Harvard research found that children with high IQs usually have three bad habits. Although they are difficult to raise, they will be more promising when they grow up.

Nowadays, many families have begun to raise cats and dogs, and the topic of cats and dogs frequently becomes a hot search topic. Previously, \”mentally retarded cats\” attracted much attention. In particular, the internet celebrity cats \”Donkey De Shui\” and \”Grilled Fish Fillet\” are known as the two silly cats on Douyin. Many netizens were dumbfounded by their behavior of eating cat litter and going to the toilet in cat food. But one netizen said in the comment area: \”It\’s over. My child is as stupid as a mentally retarded cat. Isn\’t my child mentally retarded?\” Mother Liu Shan\’s son Paopao is now three years and three months old. kindergarten. Before this, Liu Shan felt that children\’s acquisition of various abilities was slower than other children, such as speaking, walking, etc. At that time, Liu Shan thought she had too high demands on her children, but now that Pao is in kindergarten, the contrast with other children is even more obvious. Other children speak clearly and fluently, and are particularly agile in walking, running, jumping and other movements. Paopao, however, speaks vaguely and has a small vocabulary. He rarely speaks or actively communicates with his family. For example, as soon as Paopao got out of school, Liu Shan asked him, \”What did you eat for lunch today?\” Interest in communication. There are also some selective questions like \”Do you want to eat strawberry cake or chocolate cake?\” Liu Shan has never heard the answer from his mouth, and Paopao can only express it through actions. On the other hand, the neighbor children who are in the same class as Paopao will tell their parents what they learned and what they ate today when they go home every day. As for the child\’s mobility, it wasn\’t until Paopao was one year and four months old that he could barely walk, but he often fell. If Paopao ran a little faster, he would fall down within three seconds. Liu Shan felt that her son would fall down 100 times a day. After going to the hospital for examination, it was found that this was caused by the child\’s poor athletic ability. At the same time, because Paopao\’s lower limbs are weak, it is difficult for him to even squat in a pit to go to the toilet. Now that the kindergarten he goes to is a squat, Liu Shan is even more worried. Fortunately, the kindergarten teachers are very responsible. When the children go to the toilet, there will be teachers to help support them. In addition to the above problems, the child always behaves naively. For example, during class, he often sits motionless and does not cooperate with the teacher\’s movements. In addition to being a dull person and always in a daze, Paopao would also stare at the teacher intently. The teacher would sometimes say: \”Paopao sometimes stares at me so much that I can\’t even attend class.\” After hearing this, Liu Shan wanted to find a crack in the ground and crawl in. Because of the child\’s weird personality and Liu Shan\’s impatience, Liu Shan is usually very strict with Bubbles and has little patience. Especially after Bubbles makes a mistake, Liu Shan becomes even more impatient. I don’t know whether it is my own education method that makes the child cowardly, or the child’s nature. When Paopao is bullied outside, or if someone robs him of his things, he never resists. Before entering kindergarten, Liu Shan was worried that her child would be bullied by her classmates, and she had been hesitating whether to send her child to kindergarten. At the suggestion of a friend, Liu Shan took her child to a professional institution for an intelligence test, but the test results showed that Paopao\’s intelligence level was higher than this.children of all ages. Some people also say that the little genius Little Sheldon in the American TV series also has this kind of character. Maybe geniuses will have some symptoms of autism. After all, the genius is on the left and the madman is on the right. When Einstein was four years old, he rarely spoke, and even when he did speak, he spoke very slowly. But when he grew up, Einstein did not have a language barrier and became a genius recognized by everyone. With everyone\’s comfort, Liu Shan finally let go of her worries. Regardless of whether the child is a genius or whether the child is autistic, as long as there is no problem with the child\’s intelligence, she will guide and educate the child well. Whether their child is a smart baby is something that many parents care about. In fact, a Harvard University study found that children with high IQs can be identified as early as 3 years old, and they often have characteristics that appear to be \”bad habits.\” Harvard research found that children with high IQs often have three \”bad habits.\” Is this true of your child? ① Love to be in a daze. Daze is a way for the brain to protect and adjust itself. Whether children or adults, they will often be in a daze. A study from the University of East Anglia in the UK shows that being in a daze helps humans develop creativity and can also prompt us to solve problems rationally. Daze can also put our brains in a relaxed reaction state. At this time, our temper will be very peaceful. Appropriate daze can reduce children\’s anxiety and optimize their personality. Therefore, children who love to be dazed and distracted are not children with low IQ. On the contrary, their creativity and imagination may be richer than other children. ② Some highly sensitive children start looking for their mothers with tears in their eyes when they cannot see their parents for five minutes; some children drop \”little pearls\” crazily after being scolded by their parents; and some children drop \”little pearls\” crazily when they think they have been treated unfairly. , will produce strong resistance and even behavior. These children with rich, delicate emotions and sensitive physical senses are highly sensitive children, which is a child\’s talent. Although highly sensitive children are difficult to raise, they are smarter and more perceptive than other children, and are more likely to be successful in the future. For example, Newton, Bill Gates, Haruki Murakami, etc. are all highly sensitive people. ③Children who are talkative and like to talk have strong language expression, logical thinking, and cognitive abilities, because they like to output through language what they see, hear, and learn every day. In the process of expression, children continue to receive and organize external information, constantly think and transform, and their brains will be in an active state. Therefore, if our child’s little mouth keeps chattering all day long, we must not be annoyed. This is a sign of his strong curiosity and strong desire to express! We should use some thought to guide our children to speak well through appropriate methods and exercise their eloquence. In this way, whether the child is making friends or exploring the world in the future, he will be able to do so with ease and be liked by others. Therefore, parents should be more patient, grow up with their children, and let his little mouth become his best business card. It is written at the end that children with high IQs will have some behaviors and habits that make adults feel headaches and worry when they are three years old. Faced with these situations of children, we cannot blindly interfere or intervene. Because these may not be the children\’s shortcomings, through our manyWith education and guidance, \”shortcomings\” can also be turned into strengths, and can even stimulate children\’s potential. At each stage of growth, children\’s mental state and behavioral performance are different, and parents need to pay close attention to their changes. I believe that with our scientific education, our child will become a smart baby.