To parents: On the road to education, no matter how good the teacher is, nothing can match the words and deeds of parents (worth reading for all parents)

There is a saying that goes like this: \”If family education lacks a foundation, even if school education is flourishing, it will be in vain.\” In the picture of a child\’s growth, parents are the initial and most critical background. We must know that the outlet for education lies in school, but the starting point and starting point must be at home. Whether a child can become a talented person or not depends on the parents! 01 A child is a mirror that reflects the true face of his or her parents. It is said that a child is a mirror that reflects the true face of his or her parents. I watched a video like this before, which made me deeply aware of the serious consequences that parents’ wrong education methods can bring. The cause of the incident is simple. A pair of parents took their three-year-old daughter to KFC for a meal. When her mother picked up a French fries, her daughter immediately expressed dissatisfaction and kept muttering \”Mom is greedy.\” She even stepped forward and took the French fries from her mother\’s hand and put them back. However, when the father tried to get the fries, the daughter did not refuse. Instead, she thoughtfully suggested that the father eat them with sauce. When the mother tried to pick up the fries again, her daughter started crying. … You must know that children will observe and imitate the behavior of their parents, thereby forming their own values ​​and behavior patterns. When we show patience and care to our children, they learn how to love others; when we lead by example and convey honesty and integrity, they learn how to stick to their principles; and when we show perseverance and courage in the face of difficulties, They learned how to persevere in the face of adversity. However, if we treat life perfunctorily, lack a sense of responsibility, or lose control of our emotions, this mirror will also truthfully reflect back and affect the child\’s character formation and values. Parents, please remember that parents’ words and deeds affect their children’s growth all the time. 02 Teachers can only accompany their children for one journey. Parents are the class teachers who will never retire! On the road of education, teachers are like a temporary guide, leading the children through a specific learning path. They impart knowledge, answer doubts, and use wisdom and love to light up the beacon for children to move forward. However, this companionship is limited after all. With the change of school years, the fate between teachers and children will also usher in the moment of farewell. The role of a teacher is more like a conductor on a train, accompanying passengers through a journey, and then waving goodbye at a certain stop, continuing their work, and welcoming the next group of passengers. In contrast, parents are the class teachers who will never retire in their children\’s lives. From the moment their children are born, until their wings are full and they fly into the sky of their own, parents always play the most important and irreplaceable role. They are not only witnesses of children\’s growth, but also a haven for children\’s souls. No matter how big the storms they encounter, they can find comfort and strength here. Parents’ education is not only the transfer of knowledge, but also the exchange of emotions, the shaping of values, and the inheritance of life wisdom. Teachers, like the bright meteors in the night sky, can only illuminate the short journey of children, but leave eternal memories and inspiration; parents, like the eternal lighthouses, always stand regardless of the changes in wind and rain, serving as the basis for their children.The child guides the direction and is the head teacher who never retires, silently guarding and selflessly devoting; in the child\’s growth picture, the teacher is the bright color, adding to the scenery, while the parents are the delicate brushstrokes, outlining the outline and giving life! 03 Without a good family education, no matter how good the school education is, it is useless. They say: children are like a blank piece of paper. If only school education strives to paint a blueprint of knowledge and morality, but lacks the important background of family, then these colors will appear thin and fragile. You must know that the family is the cradle where children first come into contact with society and learn behavioral norms. If the right seeds are not sown here, no matter how rich the nutrients and careful cultivation the school provides, the lack of self-discipline, respect, responsibility and other personality cornerstones will make the child stumble on the road to the future. As the famous educator Chen Heqin said: \”Family education is the foundation of all education.\” Without good family education, it is like a garden without fertile soil. No matter how carefully watered the school education is, the flowers will not bloom brilliantly; family, as a child The atmosphere of the first small society that they come into contact with, the way parents get along with each other, and even every minute living habit, all invisibly shape the child\’s character and values! 04 The best education is the words and deeds of parents! I read this question: How much influence do parents have on the formation of their children’s outlook on life? One of them answered like this: \”As I entered my 20s, I suddenly realized that the bits and pieces of my complaints, the tone of my words, and even the expressions on my face were all strikingly similar to those of my family. At that moment, I felt a deep feeling. A sense of powerlessness came to my mind. \”It turns out that the three views of parents invisibly outline the outline of their children\’s future 20 years later. Every child who enters adulthood under the baptism of time will inevitably reveal the shadow of his or her parents in every gesture, whether deep or shallow, becoming an indelible part of their life imprint. If school education is a window for children to acquire knowledge and gives them the courage and ability to explore the world, then family education is the door that opens the door for children to grow, leading them to step out of themselves and bravely face every challenge in life. Just like the spring rain, it moistens things silently, nourishing the young hearts of children, allowing them to learn how to behave and how to face the challenges of life in a subtle way! Written at the end: In fact, the best education is the words and deeds of parents. No matter how important school education and social education are, family education always plays a decisive role. It is like a compass for children\’s growth, leading them in the right direction, making them more determined and confident every step they take. Under the nourishment of family education, children can develop in an all-round way. They not only possess rich knowledge and skills, but also have sound personalities and noble moral qualities, laying a solid foundation for their future. Dear parents, no matter how good the teacher is, nothing can compare to your words and deeds!