In the first grade of elementary school, when I had a choice after school, I hope I made the right choice

The head teacher announced to the class group the types of special classes for Monday, including 11 events including basketball, martial arts, painting, taekwondo, cheerleading, roller skating, and broadcasting and hosting. A student can only choose one item, and each class is limited to five students. I chatted with the teacher privately. Is it okay if I don’t participate in the on-campus extension from Tuesday to Friday and only sign up for the special class on Monday? The teacher said, no. About not being able to take extended classes? I asked the brother and sister for their opinions, and they said they didn’t want to report anything, and they said they didn’t want to report anything. My sister said she wanted to go to the park after school to \”be at ease\” for a while. My brother said that he wanted to go home early. After finishing the extended class, it was already dark, so how could he still have time to play? …The extended class at school is one hour. Monday is a special class with teachers from off-campus training institutions. From Tuesday to Thursday, you will do your homework in the classroom. The teacher will not teach new lessons. If you don’t know how to do it, you can ask the teacher. The competition started on time, and after a few seconds only roller skating and cheerleading were not fully registered. There were 52 people in the class, which meant that the vast majority of parents had chosen the special classes. It is possible that only my child did not choose. My head was buzzing all of a sudden. If my family is the only one who doesn’t apply, isn’t it too unique? Will the child be treated differently by the teacher? Are all programs for Children’s Day selected from special classes? If you don’t sign up, does your child not have any chance to perform on stage? Will the baby have no friends or be isolated? Roller skating? Both of my children know it well, so there is no point in signing up for special classes. Sign up for cheerleading? My younger sister once participated in cheerleading competitions, but my older brother completely rejected it. Want to compromise? I also privately chatted with the class teacher. If I don’t sign up for extended classes, will there be any impact on the children? The head teacher said that this is voluntary, and there will be no new classes in the extended classes. Parents only need to promise to pick up their children on time. After my children get out of school, I tell them about the various situations that may arise if they don’t sign up for extended classes. The younger sister said, \”It doesn\’t matter. I\’m not interested in roller coasters or cheerleading.\” The elder brother said, \”There are no performances on Children\’s Day, which is great. I just like to do nothing and be a comfortable audience.\” \”Then they started to discuss who would stand in the front and who would stand in the back if they were alone after school. …Okay, it doesn\’t matter if you two walk side by side. No need to take extended classes, and no need to experience the grand scene of huge crowds of people picking up babies every day. It was such an uneasy decision. When time off from school was a choice, I hoped I made the right choice. First of all, there is no problem with picking up the kids at 4:30. Kindergarten has also ended at this time in the past few years. My work can be done using my mobile phone and computer. I can pick up and drop off my children. My dad and I cooperate with each other without delaying his classes at the senior college. Second, it is difficult to complete homework in school, and you have to spend time doing it when you get home. In the first grade, reading questions, memorizing, punching in, uploading videos, etc. all require parents\’ assistance. Since homework still depends on parents, what is the point of delayed classes? 52 kids are noisy and easily distracted from homework, so it’s better to go home early. Third, children need free time at their disposal. My sister said she wanted to be \”free\” and my brother said she wanted to play. She is in first grade and she is also a baby, so she can play whenever she wants. Why wait until they grow up, then dwell on the fact that they never played to their heart\’s content, and dwell on the fact that all they had in their childhood was test papers? Of course, for the time after school, you cannotThe horse is free from the reins. My brother and sister and I agreed to plan out what we “must do” first, and then arrange what we “want to do.” At 8:30, I have to lie in bed and read history first, and then read the book I want to read. Expanding knowledge, improving reading ability, and forming values ​​all rely on daily reading accumulation and life experience, maintaining a sense of rhythm, and making habits become natural. The first year of primary school, the first step on the journey. At this stage, play with them and learn with them. I think the impact of family education should be far greater than school education. This year is also a critical year for children. Don’t panic or be anxious. Let’s follow our own rhythm and move forward step by step.