Feel free to spoil me, but if you spoil me, it’s up to me! Take a look at these 11 things to do with your children. How many do you know?

Recently, I was struck by a video that warmed my heart: There is such a father who records his daughter on the first day of school every year. This unshakable thing he did for 12 years until finally, his daughter graduated from high school. The father made a video of these 12 years of interviews to celebrate his daughter’s graduation. Having such a father is such a blessing! There is no need to beat your chest and regret that you did not give your child such a thoughtful \”gift\”. In fact, you have inadvertently \”spoiled\” your child to heaven. The following 11 \”spoiling\” things give your children a sparkling childhood. See which ones do you have? 1. The mobile phone camera is filled with images of children’s growth. Two sons, Yutaka Nagano, and the growth story of a little girl through the lens of Hideaki Hamada. Mirai-chan of Kawashima Kotori’s family. Don’t worry if you don’t have skilled photography skills. Children are inherently moving emoticons! ☞The most indispensable thing for parents is their children\’s growth. Photos or videos are just for commemoration and sharing. Looking back will bring back full of memories. 2. Go crazy with your children. American girl Layla is an introverted child. By chance, she put on a Disney princess costume and became happy and outgoing. Since her daughter liked it so much, her mother was unequivocal. The mother and daughter made the cosplay costumes by themselves. They performed classic fairy tales one after another and couldn\’t stop at all. My daughter plays the princess, and my mother has to play the role of the evil witch, which is a huge sacrifice. ☞The support parents give their children virtually builds mutual trust and brings them closer together. 3. Take over your child’s bedtime every night. With books as a bond of affection and a medium of communication, bedtime stories are a great way for parents and children to read together. ☞Little babies can be read and listened to by their parents. Older children can try to look at pictures and tell stories by themselves, and gradually transition to various forms such as making up stories together or parents sharing their insights on reading. 4. Never missed a parent-teacher meeting, parent-child activity or school performance. Child performing at school? That parent wants to be a loyal fan, tearing down his face and shouting loudly in the audience. Parent-child activities at your child’s school? Then cut your IQ in half and be a child for a day. ☞Parent meetings and parent-child activities are the most intuitive way to understand children’s collective life. Children also like to feel their parents’ participation and their own importance. 5. The happiest thing about cooking delicious meals for your children is waking up in the morning with the aroma of food filling the air. The most delicious food is the food cooked by your mother. ☞For working mothers, cooking for the family every day is really a luxury. Then there is no need to blame yourself for it occasionally. In addition to the food, the children feel sincerity and care. 6. Allow children to doodle and keep their works. Sun Li previously posted photos of her children graffiti on the wall on Weibo, with the following text: \”In the past, when I tried to stop them, Mr. Deng would stop me and said not to affect their creation. The wallpaper could be changed, but the inspiration was wiped out. If you drop it, it will be gone. It’s right to think about it, so now we have a lot of limited-edition graffiti furniture in our house.” ☞Moms who love tidiness still can’t look directly at this, why not use graffiti boards, drawing boards, or large draft papers to let their children fully understand Use your imagination. 7. The cupboards at home are covered with ice cream and candies.If you can control your children from eating sweets since childhood, you must be a good father and a good mother! Who hasn’t been surrounded by summer popsicles and sweet toffee in their childhood? Candy and ice cream are not heinous devils. Wouldn\’t it be worse if a child cannot get satisfaction from his parents and instead takes the candy from a stranger? ☞It is better to treat candies or ice cream as small blessings in life for children. As long as they don’t eat too much, parents don’t need to be overly nervous. 8. Don’t think that children are ignorant when you drag your children’s friends to play with you. You will find that their inner world is extremely rich. Children’s circle is like a reduced version of adults, and they should also have their own social circle. Drag your child\’s best friends to play together to make your child feel brighter. ☞It seems that parents organize children to play, but in fact they also teach children how to get along with others, maintain friendships, and behave in society. 9. Allow children to keep pets. Children and pets are two of the most difficult creatures to hold in the world, but when these two creatures collide, there will definitely be different sparks. Parents who allow their children to keep pets must be extremely tolerant. ☞Keeping a pet may seem like a very annoying thing, but it can indeed cultivate children\’s love and sense of responsibility. However, you must first establish rules with your children. Once the pet is brought home, it becomes part of the family. Parents can be assistants, but children One needs to take primary responsibility for taking care of it. 10. Organizing birthday parties for children does not require a lot of fanfare every birthday, but life needs to have a sense of ritual, which is a kind of faith and a love for life. ☞Plan a birthday carefully for your child, and this love and solemnity for life will be passed on to your child. It’s also a good idea to get your kids involved and do the planning yourself. 11. Have a phone in your child’s room. Placing a phone in your child’s room is definitely the best sign of trust in your child, especially older children who need to communicate, study, and even chat with their classmates to relieve stress. ☞If you give your child the right to make phone calls in his private space, then parents should never try to eavesdrop on their child’s conversation. This is no different from peeking into a diary. It may instantly collapse the respect and trust that you have worked so hard to build.