Liang Qichao: A good education requires hard work

In a family, without the participation of the father, can the mother raise the child alone? The answer is yes. But there are still many differences between men and women. It is impossible for a mother to play both the educational role of a father and a mother. In family education without father\’s participation, no matter how powerful the mother is, the children educated are still missing something. If a family has a father who is high-minded, takes care of his family, and can educate his children, this is not only the family\’s luck, but also the children\’s luck. In modern history, there is such a father who can be regarded as a model for fathers. Not only is he very good, but the children he educates are also very good. He once again perfectly explained the truth: good education still requires hard work. He is Liang Qichao. How good of a father is Liang Qichao? You might as well take a look at his children. Liang Qichao had nine children in total. \”One subject has three academicians, and the whole family is full of talents.\” This is their family. The \”three academicians\” are his eldest son Liang Sicheng, a famous architect and the first academician of the Academia Sinica; his second son Liang Siyong, a famous archaeologist and the first academician of the Academia Sinica; and his fifth son Liang Sili, a famous rocket control system expert and the Chinese Academy of Sciences. academician. The others are poetry research experts, military officers, library science experts, economists, social activists, etc., and no one is holding back. Such a family is naturally enviable. How does the strongest dad Liang Qichao educate his children? Many of his ideas are still timeless and worth learning from many parents. As a father, no matter how busy you are, you still have time to spend with your children. \”I am too busy with work and really have no time to spend with my children. I feel ashamed of my children.\” This is a common saying among many modern fathers. But how busy can you be, so busy that even having a meal with your children every day is a luxury? No matter how busy you are, is Liang Qichao busy? As a social activist, he was busy participating in the Reform Movement of 1898 and public petitions, promoting the establishment of a constitutional monarchy, and supporting the New Culture Movement. He was an active advocate and participant in almost every new change during that period; as a scholar, he was the founder of modern times. A representative figure in historical theory, he is one of the \”Four Great Mentors\” of Tsinghua Research Institute. He has high attainments in bibliography and library science. He wrote books and actively participated in the \”Poetic Revolution\” and the \”Novel Revolution\”. He was called an \”encyclopedic\” figure. He is such a busy man. He does not say that he has no time to take care of his children, but he does his best for every child\’s affairs, down to the smallest detail. When the child is sick, he personally visits and takes care of it. He has to ask about the clothes the child usually wears. He even makes suggestions on the colors of girls\’ clothes. Liang Qichao mainly communicates with his children through letters home. He has written more than 400 letters home, providing different encouragement and guidance according to the characteristics of each child. We often use \”a father\’s love is like a mountain without saying a word\” to describe a father\’s love. However, Liang Qichao\’s love for his children is not like this. He expressed his feelings for his children passionately in words and actions, allowing them to fully appreciate his love. He gave each child a different nickname to make them feel that they were all unique children in his father\’s heart. He called his eldest daughter Sishun \”Dabao\”\”Bei\” and \”my favorite child\”. He nicknamed his third daughter Siyi \”Sima Yi\” and his youngest son Sili \”Lao Baibi\” (old baby). In the hearts of children, the relationship with their father is The most important thing is that they are also willing to become children who make their father proud. As a person, the three views must be correct. The father\’s world view, outlook on life and values ​​will have an important impact on the children. Liang Qichao has devoted his life to doing things that are beneficial to society. The same is true for his requirements for his children. No matter what he does, as long as it is useful to society, he will support it. He devoted his life to the cause of the country and the nation. His \”Young China Theory\” \”The wisdom of young people is the wisdom of the country, and the wisdom of young people is the wisdom of the country.\” If a young man is strong, the country will be strong. If young men are independent, the country will be independent. If young men are free, the country will be free. If young men make progress, the country will progress. If a young man is better than Europe, then the country will be better than Europe. If a young man is strong on the earth, then the country will be strong on the earth. \”He was impassioned and clearly expressed his feelings about his family and country. He attached great importance to the moral education of his children and believed that being a human being comes first, followed by ability. He said, \”If you become a person, the more knowledge you have, the better; If you are not a person, the more knowledge you have, the worse you will become. \”Under his education, his children all know how to stick to their own bottom line and have their own homeland in their hearts. Seven of his nine children have studied abroad, but after completing their studies, they all returned to their homeland without exception. To serve. His two sons, Liang Sicheng and Liang Siyong, would rather live in exile than stay in Peiping to serve the Japanese. During their escape, his eldest daughter-in-law Lin Huiyin once told their children that if that day came, they would rather end their own lives. They will not surrender to the enemy. Doing things is more useful than interesting. Liang Qichao’s children did not inherit their father’s career, but each chose a different major and did the work they like. Because they like it, they are in their respective They are also better able to achieve results in the industry, rather than just studying for the sake of learning. This has a lot to do with their father Liang Qichao. Liang Qichao believes that on the basis of being useful to society, you must choose a major you like. Interest is very important. On the one hand, he gives advice to the children, and on the other hand, he respects the children\’s real thoughts. He said, \”If life is not fun, what is the use of it.\” \” He once suggested that his second daughter, Liang Sizhuang, study biology, because this major is very lacking in the country and will definitely have a future, but his daughter said she didn\’t like it. He wrote to his daughter: \”Any knowledge is best done by one\’s own nature, and often you can get twice the result with half the effort. , you have been away from me for a long time, and I don’t know the direction of your ideological development… The disciplines I recommend may not be suitable for you, and you should make your own decisions. \”His eldest son Liang Sicheng studied architecture. He was afraid that if his son studied for too long, he would become boring, so he wrote to him and told him to spend more time studying literature or humanities. He was afraid that what he studied was too specialized. Life is also monotonous. A life that is too monotonous makes it easy to get bored, and boredom leads to distress, which is the root of depravity. To teach a son, the father\’s height affects the child\’s future. Liang Qichao teaches his son, he will not place all his hopes on his children, nor will he force his children. Children do what they want according to their own will, but respect their choices and their independence. As an encyclopedic character, he has a clear understanding of how to be a person,They all have their own unique insights into how to learn and how to maximize children\’s strengths. He also had his own understanding of his children’s choice of major. When Liang Sicheng and Liang Siyong faced the choice of major, he suggested that they choose a side major that was in short supply in the country but might have great development prospects in the future. Under his advice, Liang Sicheng chose architecture. Liang Siyong chose archeology. His suggestion was correct. The two returned to China after studying and quickly invested in domestic development, becoming pioneering leaders in their respective fields. In the eyes of their children, the fathers of Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin are not only fathers, but also mentors and helpful friends. They are more willing to bring up their problems like friends and ask their father for advice. Even if they are the ones who make the final decision, their father\’s suggestions open the door. Their ideas provide them with more possibilities. Liang Qichao is an old-style intellectual, but his godson has advanced and scientific ideas. He has always practiced his own ideas. He has profound attainments in many fields, but what makes him most proud is probably that he teaches gave birth to 9 excellent children. Such a father is excellent and interesting, firm and calm, and regards educating his children as an important career. It is an honor for the children and an honor for the family. What child would not like or be proud of such a father. Not many people can reach his level in career; and very few people can compare to him in educating children. Only with such a father can he educate a group of such children. Isn\’t a good education the best thing to do?