The mother\’s character determines the fate of her children, and her husband\’s love determines the mother\’s character

I watched the new season of \”Here We Come\” a few days ago, and I was surprised by Chen Yanxi\’s beauty. In front of the super-powerful beauties Rosamund Kwan and Concubine Hua, Chen Yanxi still has her own fairy spirit. She smiles with a pair of dimples, full of girlishness. ▲The program promotion photos are full of fairy spirit ▲Michelle Chen in the game session is full of energy and girlishness. What impressed me most about the former Michelle Chen was not the national goddess \”Shen Jiayi\”, but her \”Xiaolongbao\” style: Since then, Michelle Chen has been ridiculed as a \”red carpet killer\” due to her round face and lack of taste. But luckily, when Chen Yanxi was at her ugliest, had the worst taste, and was ridiculed the most, she met Chen Xiao, who knew how to appreciate her best! After announcing their relationship in 2015, the two began to show off their love every day. Not only do they hug each other on the show, but they hold hands wherever they go in life. As the countdown to the wedding entered, Chen Xiao admitted that what he was most worried about was the hot weather, which made Chen Yanxi unhappy; he did not pay much attention to the groom\’s appearance and believed that the beauty of the bride was the most important thing at the wedding. This made Chen Yanxi smile sweetly: \”You know why I want to marry him, right?\” After getting married, they soon had a baby, named Chen Muchen, which is homophonic to Chen Xiao and admired Chen Yanxi. They really spread the word! Chen Yanxi said that when Chen Xiao just learned the news about her pregnancy, he said very calmly: \”Oh, I guessed it.\” and then gave her a hug. This shows that Chen Xiao is very familiar with the slight changes in his lover\’s body. Michelle Chen even revealed on the show that her husband will definitely do three things before going out: hug him, kiss him, and say \”I love you, my wife, my baby.\” After giving birth, she exercised and exercised. Not long ago, she even challenged her first marathon. She has regained her teenage figure and is even slimmer than before giving birth. Her bun face also looks more refined, and even her clothes have been upgraded several levels! Michelle Chen said on a show that if you want to have a relationship, let’s have a love affair where you can act coquettishly! It looks like her dream has come true. With the blessing of a happy little family, Chen Yanxi\’s acting career is now going smoothly, and she can work and take care of her children smoothly. Which woman who is loved is not like this? Phoenix TV host Wu Xiaoli said that the reason why she married her husband was that \”she will always be a happy bird, free and easy by his side\”. \”To his friends, he is always polite; to his family, he is like a father.\” I feel that I always want to protect everyone; for me, three words, I feel sorry for me.\” After marriage, Wu Xiaoli\’s career, marriage, and family were full of success, and she was a happy woman who fell into a honeypot. The famous movie star Shen Danping used to have low self-esteem because she had a strict and demanding father. Since marrying a German man and receiving sincere smiles and compliments from him, she has become more and more calm, confident, elegant and generous. In the \”Who\’s Talking\” program, Shen Danping told the secret of keeping their marriage alive: At home, Shen Danping has a bad temper, but her husband is tolerant and generous to her. When conflicts arise, Uwe will come over and hug her. Comfort her and her anger will dissipate. Women\’s beauty is \”praised\” by men. Women\’s gentleness and self-confidence need to be \”praised\” by men. When a woman has sweet love, she will work harder to pursue career success and be moreWork hard for your family. A friend once met two completely different families in McDonald\’s. A couple and their daughter sat at the next table. The young couple whispered from time to time. The husband held his wife\’s hand and talked happily. The wife listened with a smile, her eyes sparkling, and she also looked after her daughter from time to time. Suddenly, the husband secretly kissed his wife\’s hand. The wife seemed a little shy and turned back to feed her daughter a scoop of ice cream. The little girl opened her big eyes, looked at her parents, and then around, showing an innocent and bright smile to everyone who looked over. The love of a family is as warm as sunshine. Behind them, there was a mother eating alone with her son. The mother was answering the phone: \”Why are you like this? Even if it\’s a divorce, we have to meet to resolve it, right? What\’s going on with you hiding from me like this? My child. You don’t see me either. Is there any father like you?” Speaking of the child, the woman’s voice suddenly became louder. The son, who was eating silently with his head down, was startled by his mother, and the ice cream in his hand fell on his clothes. The son was at a loss, and the mother got angry: \”What did you do? You can\’t even eat! Let\’s go, don\’t eat. Go home and change clothes!\” After that, she dragged the little boy and slammed the door and left. . Although the little boy remained silent, one could feel the darkness in his little world. I was lamenting that a little boy and a little girl were about the same age, but their circumstances were so different. A friend explained the reason behind it in one sentence: \”Their mothers are different. One is bathed in love, and the other is suffering from her husband\’s indifference.\” Because a woman who lives in her husband\’s love has a soft and gentle heart. Safe, stable, and tolerant to everyone around him, he will create a pleasant and warm family atmosphere. When a family has such a woman, the most direct beneficiaries are the children. On the contrary, a mother who has endured her husband\’s indifference, complaining, and irritability for a long time will transfer all these negative emotions to her children, and family life will be a burden to her. In a family full of grievances, the biggest victims are also children. Why does the \”Three Character Classic\” say \”It\’s the father\’s fault if you raise a child or not educate him\” instead of \”It\’s the mother\’s fault if you raise him or not\”? If a father tries his best to discipline his children but the children are still unsatisfactory, then the father is still at fault because he probably does not love his wife properly. Austrian psychologists once investigated the fathers of 398 criminals. Among them, 183 criminals\’ fathers were alcoholics, and 120 criminals\’ fathers were gambling, sexually indulgent, and dishonest. Most families have one thing in common: family relationships are not harmonious. Researchers have found that criminals from these families are impulsive in adolescence, have more delinquent and antisocial behaviors, and lack self-control. On Zhihu, many people use their personal experiences to answer the impact of \”father\’s temper\” and \”father\’s domestic violence against mother\”: \”I have felt insecure since I was a child, need more security than others, and live in an unstable environment all the time. I am anxious. With such a personality, I live a very hard life, and also make the people around me live a hard life.\” \”I have no desire for love, and I am extremely sensitive even if I make friends. I don\’t want to believe in love, and I am resistant to marriage.I refuse because my childhood memories are not good ones. \”… There is a kind of father who is more terrifying than the \”absent father\”, and that is the father who does not love his mother. Generally, from a woman\’s body, you can roughly see what the man behind her looks like: 1. A well-dressed man with a melancholy expression. For a woman, her man usually has a successful career and keeps secrets. 2. For a shrew-type woman, the man behind her may be an honest person who is not good at words. 3. The husband of a strong woman must be an ordinary person. People. 4. A woman who is running for money, her husband may be an incompetent person. 5. A woman who is mentally cheating, her husband is not at the same level as her mentally. 6. A gentle, dignified, radiant woman, Her husband must be a man who loves his wife and children. If a man wants to complain that his wife cannot take care of the children or take care of the family, he must first ask himself: Do I truly love my wife? A man’s love for his wife It should start with smiles and praises, and smiles and praises are related to his mentality. A confident man likes to treat his wife with smiles and praises. He believes in his status in his wife\’s heart and his personality charm. He feels that praising his wife shows that he is more There is power. Li Suli, an excellent conductor, has a good husband. When she works the morning shift, her husband gets up early in the morning to see her off, and when she works the evening shift, he picks her up in the middle of the night. Someone asked: \”Does it bother you that we pick up and drop off people who leave early and come back late every day? ? He returned well and said, \”My daughter-in-law, if I don\’t feel sorry for her, who will?\” \”Men with low self-esteem like to treat their wives with rude scoldings. Such men often get angry outside and come home to take out their anger on their wives. They put on a show of telling the truth in front of their wives, or they casually belittle their wives to show their inferiority.\” Status. In fact, women look down on such husbands the most, and well-educated women will stay away from him. Some wives like to buy clothes for their husbands, but the husbands always say this is not good or that is not good, so the wife will no longer buy clothes for her husband. The wife likes to go shopping, but the husband would say from time to time: \”Are you going to buy it or not?\” If you don’t buy it, I’m leaving. \”So the wife was greatly disappointed and no longer had any interest in going out with her husband. The wife loved to talk to her husband, but the husband was always impatient and would either interrupt casually or make rash comments. Slowly, the wife closed her mind. The door. Suhomlinsky once said to fathers: “If you want to educate your children well, you must first truly love your wife. \”I wonder if you have noticed how mothers are described in many celebrity biographies: Mother is gentle, virtuous, and considerate. She always devotes herself to her children silently without any complaints. Mother is strong, kind, and independent, as if nothing can be done. What stumps the mother…are these words familiar? It is such a mother who can raise such an outstanding child. Because the child has an instinctive dependence on the mother when he is young, the mother\’s personality, language and behavior will affect A child\’s life. Behind a virtuous mother, there is often a husband who loves her deeply. The firmer the husband\’s love, the more stable the wife\’s heart and the gentler her character. If there is anything that can best benefit a child\’s life Yes, then it must be that father loves mother and mother loves the whole family.