When the child is willful and rebellious, this father\’s approach is too warm

Author: Shin Hyun-jung (Korea) Click-click-click-the glacier cracked. Using only a few onomatopoeias, the story cleverly captures the child\’s attention. In this world of ice and snow, in the corner where the text appears, a little red dot caught our attention. What is it? Click-click-click-the glacier continued to crack, and a family of penguins appeared in front of us, fishing. And that little red one is a strawberry. \”Dad, what is this?\” \”Children, this is a strawberry.\” Dad Penguin replied. The close-up of bright red strawberries appears in front of readers, which is full of temptation for us, not to mention the baby penguins who have never seen strawberries before? The baby penguins tasted strawberries and were so happy. This was their first time eating strawberries! The three baby penguins were immediately immersed in the sweet sea of ​​strawberries, \”Sweet and juicy!\” \”Soft, it melts in your mouth!\” \”Wow, the red strawberries are so delicious!\” Ever since they ate the sweet strawberries, the baby penguins have been thinking about strawberries all day long. When walking with mom and dad, all they can think about is strawberries, and when fishing, the fish all look like delicious strawberries. The imaginative author interprets \”a head full of strawberries\” in this way, which is full of childishness. When playing with building blocks, building strawberries, drawing pictures, reading books, playing with toys, everything is inseparable from strawberries. Even their chubby friends also become strawberries in their hearts. Even when I go to bed at night, it seems like there are strawberries floating all over the room. Every day, every day, the baby penguin thinks about strawberries, those red, sweet strawberries. A big circle intuitively expresses the penguin babies’ expectations and fantasies about strawberries. The baby penguins want to eat all kinds of strawberries, which is unbearable. From language, to pictures, to colors! I even started crying while talking. \”Strawberry, strawberry…\” So, the penguin father began to think of a solution. He went to the market to buy it, but there was none. He made a giant strawberry ice cube. He dressed up as a strawberry. But the kids didn\’t buy it. \”Listen, kids. Strawberries grow in warm places, far, far away from us. You can\’t find strawberries in our ice and snow kingdom.\” Dad explained anxiously to the children. But the baby penguins didn\’t listen to their father. They kept shouting for strawberries. \”I won\’t listen, I won\’t listen!\” \”I just really, really want to eat strawberries!\” They are just a bunch of willful little devils. What will dad do? \”Okay, then I\’ll go to a warm country to look for it!\” the penguin father said loudly to the children. \”Dad, is it true?\” \”Of course!\” \”Great!\” The father penguin stroked the little penguin that jumped on his head and straightened his chest, which was awe-inspiring. So, he set out with his oversized backpack. He took big steps, one step at a time. He brought a map, an umbrella, a tent, and a family photo. He set off with full love and expectations. Watching the scene of Father Penguin leaving with an oversized backpack, I couldn\’t help but think of Zhu Ziqing\’s \”Back\”… Crunch – Crunch – Mr. Big Black walked through the white ice and snow road, walking, walking… Father Penguin was walking in the giant in the wavesSwimming across the deep blue sea; climbing up the cliff in the cold wind; finally arriving in a warm country and finding the strawberry field. In the background of the double-page spread, the background of the penguin father is always in the upper right corner, and there is a small clue buried in each picture, hinting at what he will experience next, which will greatly increase the attraction of the child. Then, a small red dot swayed on the sea from far to near, and made a whining sound, like a group of lions roaring. Scared the mother penguin and the baby penguins. what is it? Bang bang! It\’s dad! The penguin father proudly stood on the boat, facing the wind, his tie fluttering, and he came back with his child\’s dream! Seeing this, Dan\’s mother couldn\’t help but feel excited: Daddy Penguin is so handsome! Not to mention the kids. What I especially want to draw your attention to is that the little fish on the strawberry has a little peach heart. Now, do you know what a title page is? Father Penguin built a big strawberry garden at home and planted many sweet strawberries. From then on, their family can eat strawberries every day. How happy they are! The penguin father grows strawberries, the penguin mother makes various strawberry dishes, and the penguin babies draw strawberries… plus a group of penguins\’ warm life, it\’s a perfect ending. However, the imaginative author allowed the baby penguins to discover a pineapple at the end of the story. So, a new story begins. The story seems to be finished, but it will never be finished. How will the story develop next? Just ask your children. The father\’s warmth and bravery in the story deeply moved me. What do we usually do when faced with children’s willful behavior? Some parents will choose to accommodate their children and endure it silently, while others will choose to confront their children head-on with a tough attitude. But what did this gentle penguin do? Faced with the children\’s wishes \”immediately\”, he tried to understand the children, instead of using an \”adult-style\” method to absolutely deny it, and he did not use the authority of his parents to solve it violently, but instead used a more… Face these problems with a positive attitude. He bravely faced such a battle for his child\’s little dream. Cross glaciers, swim across the sea, and climb cliffs, just to fulfill a child\’s little dream. Will such a good father be liked and admired by his children? A picture book can make children feel their father\’s love, and also allow fathers to see their children and better examine their own role in parent-child education. That is enough!