If your child is in primary school, this is better than 80% of parents

A week has passed since the cold dew, and the sun is still shining brightly without any filters. Fortunately, I feel much more comfortable than before. Walking on the way to take Xiaodou Bao to and from school, my pace became much slower. 1 In my ears I heard my younger brother chirping, a childish voice like a bird chirping, making me feel relaxed and happy. I can\’t help but think, maybe, this is what people often say: emotional value. In fact, the school is just a few steps away from the gate of the community. Children can go to and from school on their own. The school takes safety into account, and parents still need to pick up and drop off the first and second grade students. This means that there are 8 trips every day, where parents and children walk together, usually reciting ancient poems and chatting on the way to school. On the way home from school, open your ears and just listen. My younger brother is a chatterbox, and he can tell all the big and small things in the class vividly and vividly like a story, although sometimes, as his only audience, he can\’t figure out the relationship between the characters, which makes him dissatisfied. This did not dampen his interest in telling the story. On the road, I often meet classmates from my class and kindergarten. Of course, I also meet neighbors and mothers of my children’s classmates. Everyone nods and says hello. It is really a rare family time. If you can enjoy the process of getting along with each other, you will find that walking this journey together every day is quite rewarding. So if you are a parent, if you can pick up and drop off your child by yourself, don’t rely on others. Make good use of this journey. This is a rare process of nourishing the heart. The famous psychologist Professor Li Meijin once said: A healthy life requires nourishing the body, and even more, nourishing the mind. Children aged 6-7 are still very attached to their parents. The more love you give them at this time, the richer the emotional reserves in the parent-child account will be. Family love is a person\’s greatest support when facing difficulties in life. 2 There is another thing that is the most annoying thing for many dual-income families, which is the management of children at noon and evening. Especially in an old school like ours, there is no canteen or nap area. Children can only go home or attend day care. Afternoon care is somewhat better. You can have a meal and a nap, and you don’t need to spend too much energy on tutoring your children’s studies. I really don’t recommend after-school care. If you have any other options, please don’t enroll your children in after-school care. I have been in contact with hundreds of children, and through observation and investigation, I have found that almost all those children with poor study habits, swearing, perfunctory homework, illegible writing, disobedience to discipline, and other bad habits have experienced noon and evening care. Some children even stay in care for several years. Everyone knows that the first grade of elementary school is a critical period for habit formation. As long as parents are willing and go to the day care class to have a look, they will know what the real situation is. All the custodial teachers can care about is whether the tasks for the day are completed and whether they are done correctly. Responsible teachers will correct children\’s bad habits. Some teachers do more than do less. They talk too much and make children unhappy. There are also some parents who don\’t know what\’s going on in their heads. They give their children mobile phones in early grades to make excuses for themselves. They need to keep in touch with their children. Can\’t a phone watch do it? Several times I saw several children sitting outside the nursery, huddled together and playing games. I once had a conversation with a mother, and I originally wanted to persuade her to tutor her by herself instead of sending her to a daycare class. Before he could speak, the other party said: \”The tutoring homework is too tiring and annoying., to save your life! \”If you don\’t have long-term worries, you will have immediate worries! Since you have a child, you have responsibilities. If you want to save trouble, it is best not to have one. You are too lazy to worry about your own children. The daycare teacher only makes a few dollars a day for you. How much money can he give you? It’s so beautiful to think about cultivating children’s habits. Restriction means discomfort, and if you feel uncomfortable, there will be conflicts. Today’s children are very smart, and they all know that the teachers in care are not real teachers, and they lack respect for teachers. Don\’t expect them to listen to the teacher\’s instructions. 3. If your children are lazy in elementary school, they will have no chance to change when they reach senior grades. Therefore, there is a time limit for being a parent. Only when your children are in compulsory education can they be by your side. It annoys you, makes you tired, makes you mentally exhausted, and also makes you feel the steaming vitality of life. When your children go to high school, they come back once a week or two, when they go to college, they come back once every six months, and once they start working. When we come back once, we become guests. Thinking about it this way, the relationship between parents and children is actually very thin. My brother and I have a very harmonious relationship recently. As my readers know, my brother is in his teenage years. , I often complained about him in the past, although I still have a lot of problems, but every time I want to criticize him, I tell myself, just bear with it, he will leave home and live in school in more than a year. When I thought of this for the first time, I unconsciously took back the words I wanted to criticize, and my tone became much gentler. 4. No matter how hard it is to be a parent, your children will only be around for more than ten years, and they need it. We must spend as much time with our children as possible. Every family’s situation is different. If you can only cope with life by providing care for your children in the morning and evening, please go home as early as possible and take your children back after get off work to keep them company. . Every weekend, please set aside time for your children to chat, read a book, or go for a walk or play outside with them. Although the time is short, it is still a wonderful experience. Everyone knows that reading is important. When you get to senior grades, you will find that many of the questions in mathematics, history, Taoism, geography, biology, etc. are very long. If you are not good at reading, you will not be able to read the questions. Chinese is a basic subject and you want to learn it well. Chinese, reading comes first. Many parents comment on their children that they don’t like to read. I would like to ask: Do you yourself read? There are no children who don’t like to read, only parents who don’t like to read. 2024. Just go by, count how many books you have read this year? What are you doing when you ask your children to read? Playing on your mobile phone, watching short videos, watching TV shows? 5 Parents who accompany their children to read in person? I have this experience that even though my child is young, reading some picture book stories to him can calm him down and listen to him with gusto. Of course, reading to children is indeed an all-consuming task. In my experience, if you want to It takes at least three or four years of hard work to raise a child who loves reading. When my younger brother was about one year old, I started reading to him. At that time, I had to read a book several times, and after reading one book, I had to listen to another one, sometimes the same book. It makes me want to vomit after reading this story. Looking back at it now, in the past few years, I read it every night with a candle, my mouth was dry and my chest was dry.It\’s worth it to read it yourself. Now that my brother has achieved independent reading, what we need to continue to do is to select good books for him and guide him to read widely. Although my younger brother can already read by himself, he still occasionally acts coquettishly and asks us to read to him. In order to exercise his reading ability and cultivate his sense of language, he reads one or two paragraphs each time, and we read the rest. In short, if you are a parent of Primary One, you have provided effective companionship, including communication to answer questions, homework guidance, habit development, parent-child reading… I believe you have surpassed 80% of the parents around you. The rest is perseverance and perseverance day after day. Anyway, there are no shortcuts to raising children!