The essence of academic dominance is the competition of family strength

A public account that only tells the truth, determined to influence 100 million people with one account. The article only represents personal views and is for reference and discussion. Most top students strive for family strength. This is even more true after the reform of the new textbooks. This involves the nature of school education. Education does not serve your children. Education brings all children together and conducts a large-scale layer-by-layer screening based on needs set in advance. One education model cannot meet the learning interests and learning needs of all children. No matter how hard the Ministry of Education, schools, and teachers work, they cannot meet the needs of every child. At this stage we can only provide group instruction, not individualized instruction. Many parents\’ individualized demands are actually based on their own dissatisfaction in social competition, and they project this dissatisfaction onto teachers and schools. Of course, there are also some parents who release their aggression from conflicts in family life on their teachers. There are indeed problems with the current education, but you can\’t change the general environment. Either you can provide support for your children, or you can provide enough support for your children to stand out from the involution. Everyone has the right to cry out. The more you cry out, the more attention you will receive, but it does not mean that you just shout and do nothing and wait for God to save you. The Savior will not save a beggar who only knows how to take but not how to give. After the reform of the new teaching materials, it has become more difficult, and many parents are complaining. But in fact, teachers also understand that they need to lower their requirements for some children, and at the same time they must be responsible for those who can keep up. It is enough for you to be able to keep up with the tasks given. If you can\’t keep up, the teacher will not ask you to do anything. This requires parents to relieve their children\’s stress. No matter what type the child is in, it is a great test of the parents\’ strength. If the child cannot adapt or keep up for the time being, how can parents help the child cope with the pressure of learning? Where to start? If a child is a gifted academic master, how to support the child to go further and deeper, and how to coordinate learning, sports, and various activities? This cannot be solved by simply completing school tasks. It requires a comprehensive understanding of the child\’s overall situation and future social changes. If parents do not have a broad enough perspective, they can easily fall into the whirlpool of fractionalism. According to our observations and summary of research data, most high school students have a good family atmosphere. Their parents are very planning-minded and understand the challenges in their children\’s growth process, and give their children enough space and voice. Frequently discuss hot issues with your children and encourage them to express their opinions and opinions. You do not just require your children to follow a single standard to become what others think of as a \”good\” child. Parents need sufficient cognitive and material support to do this. Many parents come to us for consultation. From the first sentence of the consultation, I know whether they are capable of helping their children. You can see the strength of the parents in the first sentence. Many parents have a giant baby mentality, waiting for others to feed them to their mouths. They just want their children to be obedient and not cause trouble to themselves. The purpose of having children is to show their authority, because they are not recognized in society and have no competitiveness. We have a parent membership group. When many people see that they are paying, they say it is cutting leeks. They have no awareness of paying.People definitely don\’t know how to educate their children, and they don\’t want to educate their children. All their starting points are to control their children. Don\’t expect to be a top academic in such a family. The spiritual world needs material as its foundation, and the abundance of material requires a strong enough spirit.