The female chief executive of Hong Kong, who was born into a poor family, sent her two sons to Cambridge. Her views on education are worth appreciating

She is the female chief executive of Hong Kong, she is a female academic who was born in a tenement building, she is her husband\’s little girl, she is a cheongsam lover who loves beauty, she sent her two sons to Cambridge University… She is Carrie Lam. Carrie Lam Cheng Yuet-ngor was born in a poor family in a tenement house. After ten years of hard study, she was admitted to the University of Hong Kong. After graduation, she entered the Hong Kong government system. In her nearly 37 years of public service, she is recognized as a \”strong woman\” and \”firefighting captain\”. She has held 20 different government positions. With her outstanding political achievements, she has gradually become the female chief executive of Hong Kong. It can be said that she is a TV drama. A standard story of the struggle of a strong woman. Moreover, while her career was successful, she had a happy family and sent both of her sons to Cambridge University. Children always come first and never hire a nanny. Carrie Lam said that children have different needs at different stages of growth. “When they are young, they need the care and attention of their parents, and time is essential. So I never hire overseas helpers. This will allow She is \’disciplined\’ and gets off work on time to take care of her two sons.\” She does everything herself, including cooking, because she thinks it is very important for children to feel that their mother is taking care of them. Especially when children are young, they must see their mother and know that her mother puts them in the most important position. When she was the Director of Social Welfare, there were many charity galas and fund-raising activities, and she promoted them all in order to have dinner with her family every night and spend more time with them. She said that only in this way can mothers and children establish a close relationship. Although her two sons are older, 26 and 23 years old, they are still very close to her. Especially the eldest son, who has to talk to her almost every day to feel more comfortable. Become friends with your children and let them go through their experiences. Carrie Lam suggested that when children are a little older, they should communicate with each other on an equal footing and do not lecture them in an adult tone (the important point is, this is when the children are older, not when they are still young). \”When we were teenagers, it was completely different from today. We didn\’t have access to the Internet at that time and the knowledge we absorbed was limited. But now teenagers know what is happening in the world every day.\” She said that to achieve family cohesion, the key is to \”talk together\” , listen together, discuss and discuss.\” If parents can understand their children more from their perspective, their children will not only feel the warmth of the family, but will also be more willing to share and spend time with their families. Now that children are older and want to get along with each other as friends, parents must also learn to let go and let their children learn and experience. Carrie Lam has always believed: \”Children will learn on their own. You just need to provide them with an inspiring and satisfying environment, and they will learn on their own. Especially today with the development of the Internet, you don\’t need to instill knowledge. Instead, you need to cultivate enthusiasm and motivation to pursue knowledge.\” She also said with a smile that of course she would be worried when her children said they wanted to go out to explore the world, but she knew that no matter what, she had to let them go and let them broaden their horizons. She also believes that parents\’ excessive concern will cause invisible pressure on their children. In today\’s developed era, distance is not a problem, as long as there is a sincere intention, communication will not be hindered. Love between husband and wife is the best education for children. Carrie Lam and her husband Lin Zhaobo have loved and supported each other for decades, creating a warm and loving family environment for their two sons. If you have children who love bathing, it won’t be a bad idea. Carrie LamThe acquaintance process between Yue\’e and her husband Lin Zhaobo was very dramatic. In the early 1980s, Carrie Lam was sent to study at the University of Cambridge in England. She had an accident while riding a bicycle. She was sent to the hospital and was reported by local newspapers. At that time, Lin Zhaobo was a doctoral student studying mathematics in Cambridge. After seeing the report, he asked several other Hong Kong classmates to visit him, and the two got to know each other. In 1984, the two got married in Hong Kong, and Zheng Yuet-ngor officially became Carrie Lam (every time I see people from Hong Kong and Taiwan using their husband\’s surname, I don\’t think it means that men are superior to women, but it is a woman\’s greatest recognition of her husband). Later, she joined the government and was very busy at work. Lin Zhaobo fully supported his wife\’s work. Just like this time when Carrie Lam participated in the election, Lin Zhaobo posted a love letter on Facebook on Valentine\’s Day: \”Our hearts are connected, and my support for you is unlimited.\” For example, when Carrie Lam was busy with government affairs, he quietly assumed the responsibility of taking care of his two sons at home. However, Carrie Lam said, \”In fact, I ask him every time I make a decision. In fact, I am just a little woman.\” Being yourself is the best role model. In the eyes of Carrie Lam\’s friends, she is \”noble and empathetic.\” Heartfelt, kind, considerate, and funny,\” this will surely have a positive impact on her children in a subtle way. These qualities are rooted in her growth and struggle experiences in the past few decades. Carrie Lam was originally from Ningbo. She was born in Hong Kong in 1957 and grew up in a boardroom in a tenement house in Wan Chai. Tenement houses are buildings without elevators and flushing toilets; cubicle houses are \”group rental houses\” that are being renovated in the Mainland. The hardships of family life made her work harder. She once said with a smile that she came first in exams almost every year. She only came in fourth in mid-term exams once. She felt it was a huge setback and cried when she went home. In this way, she studied hard for ten years, excelled in academics, and was admitted to the University of Hong Kong with excellent results. Carrie Lam said that her character was deeply influenced by her mother. My mother was responsible for the family\’s daily life and food. My grandmother, grandmother, and father suffered strokes one after another, and it was my mother who was responsible for taking care of them, working hard and without complaint. Although her mother had no academic qualifications, she insisted on finding a good school for her daughter within her ability. Mother guided Carrie Lam, and Carrie Lam passed on this love, profoundly affecting her children. Career, marriage, and children are all taken care of, but Carrie Lam still has not forgotten that she is a \”little woman.\” She loves cheongsam and wears it to every formal occasion. She was a regular customer of a cheongsam shop in Central and made an average of seven or eight sets of cheongsam every year. Summary I have seen many mothers’ successful parenting experiences and shared many of them. They have different backgrounds and different parenting styles, but they reach the same goal by different paths. They all strive to create the best learning and growth environment for their children and lay the solid foundation of character for their lifelong success. Especially in terms of parenting styles, they are not the same. It can be said that each has his or her own tricks, but some commonalities can still be found: taking care of children is a hands-on job, because a harmonious parent-child relationship is the basis of all parenting; parents love each other, which is the best way to give children the best care. The ultimate love; being yourself is the most powerful education. In addition, some people say that the most inspiring lie is: you can take care of your career and family. causeSuccess and family success require stepping stones. Where is the balance? Either sacrifice yourself or others. There is some truth in this sentence, but after reading Carrie Lam’s story today, maybe you and I will have more insights and confidence~