost its fun, they will feel alone, and they will feel lonely. But why don\’t they want to go shopping or chat together? Even cooking together is a good idea! My mother said that she could not leave her cell phone for a quarter of an hour because she had to make money from her cell phone. So, what I face every day is a mother who chats with strangers all the time. She chats while cooking, eating, before going to bed, and the first thing after waking up. She even answered my questions while chatting. Where is dad? He said that without his mobile phone, he would even be in a daze! Why can\’t he just try to teach me how to play soccer or games? Why! Look, they are all poisoned by their mobile phones! Although I don’t have a mobile phone now, even if I did, I would still have a lot of interesting things to do after leaving my mobile phone! For example, ask classmates to have a picnic together on weekends, take a walk with grandma after dinner, or play ball on the playground. Anyway, I have a lot to do. What about the adults? I am usually busy with work, and I waste all my free time on my mobile phone. When I remember that there are important things that I have not done, I start to feel inexplicably: Where did the time go? To be honest, sometimes I feel that adults are very pretentious. Although they have so much time, they still make themselves busy all day long, as if the earth cannot rotate without them. In the past, I always heard from my grandma that when I was a child, my parents would pamper me to the heavens, surround me all day long, make me laugh, make me happy, and buy me a lot of delicious food. But now, I am just like the air at home. I obviously have parents, but I live like an orphan. Why can\’t they pay more attention to me? Why can\’t they leave some time for me? Before, the home was filled with laughter and laughter, but now it is as cold as a cold storage… After reading my nephew\’s composition, I deeply regret it! We know so much at such a young age. Frankly speaking, mobile phones have indeed closed off our space. For example, women complain that their husbands are not considerate enough while spending time on their mobile phones; men complain that their wives are not considerate enough while focusing on their mobile phones; parents complain that their children are not good enough while spending time on their mobile phones. The results of it? The relationship between husband and wife is affected by mutual complaints, and the relationship between parents and children is broken down due to lack of communication. Parents do not understand their children\’s desires, and children do not understand their parents\’ expectations. Look at the child\’s heart again, and accuse him on the surfaceAlthough she is dissatisfied with mobile phones, she actually longs for her parents’ company! He wanted his mother to talk to him wholeheartedly instead of perfunctorily; he wanted his father to spend more time with him as a family, instead of gradually becoming estranged; what he needed was a companion who was still in his heart, not a person who was like him. Puppet-like care. I remember when I was a child, when I happily told my parents about happy things, they were often just doing other things and seemed to be listening. When I asked them \”Is it funny?\” and \”Is it interesting?\” they would only use \” \”Ah\” and \”well\” were used to deal with it, and it was obvious that he didn\’t take my words to heart. As time went by, I became too lazy to share it with them anymore. So later on, my parents tried every means to get close to me, and I could no longer open up to them. In fact, when the children are young, this kind of \”people are present but not in the heart\” way of companionship may be accepted by the children. After all, they are still young and have few spiritual needs. As long as the children see their parents around, they will feel safe. But as children grow older and have more and more spiritual needs, they are no longer satisfied with their parents merely acting as security guards and nannies. Gradually, children have their own ideas and opinions. They want to express their thoughts to the people closest to them, and they want to have more spiritual interactions with their parents. At this time, parents must be patient and be careful listeners and attentive speakers. Get into the child\’s heart from the very beginning and care about the child\’s study and life. Frankly speaking, parents who have always paid attention to spiritual companionship will often gain a child who is also willing to open their hearts to their parents. Children who grow up in such a family will generally not be particularly rebellious or be dazzled by love during adolescence. Parents have already understood their children\’s preferences through daily interactions and will not do anything that offends them or touch their sensitive nerves. Even if a child falls in love early, parents can give good advice in a timely manner. Companionship is to a child as sunshine is to a cactus. Without sunlight, although the cactus will not wither, it will lose its vitality; children can grow up safely without companionship, but they will lose a lot of fun. To be a qualified parent, you must first start with caring companionship. If parents blindly play with their mobile phones when their children need company, then when their children have problems of one kind or another, we don’t even know what their children are thinking, so how can we help them solve their problems. Please put away your mobile phone, put down your headset, and pick up your company from now on. Only a parent who is willing to spend time and thought on his children will have a healthy and sunny child.