I don’t accept children chewing on their elders. Ordinary children will fall into the ditch sooner or later if they chew on their elders.

Yesterday, a mother sent me a message: There is a teacher Lin Ju on the Internet who supports children to lie down and nibble on their old age. Teacher Lin Ju is known as the patron saint of children who lie down in the world. He believes that young people can lie down as long as they like and nibble on the old. Parents should accept and satisfy their children. If they lie down enough, they will get better. When a student takes a break from school, parents should do their best to satisfy him without limit. He can do whatever he wants and sleep as long as he wants. He can eat whatever he wants, stay up all night playing with his mobile phone, and see no one if he doesn\’t want to… When the time comes, he will become nervous. If he can\’t support himself, there\’s no harm in raising him for the rest of his life. For example, Song Dandan supports his children to chew on their old age, and Teacher Lin also supports his own children to chew on their old age. He also believes that people cannot accept lying down and gnawing on old age because everyone subconsciously has the fear of survival in a farming society and the fear of lack of material. But now that material is too abundant, it doesn’t matter if you gnaw on old age. Everyone is enjoying themselves together. There is nothing wrong with life. ‍‍‍‍‍‍‍This mother asked me what I thought. 02 Frankly speaking, I won’t accept it if my child chews on his old age. What I can accept is to provide support for the child for a while. Let children have no fear of survival, give them a period of time to find love and motivation, and find their future direction. Give you a transition period. If you really don\’t have the passion, then go out and work honestly. Supermarkets, restaurants, KFC, hourly workers, express delivery, don\’t tell me that you can\’t support yourself. When you go out, you have to work, security, cleaning, and babysitting. In the future, labor costs will become more and more expensive, so supporting yourself is not a problem, and it is also your responsibility. Legally, you are an adult at the age of 18, so you can take charge of your life. This is what I often tell my children. Both of my children are very clear that I will not accept gnawing on the elderly. The eldest daughter said that she believed that studying well was the simple path. I also said that I support you in taking postgraduate and Ph.D. exams. I told my second daughter yesterday that it’s okay not to study. It saves money for us because we don’t have to pay tuition. If you don\’t study, you can work at the age of 18, and I will only support you for another 8 years. Now I learn to cook and do housework with my aunt every day. Junior high school is compulsory education and is the responsibility of parents. High school is not compulsory education. If you feel tired from school, then think about what you are going to do. Work is regardless of high or low. The second daughter also said that she should also study hard. Why don\’t I accept nibbling on old age, unless your family has enough money and connections. Song Dandan accepts children chewing on the elderly. What are Song Dandan\’s family conditions? Not to mention one child chewing on the elderly, even 10 children can\’t finish it. If ordinary people let their children chew on their old age, they will only fall into the ditch. The real life I observed, if not other things, is my rural hometown. Children who go to college are working in big cities outside. Those who have never gone to school, those who entered society early, and those who live well in their hometowns are all those who have not gnawed on their old age. Their common characteristics are: they are all very diligent and hard-working, some repair and install home appliances, open supermarkets, restaurants, drive large trucks, chicken farms, and factories. He made a living by himself, relied on his own efforts, bought a house and a car in the county, got married and had children. After making money, he sent his children to good private schools to provide support for the next generation. As for the old people, some are in their 30s and cannot find a wife. Parents can\’t bear itYi saved up money to buy a house, thinking he could find a wife. I have been aging for a long time, my eyes are dull, my eyes are dull, I have no self-confidence, and my whole person has no energy. Any girl with any sense would not follow him if he saw that. My cousin went out to work early because my uncle was from a second marriage, and my aunt and her ex-wife’s children couldn’t get along. My cousin dropped out of school and left home at the age of sixteen, and my uncle never took care of him again, which was equivalent to no contact with him. When I went home the year before last, my cousin happened to come to our house. He was 1.8 meters tall, handsome and energetic. I work in a big city, I\’m married, and I think of ways to make money every day. Life was going well. I told my mother that the parents of the children in the village take care of them every day, buy a house, give money, or be a bachelor, and the cousin has no one to take care of him. He is much more energetic than these children in the village. If the family has the conditions to let the children grow old, it will be no problem to raise the children for a lifetime. When they are old, there will be people to take care of them, and they will be happy and the whole family will be happy. If you think about it more deeply, the children are growing old, but the parents are very happy every day. With their children by their side for a lifetime, the children can accompany them to see a doctor and take care of them until they die. But after the parents go to the West, how much happiness did the children have before, and how much loneliness will they have later. In the past, your connections with relatives and friends were based on the dignity of your parents. If your parents are no longer alive, it is hard to say whether you can keep the little family property. You are a useless old man. In the past, people might have praised this child as fat and cute. If you don\’t have parents to take care of you, you are such a stupid pig and you should stay away. Society is such a reality. You can’t tell anything about the Olympics. It turns out that no one cares about you. All your fame comes from relatives. Children can support themselves, will not be disconnected from society, and can have a sense of self-worth. After all, you are responsible for your own life, and you can live with confidence and security. In a word: happiness comes from struggle.