Kindergarten teacher: Type 3 parents’ “picking up their children from school” is disgusting, but they can’t explain it clearly.

Before discussing today\’s topic, let me ask you a question – how do you pick up your children when they go to kindergarten? Have you ever offended a kindergarten teacher because of this incident? Or maybe you seemed to have done so before, but you realized it later. The reason why I ask this question stems from complaints from my neighbor, who is a stay-at-home mother and her son just entered kindergarten in September this year. Since she has more free time, and she feels that she doesn’t learn much knowledge in kindergarten, her neighbor has no fixed time to pick up her children since they go to kindergarten. She can pick them up whenever she is free every afternoon or if she wants to take her children out. Sometimes one or two o\’clock, sometimes three or four o\’clock, very casual. At first, the neighbor didn\’t notice anything, but in the past week or two, she found that every time she went to pick up her child, the child\’s teacher was not as prompt as before to send the child to the kindergarten gate. Sometimes she even waited for more than half a day. When I was young, my neighbors were puzzled by this and even suspected that the teacher did it on purpose. She said that the total distance from the kindergarten classroom to the door was less than 3 minutes. Several times, the teacher delayed for more than half an hour before sending the children out, which was obviously intentional. To be honest, before my neighbor complained to me, I really didn\’t realize that my neighbor was so ignorant that he offended the kindergarten teacher without knowing anything about it. Because from a common sense point of view, she lacks basic etiquette and has no sense of time. No one would like this kind of person, let alone a kindergarten teacher who has to take care of her children at all times. I tactfully expressed my thoughts to my neighbor, and she suddenly understood and said that she would definitely pick up the children at the designated time in the garden unless there were any special circumstances in the future. After my neighbor’s experience, I discovered that picking up children from kindergarten seems simple, but in real life, there are always parents who ignore the details for various reasons, causing unnecessary trouble to teachers and kindergartens. It even disgusted the teacher, but he didn’t even know it. Therefore, today I will share with you in detail some ways of picking up children that may offend kindergarten teachers. Parents with kindergarten children are advised to take a careful look at them. If unfortunately they fall into the trap, it is recommended to correct them as soon as possible. Category 1: Parents who do not abide by the pick-up and drop-off times. When my daughter was in the kindergarten class, for a period of time, I enrolled her in a painting class, which started at 5:30 pm every day and ended at 7:00 pm. It was winter when I registered for classes, and the kindergarten ended at four o\’clock. It was just the right time to send me to the interest class after dinner. However, when the spring schedule came, the kindergarten ended at five o\’clock, and it was too late. Therefore, during that time, in order to catch up with interest classes, I went to the kindergarten to pick her up half an hour early. At first, I thought this was just a small adjustment. After all, my children’s interest classes are also very important, and it shouldn’t be a big problem if I pick them up a little early. Gradually, however, I began to notice subtle changes in the teachers. Until one day, my daughter accidentally said, Mom, the teacher said that every time you come to pick me up, it is the busiest time for her… I suddenly realized that what I did disrupted the teacher\’s plan and set a good example for other children. set a bad example. I felt deeply guilty and immediately apologized to the teacher and adjusted my child\’s interest class time. Since then, I have strictly abided by the kindergarten pick-up and drop-off times and never picked up my daughter in advance again. The teachers also resumedThe enthusiasm and kindness of the past have returned. Many parents naively believe that as long as they do not pick up their children late, they will not cause trouble to the teacher. Little do they know that their own behavior of picking up their children in advance will also disrupt the teacher\’s teaching plan, destroy the children\’s sense of rules, and have a negative impact on other children. Category 2: Parents who frequently change picking up their children. Before my daughter went to kindergarten, I thought picking up my children after school was not a very simple matter? Just go to someone and pick up the child. After my daughter went to kindergarten, I realized that picking up my child from kindergarten seemed simple, but in fact it was a huge responsibility. On the first day that my daughter went to kindergarten, the kindergarten issued a pick-up and drop-off sign to all our parents. When we picked up the child, in addition to holding the sign, we also had to get the child\’s approval before the teacher would let us go. This is to avoid misconnections or other unexpected situations. Therefore, kindergarten teachers usually hope that each child can have a fixed pick-up person, because frequent changes of pick-up persons will not only make it difficult for teachers to confirm the identity of the person picking up children, increase the workload of safety verification, but may also cause other unnecessary trouble. For example, there was a girl in my daughter\’s class. Her parents divorced, and the girl was given to her mother. She usually picked up the girl. However, one time, the child\’s grandmother picked up the child in advance, and the teacher was careless and only called the girl\’s father. , I didn’t call my mother. As a result, the child was picked up by her grandmother and was not returned to the kindergarten. As a result, the girl\’s mother was very dissatisfied and kept asking the kindergarten to take responsibility. Category 3: Parents who do not follow the pick-up and drop-off order. I remember one time when I was picking up my daughter, I witnessed such a scene with my own eyes. An old man came to pick up his child. As soon as he arrived at the entrance of the kindergarten, he shouted the child\’s name and squeezed into the crowd while shouting. As a result, his grandson heard his grandma\’s cry, broke away from the teacher\’s hand excitedly, and ran towards her. But because the old man squeezed in too hard, other children were knocked around, and the situation got out of hand. Fortunately, the teacher stopped the chaos in time, otherwise the consequences would be disastrous. In real life, some parents, especially the elderly, are often very anxious when picking up their children. They either shout their children\’s names loudly, or they completely ignore the order around them, grab the children and go home without saying hello to the teacher. This behavior seems to be just a matter of personal habits, but in fact it will make the management of the kindergarten extremely difficult, because the teacher needs to spend extra time and energy to maintain order and ensure that every child can be picked up safely and orderly. More importantly, such behavior may also attract the attention of human traffickers and bring great safety risks to children. Imagine that if a trafficker saw parents picking up their children so casually, they might mistakenly think that the kindergarten was laxly managed and take the opportunity to sneak into the campus, posing a serious threat to the safety of the children. Therefore, when we pick up children, we must stay calm and orderly, do not shout loudly or jump in line to grab children, respect the teacher, and communicate politely with the teacher. [Written at the end] As the saying goes, there is no rule without rules. Parents are the mirror of their children, and children are the shadows of their parents. Although picking up children from kindergarten seems simple, it also requires \”picking up and dropping off etiquette\”. As parents, we should try our best to follow the instructions of the kindergartenThe party requested that in addition to picking up the children at the designated location on time, we must also abide by the order when picking up the children and not linger at the gate of the kindergarten after picking up the children. Set a good example for children, cultivate their sense of rules and responsibility from an early age, and help them learn to respect others and become polite and well-educated children.