First grade primary school students: What kind of parents do children need?

01 As parents, we always hope that our children can achieve success and go further on the road of learning. To put it simply, we hope that our children will work hard to get into an ideal university, seek more opportunities for self-development, and start their own career. Many parents have such misunderstandings: learning is the child\’s own business, and poor performance is the result of the child\’s lack of effort; children do not learn well because the teacher does not teach well, etc. These extreme and wrong views completely shirk the responsibility of parents and seriously affect the growth and progress of their children. There may even be more serious consequences, such as conflicts between parents and children, conflicts between parents and teachers, etc. In fact, the growth of an outstanding child is inseparable from the following three factors: first, the child\’s own efforts; second, the efforts of the school and teachers; and third, the efforts of the parents. These three factors are interrelated and are all very important and can be said to be indispensable. 02 Now, from the perspective of parents, let me talk about what kind of parents children need. 1. Stable and harmonious family relationships. The family is the soil for children to grow up healthily. Harmonious and good family relationships have a huge impact on children. A child raised by a happy family loves life, loves learning, is proactive, healthy and sunny, civilized, polite, and knows how to treat and respect others well. Isn’t this kind of child what our parents expect? There is a saying that good parents are better than good teachers. A child\’s first teacher in life is his parents. Every word, deed, and action of parents in front of their children affects their children. At the same time, parents’ attitude towards learning also determines their children’s attitude towards learning. Of course, attitude alone is not enough, you must also take action. 2. A good family learning atmosphere. The learning atmosphere plays an important role in promoting children\’s learning. Ever since my children went to school, home has been defined by evenings, weekends, and holidays. If parents can study, read, grow and pursue progress with their children in this limited time, it will be of great help and influence to their children. A parent who loves reading and learning will definitely have good children. 3. Respect and guide children. As parents, we should neither pamper our children nor harshly criticize them, but should be good at communicating with them on an equal footing. Speaking of coddling, I want to talk about the use and impact of electronic products. Today\’s electronic products have completely changed our lifestyle. It is a double-edged sword. If used and controlled well, electronic products can better help children broaden their learning horizons. For example, look for information, and then take some necessary online courses. But if it is not well controlled, it may seriously affect children\’s learning and even physical and mental health. Many children have never been able to improve their academic performance. Here we parents have to ask ourselves, where do our children spend a lot of time after returning home? Have you ever played mobile games? Once a child becomes addicted to playing games, it will be very difficult for parents to control it later. There is a common misunderstanding here, that is, playing mobile games is to let children rest and relax. This view is wrong. Playing mobile gamesPlaying is definitely not about relaxation and rest, but an overdraft of time and energy. Therefore, allowing children to play mobile games is actually a kind of doting. This kind of behavior is the responsibility and problem of parents. 4. Trust and encourage children. It is normal for children\’s grades to fluctuate. When children temporarily fall behind in performance, what they need most is the encouragement and support of their parents. At this point, parents play a key role. Parents must provide psychological counseling and communication. Avoid blind attacks and neglect. I have personal experience of this myself. Getting angry and scolding will only bring harm to the child. 03 Children\’s growth requires their own efforts, the education and guidance of school teachers, and the support from their parents. I hope that parents will start from themselves on the basis of the existing situation, pay more attention to their children\’s status and changes, communicate more with their children, ask teachers for advice humbly, be a good parent who continues to grow and progress, and be a true parent on the road to children\’s growth. supporters and devotees. Time is silent, waiting for the flowers to bloom.