The class teacher concluded: It is difficult for children who are constantly being pushed to learn to be conscious! If you want to awaken your child’s inner drive, you need to do these 3 things

During home visits every year, many parents will talk about the same thing: Teacher, why is my child so unconscious? Every morning I have to get up, wash my face, and eat. I don’t have much time when I wake up in the morning, so every day’s grinding and grinding are spent on internal consumption. The same goes for doing homework at night. I yelled several times before I sat down at the desk. I just took out my homework, drank water for a while, and had to go to the toilet again. I yell every day until my voice becomes hoarse, but the child still goes his own way. How can we cultivate the child\’s consciousness? In fact, the child is not self-conscious because his internal drive is not enough. If you want your child to be self-conscious, you must first cultivate his internal drive. The following are 3 suggestions for cultivating children\’s internal drive: Let children have the right to make independent choices. Speaking of the right to make independent choices, many parents will say, what if the child chooses not to study if he is allowed to choose independently? In fact, every child has a strong self-esteem and they are willing to achieve good results through their own efforts. Even the children with the lowest grades still long for themselves to be able to achieve excellent results every time like top academics. For example, when it comes to morning reading, parents can discuss with their children: Starting from today, start reading a Chinese text for 3 minutes in the morning. If you persist throughout the week, your child will be able to fulfill a small wish on the weekend. If the child doesn’t want to read Chinese, how about discussing reading English? If he doesn’t want to read English, you can let him choose his favorite extracurricular books. As long as they choose their favorite reading material, no matter what it is, let your children stick to it first. Many times, children will return to textbooks while reading, because they know very well that as students, if they study well, they will be liked by teachers and classmates. Every child wants to get good grades in exams and become a member of the class. The academic master. Parents must not get into confrontation with their children. If their children don’t want to read Chinese textbooks, they must force them to read. Instead of forcing them to read, it is better to let their children calm down and concentrate on reading books that interest them. Set goals and take morning reading as an example. If a child can spare 3 minutes to read a text every day, he will feel the inner changes in himself after a month. Questions that teachers could not ask in class before can now be answered. Because there are no difficult questions in primary school, especially in the lower grades. As long as the textbooks are thoroughly understood, all problems can be easily solved. If you persist in this way, your children will become more confident and their willingness to learn will become stronger and stronger. After developing the habit of morning reading in Chinese, the next step can be to add morning reading in English. Many parents will say that their children cannot learn English or remember words, so they might as well set goals with their children. Spend 5 minutes every morning to concentrate on memorizing words, and strengthen your memory according to the law of forgetting curve. In less than a month, you will be able to master all the words you have learned. Then read the text, so that after one semester, the child will go home with satisfactory results, and parents can enter the next goal plan with their child. When setting goals, each goal should be simple and easy to achieve, so that it is easier for children to take action. Encourage children\’s curiosity. Children are born with a strong curiosity about many unknown things, and many times they are suppressed by their parents without knowing it. for exampleSometimes, children want to discuss a plot on TV that they don’t understand with their parents. The parent said angrily: Hurry up and eat! I watch TV every day! If you spend half of your energy watching TV on homework, you won’t end up doing homework until midnight every day! In fact, parents don’t know that any issue that a child doesn’t know about is learning with his or her parents. Besides, it doesn’t take too long to discuss a problem. If parents can patiently listen to their children, help them analyze, and satisfy their children’s curiosity, the children will easily sit down at the dining table and finish eating as quickly as possible. Will enter the state of writing homework with the encouragement and recognition of parents. Many parents do the opposite and criticize their children first, and then the children will be in no mood to eat and eat slowly. Parents will urge them to eat quickly and do homework as soon as possible. In this state, how can children calm down and concentrate when facing homework? Children with curiosity often have stronger initiative and enthusiasm in learning. They can easily think proactively when faced with problems and ask a few questions why. They can deeply understand knowledge and are good at discovering and solving problems. Children with curiosity are more likely to achieve excellent academic results. Written at the end, if you want to awaken your children’s inner drive, parents must learn to give positive feedback. Encourage children more, let them have the power to make their own choices, satisfy their curiosity as much as possible, and encourage them to ask more questions about why. In this way, children will become self-disciplined unconsciously, thus enhancing their desire to learn.