Excellent children are inseparable from the hard work of their parents

Excellent children are inseparable from the hard work of their parents. Psychologist Wu Zhihong once said: Parents are the greatest destiny of children. A good family is a hotbed for cultivating academic masters. The education of parents hides the future of their children. Children are the noble people in parents\’ lives. Parenting is a practice. It is the children who are raised and the parents who are cultivating. This practice is silent but powerful. It allows parents to learn selfless giving, tolerance and acceptance, and experience the greatness and solemnity of life inheritance. Parenting is not only a peaceful time spent with children, but also a spiritual nirvana for parents. We raise children, and children also accompany us. This cycle continues and we nourish each other. Children are not only the inheritors of life, but also our soul mates. I hope we can all learn to succeed in our children and complete ourselves. Mo Yan said: Children\’s excellence is soaked in the sweat of their parents; those bright flowers are inseparable from watering day after day; those blockbuster achievements are inseparable from the hard work of their parents! Love and care, Let children feel the warmth of home. Home is a warm word. It is not only a place for the body to rest, but also a harbor for the soul. As the saying goes, \”Smoke in the world is the most comforting thing in the world.\” A happy family is inseparable from a steaming kitchen. The kitchen may seem insignificant, but it is an indispensable place in every home. A warm kitchen allows children to understand that food is a healing medicine that can relieve fatigue; a lively kitchen allows children to feel that food is a commitment to family affection and can convey true love. The kitchen conveys love and warmth between parents and children, and also shows the happiness of a family. As the old saying goes: If parents love their children, they will have far-reaching plans. In the book \”The Three of Us\”, Mr. Yang Jiang describes their family life in a gentle and calm tone: \”The three of them sit at home reading books, entertaining themselves, and are self-sufficient, like a warm isolated island. The breeze blows over, It’s all good. The three of us have a lot of fun together.” If a child is immersed in a warm and comfortable family environment for a long time, he will definitely maintain curiosity and thirst for knowledge, and be full of enthusiasm and hope for life. Respect and trust, let the child come on his own. Suhomlinsky said: \”You cannot always hold his hand and walk, but let him walk independently, make him responsible for himself, and form his own attitude towards life.\” On the road of growth, every child is a unique individual with his own thoughts, dreams and pursuits. For children, their parents\’ respect is the cornerstone of their growth. When children feel respected by their parents, they will have more confidence, self-esteem and self-love, and thus dare to pursue their dreams and express their opinions. For children, their parents\’ trust is the driving force for them to move forward. When children feel the trust of their parents, they will be more courageous, determined and persistent, and thus dare to face difficulties and challenges, and dare to pursue higher goals. Respect and trust go hand in hand. Only when we truly respect and trust children, and let them do it themselves, can children become better versions of themselves. Encourage children and discover their shining points. The famous educator Suhomlinsky once said: A good teacher must love children and appreciate them.It is a pleasure to get along with children. At the same time, a good teacher must be able to seize opportunities to motivate and guide children in a timely manner. Psychology shows that when people are appreciated and motivated, their potential is several times stronger than usual. The essence of teacher guidance is not to impart skills, but to awaken, inspire and motivate. \”Every child is a unique star, waiting to shine in the night sky.\” Every child has his or her own unique talents and potentials, which require our careful observation and patient exploration. When we pay attention to children\’s interests and encourage them to try bravely, their self-confidence will grow quietly like spring buds. Appreciation and encouragement are the rain, dew and sunshine that bathe children in their growth. Self-confidence is the first step for children to succeed. It comes from parents’ unconditional support and affirmation of their children, and also from their children’s recognition of their self-worth. Courage is the power to face challenges and overcome difficulties. We need to teach our children that courage is not the absence of fear, but choosing to move forward in the face of fear. Let us use wisdom and love to discover and amplify every shining point of children. Through our encouragement, children, nourished by confidence and courage, can grow into strong individuals who are not afraid of the future or dwell on the past, and bravely pursue their dreams. Set an example and become a role model for your children. There is a saying in \”The Analects of Confucius\”: \”If one\’s body is upright, he will not do what he is told; if his body is not upright, he will not do what he is told.\” This ancient saying is like a bright light, guiding parents in the direction forward. It profoundly explains the principle that teaching by example is more important than teaching by words, and emphasizes the importance of parents as role models. Mr. Zheng Yuanjie, the king of fairy tales, said: \”When educating children, don\’t use your mouth, but lift your legs, walk your way, and demonstrate to your children.\” Parents are their children\’s first teachers and their most important teachers. The object of early imitation. In order to raise a self-disciplined child, parents must first become self-disciplined people. Parents are children\’s mirrors, and children are their parents\’ shadows. No matter how good a teacher is, nothing can match the words and deeds of parents. Parents have the greatest influence on their children\’s lives. When parents lead by example and are strict with themselves, they will help their children grow up healthily and happily. If parents lead by example, outstanding children will naturally develop.