Raising a daughter like this is simply harming the child! Just look at Lin Miaoke and you will know

Rui\’s mother was scrolling through Weibo in the past two days and came across the news that Lin Miaoke took the Beijing Film Academy exam. Many netizens have previously discussed that this national child star has a tendency to become disabled, but in Rui\’s mother\’s opinion, Lin Miaoke in the news is pretty and fair, and she can be considered a little beauty. However, when Rui\’s mother clicked on the video of the media interview with Lin Miaoke, she suddenly took a breath of cold air. In the video, Lin Miaoke is shaking her head in front of the camera, speaking in a garbled voice, her logic is confusing, and her eyes are wandering. She is exactly the same as when she was a child, and completely unlike what an 18-year-old girl should look like. Rui Ma has captured some animated pictures of Lin Miaoke being interviewed at the art exam, so you can have a feel for it. Rui’s mother also took a screenshot of Lin Miaoke’s interview when he was about 11 years old, so everyone can experience it again. Does everyone feel the same way? Back then, when Lin Miaoke was filming a movie with the famous actor Chen Xiaoyi, Chen Xiaoyi once frowned at Lin Miaoke\’s artificial performance and sternly asked her to correct it. Lin Miaoke still answered her coquettishly: Got it. Chen Xiaoyi said helplessly that the child was smart and cute, but he just couldn\’t change it. Rui\’s mother read a lot of comments from netizens, and most of them were negative. Some people mocked her unceremoniously, while others earnestly advised Lin Miaoke to pay more attention. From lip-syncing in the Olympics back then to the current group mocking incident, Lin Miaoke has suffered too much malice and ridicule in his growing years. However, what Rui\’s mother wants to say is that the responsibility does not lie with her, and she really shouldn\’t bear this. In the final analysis, parents’ education methods are to blame. Lin Miaoke\’s mother, Liu Zheping, is an elderly mother. She gave birth to her daughter at the age of 39. After that, she stopped working and became a housewife. Her main task was to raise her children. Lin Miaoke once participated in a reality show, and in this show, Liu Zheping and his daughter both had many problems exposed. First of all, my mother’s thinking is not keeping pace with the times, and her educational philosophy is even more backward. Lin Miaoke was going abroad to Australia. Liu Zheping asked his daughter if she wanted to bring an English dictionary. Lin Miaoke said that a mobile phone would be enough. And my mother’s reaction was, does Australia have internet? When participating in the show, Lin Miaoke was already in the third grade of junior high school, but had just learned to cross the street. We all know that competition in the entertainment industry is so fierce now. Those who cannot endure hardship and have no talent will be eliminated in minutes. However, Lin Miaoke lacks even basic self-care abilities. And parents don’t do much nurturing in these aspects. One year, Liu Zheping took Lin Miaoke to participate in Guo Degang\’s interview show. Liu Zheping said in the program that Lin Miaoke had been learning to dance since he was 3 years old. He could do Xinjiang dance, Tibetan dance, and Mongolian dance in one and a half moves. But judging from Lin Miaoke\’s performance in the show, he only learned a little bit of everything, and all of his eighteen dance skills were sparse. After entering junior high school, dancing stopped. What impressed Rui\’s mother the most was that Liu Zheping once said in an interview that her daughter had no secrets from her. Not only does she have Lin Miaoke\’s mobile phone password, she can also read the child\’s WeChat at will, including everything. This made Rui Ma shudder. Every child has his own life and his own secrets. Those secrets hidden in the hearts of children are their most precious treasures, and we adults have no right to pry or share them.This is basic respect. If you have a daughter at home, how do you raise her? After understanding Lin Miaoke\’s growth process, Rui\’s mother really had some things to say about raising girls. Although Rui\’s mother has no experience in raising girls, Rui\’s mother transformed from a girl and has many good friends with daughters around her, so she thinks she still has some say in raising daughters. We all know that even ordinary children can become outstanding talents as long as their parents educate them properly. Parents’ educational concepts and methods are the starting point for children. If parents want to raise outstanding girls, Rui’s mother recommends the following points. Cultivate girls\’ self-care ability. Girls will eventually leave their parents and live independently. Self-care ability is a girl\’s most basic survival need. Therefore, parents should consciously give up over-protection of girls and give their children an independent life opportunity. Don\’t do everything for your children, pay attention to cultivating their ability to do things themselves, encourage them to do what they can, and actively guide children to learn to be independent. Only with strong self-care ability can girls independently face various difficulties and setbacks in life and truly grow into independent individuals. Enhance spiritual resistance In today\’s society, competition in various industries is fierce, interpersonal relationships are complex and ever-changing, and any kind of setbacks and difficulties are likely to occur. Today\’s girls are generally spoiled and live a comfortable and comfortable life, and basically have not suffered any grievances. This results in girls\’ psychological endurance being almost zero. This situation is very detrimental to girls when they grow up and face the complex society. Parents should consciously set some difficult tasks or obstacles for girls to let them experience the feeling of frustration and guide them to learn to cope with and solve problems on their own. Help girls master basic etiquette We do not require girls to become gentle ladies, but they still need to have the most basic etiquette. Girls from Zhili Dongli are cute, respectable and charming. In the process of interpersonal communication, elegant and decent etiquette not only allows girls to interact with others better, but also helps girls develop a kind and healthy character and become a better person. Let girls become confident and learn to accept themselves. Every girl needs confidence, just like sunshine and rain. The role that self-confidence plays in a girl\’s life-long development, whether in intelligence, physical strength, or how she conducts herself in the world, plays a vital role. It is no exaggeration to say that self-confidence can achieve a girl\’s life. Parents should help girls understand themselves objectively and truly, and view their strengths and weaknesses correctly, so that it will be easier to build self-confidence. In normal times, parents should give more encouragement to their children and help them better utilize their strengths and improve their shortcomings. Mothers should not sacrifice themselves in order to raise their children. This is almost a common problem among Chinese parents. However, we must understand that many times, our sacrifices will not bring the desired results. A mother should have her own life, her own circle of friends, and her own interests and hobbies. She should not place all her hopes in her life on her daughter, just like teaching her daughter to take control of her own life. For the sake of her daughter’s future, her mother alsoYou should have your own complete and rich life. This will not only set a good example for the daughter, but also allow the child to have space to grow independently, which is conducive to the education of girls.