Does your child call you \”Mom, Mom, or Mom\”? Don’t underestimate the difference between one word and one word. In fact, the difference is quite big.

The greatest person in the world is our mother. Children often call their mothers nothing more than \”Mom\”, \”Mom\”, \”Mom\”, etc. These names seem to be the same, and they are all names used by children to their mothers in life, but taste them carefully. , the difference is not small. 01What do your children call you? Before many mothers discovered that the evolution of their children\’s names for themselves was surprisingly similar, they saw a message on the Internet that the state of Massachusetts in the United States passed a bill that would ban the use of the title \”mother\” and use \”childbirth person\” instead. ” instead of “mother”. After seeing this news, I felt really incredible. Unlike the United States, our country\’s culture is full of respect for mothers, so there are many affectionate names for mothers. For example, \”Mom\”, \”Mom\”, \”Mom\”, etc. Different titles will really bring different feelings to people. \”When I picked up my baby from school, my heart melted when I heard my baby calling me mommy.\” A mother said that her child is in kindergarten, and every day when she hears her child calling her mommy, she feels warm in her heart. It\’s warm, I really can\’t describe the feeling. When the child calls him mother, he is full of protective desire for the child and feels that the child is very cute. It seems that there is nothing more adorable than a child in the world. \”My child has always called me mom, and has never called me anything else.\” It seems that this mother is very satisfied with the way her child calls her. \”Our children have always called me Mom,\” the mother said, and laughed, seeming to be very satisfied with the title. \”Before this, the children still called me \’Mom\’. \”Before, I was called \’Mom\’, but I don\’t remember exactly when I changed my name.\” The mother seemed to think that the three names the child used to call her were pretty good. \”To be honest, when my child changed his name, I was really uncomfortable with loving you for a long time, but now I feel that any of these three names are very good and useful.\” \”The same is true for our children. \”, a mother said immediately after hearing it. \”When the child was very young, he called me mom, but as he got older, it seemed that he started to call me mom when he was in late elementary school,\” the mother thought as she spoke, seemingly unsure of her own memory. Not so sure. \”It seems that the children\’s names have evolved in a similar way,\” another mother also said, \”Our children are also like this. When they were very young, they called me mom. When they got older, they called me mom. Later, they just called me old. Damn it.\” As she spoke, the mother seemed to be feeling very emotional, \”When the children called me mommy, it was still when they were in kindergarten or elementary school. The children at that time looked very cute and clingy to me, but I couldn\’t. I don’t feel bored, but enjoy this feeling.” Later, when my child was about to enter junior high school, he started to call me mom. The changes during this period were really difficult for me to accept. I always felt that the word \”mom\” was missing and it didn\’t sound so pleasant to my ears. The relationship between the child and me has faded. But listen.I got used to it. After that, the mother seemed to be thinking of something sad, \”But after my child came to live in high school, the name he called me changed again. He started calling me \’Mom\’. In fact, I am not old. My child called me that, Makes me feel as if I\’m old. \”However, after listening to it for a while, I felt that the title \’Mom\’ seemed to contain a lot of emotions. I felt that the relationship between me and my child was closer, and the touching of my soul was deeper.\” \”In fact, many people may find that children\’s names for their mothers will change, and this change is also surprisingly similar. Almost all children change their names when they are very young, such as infancy and preschool. And in the early elementary school years, most children will call their mothers \”Mom\” in life. By the late elementary school and junior high school years, most children will change their name to \”Mom\”, and some children will change their name to \”Mom\” when they reach high school and college. At this stage, the name will be changed to \”Mom\”. So, why does this happen? 02 Why does the child\’s name for his mother evolve from \”Mom\” to \”Mom\” and then to \”Mom\”. ? The reason is unexpected, but it is reasonable. The reason why most children will gradually evolve in calling their mothers is actually because the children\’s psychological development at each stage is different, which leads to the children\’s different attitudes toward their mothers. Emotional cognition has changed. 1) Young children often call their mothers \”Mom\” because they need a sense of security. The reason why children call their mothers \”Mom\” when they are young is because when they first learn to call their mothers, they learn to call them \”Mom\”. The second reason is that the child is accustomed to using repeated words, so the mother is more in line with the child\’s language characteristics. However, the most critical factor why children in early childhood call their mother mother is because \”mother\” can bring things to the child. A stronger sense of security. When a child calls \”Mom\”, because the word \”Mom\” sounds repetitive, it makes the child feel that he is in a high-frequency state for his mother\’s call, and the high-frequency call is more effective. Let the mother arrive faster, so calling the mother \”Mom\” can give the child more psychological security. 2) Children in childhood often call the mother \”Mom\”, which represents the beginning of the child\’s independence. The process of changing the child\’s name for his mother from \”Mom\” to \”Mom\” actually requires a lot of courage on the part of the child, because the name \”Mom\” potentially represents the child\’s independence, and the child will only stop treating his mother. Only when you are overly dependent will you have the courage to call your mother this way. At this time, the child is trying to explore his own life and try to be on the same level as his parents. Therefore, the child\’s calling his mother \”Mom\” also includes the child\’s. Confidence and desire for growth. At the same time, when children call their mothers \”Mom\”, they actually want to gain more recognition from their mothers, so that they can gain recognition from their parents. 3) Children in adolescence begin to call their mothers \”Mom\”. , is the germination of their own sense of responsibility. When children grow up, they often change their name to their mother to \”Mom\”. Such a title seems to have a bit of ridicule at first glance.Many parents are uncomfortable with it for a while and feel that their children are disrespecting them. In fact, in the eyes of children, the title \”Mom\” is a sign that they are closer to their mother and have a deeper relationship. When a child calls his mother \”Mom\”, it means that the child not only believes that he has basic independent abilities, but also feels that he should start to be responsible for his family and his parents. Moreover, in life, we may find that the children\’s words and deeds will change. The child who could only rely on his parents in the past seems to become the mainstay of the family overnight. 03How should the child’s name for his mother change? We must pay attention to these points to avoid \”mental internal friction\” and maintain emotional stability. Many parents will show great mood swings when they find that their children\’s names for themselves have changed. This is actually wrong. For example, there was a mother who felt sad because her child\’s name for her changed from \”Mom\” to \”Mom\”. She felt that her child had grown up, had hardened wings, and no longer needed her, so she even changed the name of herself. It started to be streamlined. This mother had major mood swings, and she was extremely pessimistic. Before she could figure out the real reason for the change in the child\’s name for her mother, she began to suffer from \”mental internal exhaustion\” and seriously depleted her own energy. , this is very bad. Therefore, when we find that the child\’s name for himself has changed, we must pay attention to maintaining emotional stability, accept the change of the child\’s name for himself, and don\’t think too much. ◎Recognize the deeper meaning of the change of name. If the child\’s name changes, as a mother, in addition to stabilizing her emotions and accepting it calmly, she also needs to pay attention to an important issue, which is the child\’s growth stage. The change in the child\’s name for the mother represents a staged change in the child\’s psychological development. For example, when a child calls his mother from \”Mom\” to \”Mom\”, it represents the child\’s growth and that the child is in the enlightenment stage of independence. At this time, parents should pay attention to appropriately changing their tutoring methods to suit the child\’s growth. Features. For example, show more respect to children, know how to point out children\’s mistakes in a more tactful way, protect children\’s self-confidence and enthusiasm, etc. And when the child\’s name for his mother changes from \”Mom\” to \”Mom\”, we also need to know that when the child wants to take on family responsibilities, his mentality has become \”adult\”. At this time, we should pay attention to maintaining \”equality\” with our children, understand them better, and know how to look at problems from their perspective. At the same time, you also need to be prepared to \”wipe your child\’s butt\”. After all, although the child at this time thinks that he is an adult, some of the child\’s abilities may not be \”up to standard.\” 04Written at the end, although the children may have different names for their mothers, their feelings for their mothers have always been deep. Therefore, mothers should pay attention to accepting changes in their children\’s names for themselves. So, what do your children usually call mom? Do you think the change in the child\’s name for his mother representsWhat are you wearing?