Seizing these 3 hours every day to educate your children is the simplest and most effective way! If you don’t believe me, try it

\”Only when children are raised with care can they grow up well.\” Two days ago, Rui\’s mother went to hold a parent-teacher conference for Rui Rui. When several of us parents were chatting privately, I heard a mother say helplessly: \”My child\’s father and I are usually very busy at work, and sometimes we have to work overtime. We really don\’t have much time to spend with our child. No matter what he studies, he doesn\’t care.\” He has become self-aware.\” Another mother quickly echoed: \”Yes, it is the same in our family. I will try my best to find time to guide my children in their studies, but my children\’s grades still can\’t improve. There is nothing I can do. I can\’t stop working and watch. Child?\” It is not difficult to see from the chats of the mothers that there seems to be a contradiction in their education of their children: they do not have time to accompany their children, but they still want to educate an outstanding child. In fact, this is not a contradiction. The key depends on how you accompany and whether you accompany at the right time! There are three time periods in a day, and it is most efficient to spend time with your children. Even if parents have limited time, as long as they accompany them well during these three time periods, it is not difficult at all to raise excellent children. Get up in the morning – before going out, \”the day\’s plan starts in the morning.\” Morning is the beginning of the day. It can be said that a person\’s state in the morning will determine his state throughout the day. See how most of our families spend their morning time? Is it possible to stay in bed for a little longer? Then I get up in a hurry when I estimate that I will be late. I simply clean up myself and my children. Sometimes I even skip breakfast. Before I go out, I yell at my children to hurry up and then send them off. Go to school, then rush to the company in a hurry? My beautiful morning ended so hastily, and then I spent the day in a state of confusion, repeating this, 365 days a year. No wonder your happiness is so low, and no wonder your child is disobedient. You chose to sleep in when you should communicate with your child the most. Yes, morning is the best time for parents to communicate with their children. Because the morning is a complete reflection of the child\’s mood throughout the day, yesterday\’s small problems have generally been \”digested\”, and if there are problems, they will be completely reflected on the child\’s face. Parents can observe and communicate with their children through breakfast time. Note, do not keep urging your child during the time after he gets up. It is best to let him develop the habit of doing things consciously from the beginning. For example, a certain time can be set for the child to complete the washing. If the child is not finished on time, the parents can give a small punishment, such as deducting the child\’s favorite thing from breakfast. Similarly, when children complete tasks on time, parents remember to encourage their children in time: \”Today\’s performance was great, fast and serious.\” Before going out, you can say to your children: \”Today is another beautiful day, let\’s Let’s work hard together!” The purpose is to give children some positive psychological hints and help them face possible unpleasantness optimistically. It is recommended that parents who want to communicate with their children wake up a few minutes earlier to allow more time for breakfast and allow their children to do things calmly instead of developing the habit of panic. In this way, adults can feel happy and be more tolerant and patient with children. After returning home from get off work – dinner After a long day of work, parents must be a little exhausted both physically and mentally. But please remember, no matter how wronged you are outside or how much anger you have accumulated, when you enter the houseYou must adjust your emotions beforehand and face your child with a happy mood. Don\’t accuse your child of not being serious about homework, don\’t dislike your child\’s dirty coat, and don\’t scold your child for leaving toys in a mess…Give your child more patience so that the family can happily sit down and have dinner together. Moreover, when parents get home, don’t ask their children “Did you get bullied today?” This kind of negative words can easily lead the children to think of unpleasant things that happened at school, and may even make the children hate going to school. Studying, that would be bad. You might as well ask your children: \”What happy things happened today?\” Try to convey some optimistic messages to your children, which will also keep your children\’s minds always filled with the beauty of school, and your children will naturally like to go to school. When it\’s time to eat dinner, it\’s not recommended to talk too much during meals, especially if you criticize your children. Therefore, you can try to let your children help serve meals, wash dishes after meals, and do some housework within their ability. Some experts have shown that children who are used to doing housework when they are young will be more responsible, capable, and independent in the future, and will also tend to have a higher evaluation of themselves. The time before going to bed can be said to be the \”golden time\” for mothers to spend time with their children. Studies have shown that people are most relaxed and receptive 10 to 20 minutes before falling asleep. Therefore, the child is most likely to listen to what the mother says at this time. Mothers might as well lie quietly in bed with their children and tell each other what happened today, and what insights and gains they gained? If a child makes a mistake during the day, parents can tactfully tell the child where they made a mistake, what the harm of doing so is, and what they should do in the future… This is the same as telling a story before going to bed. Only when the environment is relatively quiet and the mood is Children can better complete the four stages of listening, understanding, memorizing, and retelling when they are relatively calm. Similarly, if you reason with your child before going to bed, the child can better understand and accept it, and then help the child correct his mistakes. Maybe parents in some families have to work overtime and have a lot of things to do, but Rui’s mother still suggests that if your child is still young, please ensure that at least one parent can get off work normally and give the child high-quality company at night. . There are definitely sacrifices, but they are really nothing compared to the education of the children. And in a few years, your children won’t need your company anymore.