Four teenagers in Hebei killed people and burned their bodies. Do you want to tell your children that human nature can be so bad?

When I went downstairs in the morning, Xiao Fu was humming the song \”There Are No Bad Children in the World\” as he walked. Looking at his innocent appearance, my heart suddenly tightened and I thought about whether I should tell him the truth that there are bad children in the world. Moreover, there are not only bad children in the world, but those bad children will also become bad adults when they grow up. Usually when I chat with Xiao Fuqing, I tell him the news I see every day as a story. For example, a mother has no money to treat her daughter, so she chooses to steal chicken legs from the supermarket. For example, there was no one to help take care of the child, so the mother drove a night taxi with her daughter and spent more than 900 nights together. However, when choosing these news, I try to choose stories that promote the beauty of human nature. I hope Xiaofu will always be a kind and loving child. Therefore, when he hears the doorbell ring, he will open the door as soon as possible, and after receiving the express delivery, he will say \”thank you\” to others. Therefore, when others borrow toys from him, he will lend them generously. He didn\’t even think about whether he would go crazy after borrowing it or not. Yes, many times, I would not tell him how bad human nature can be, so he always believed that \”there are no bad children in the world.\” But, as adults, we all know that the world is not as beautiful as we imagine or describe it to be. For example, on August 10, 2017, four minors in Hebei sought revenge because of conflicts. First, in the name of playing poker, the victim Zhang was lured to the rooftop of the community and beaten, and then after strangulating Zhang to death, he even burned his body. Pictures posted by netizens showed that on the rooftop of the building, a man was burnt, his whole body blackened and leaning in a corner. On August 13, 2017, in Moon Bay Community, Yichun City, Jiangxi Province, a courier came to handle express delivery and found that a 16-year-old girl was alone at home, so he molested her. On June 24, 2017, a video of students being humiliated at Yanqing No. 2 Middle School in Beijing was exposed online. In the video, which lasted for more than 1 minute and 30 seconds, students wearing green and white school uniforms were standing next to the squatting pit of the toilet and grabbing the feces in the pit with their hands. Although he told the person off camera \”spare me\”, he was still asked to lick his fingers and humiliated in disgusting detail. At the same time, the photographer uttered obscenities from time to time and hit the victim with a stick. Even though the victim cried and begged for mercy, he was still met with swear words, insults and beatings. February 12, 1993, Liverpool, England. Two 10-year-old boys who skipped school took 2-year-old James away while his mother went to check out at the counter. Then, they smeared paint on little James\’s face, pulled off his shoes and pants, and even hit him with rocks, kicked him, and made him swallow batteries. Two children as young as ten years old did the most cruel things in the world. . What\’s even more terrifying is that the two villains placed little James\’s body on the railroad tracks and covered his head with a stone slab. On May 11, 2016, Li Yangjie, a Chinese girl studying in Germany, met a German girl of the same age while running home at night and asked her to help move a box. This kind girl agreed without thinking. But when she was lured to the apartment, she was controlled by the German girl and her boyfriend. The two brutally brutally raped Li Yangjie.The man forced Mr. Li to have sex with him many times. The two men\’s brutal behavior lasted for about an hour, and then they left Li Yangjie, who was seriously injured and dying, in a vacant residence and left the scene of the crime. Three hours later, the two returned to the crime scene and dragged Li Yangjie outside. Two days later, Li Yangjie\’s body was found by the police in a bush. His body was miserable and his appearance was completely disfigured. According to forensic identification, the cause of death was fat droplets entering the pulmonary circulation, and the head and body suffered multiple violent acts and multiple fractures. …Sometimes, people\’s badness has nothing to do with age. Maybe they are minors who are not deeply involved in the world, but their evil makes adults shudder. Sometimes, the badness of people has nothing to do with your kindness. Even if you have helped them, they will still retaliate for their own benefit. Many times, you can never predict the scum and cruelty of people, because people are much worse than you can predict! People\’s minds are unpredictable, unpredictable and unavoidable. Because malice may be hidden deep within each of us. In 1961, Yale University psychologist Stanley Milgram conducted an experiment to see how much power human nature can exert when faced with an order from an authority that violates one\’s conscience. The subjects of the experiment range from young people to the elderly, from primary school students to Ph.D.s, spanning all walks of life. Participants were told that this experiment was to test \”the effectiveness of corporal punishment on learning.\” They needed to pretend to be teachers and test students in another classroom: if students answered questions incorrectly, the experimental subjects had the right to punish the students with electric shocks. Before conducting the experiment, Milgram asked his fellow psychologists to predict the outcome of the experiment. They all believed that only a small number of people—10% or even 1%—would be willing to continue punishing to the maximum extent possible. Number of volts. Results In Milgram\’s first experiment, 65 percent (26 out of 40) of the participants achieved the maximum 450-volt punishment. Therefore, as long as we do not take responsibility, the evil in human nature is like a devil that has broken free from its prison and wanders around the world with its evil soul. All we can do is protect our children as much as possible and teach them how to protect themselves. I told Xiao Fu the news about the murder of four teenagers in Hebei, of course in a tactful way that he could accept. At the same time, I also told him that if he is angry when being bullied, he can express his anger in other ways besides hitting back, but he must not hurt others. I also told him that if an adult asks for your help, no matter who it is, say no. Because a normal adult will go to other adults when he needs help, not to a child. Those who want to take you away from your parents with a candy toy in hand and a smile on their face are bad people. If you are controlled by someone and cannot notify your parents, you must first find a way to protect yourself as much as possible so that you have a chance to fight back. There may not be bad children in the world, but there are definitely children in the world whose parents have not raised them well. \”You must not have the intention to harm others, and you must have the intention to guard against others.\” The ancient saying that is still popular today is also trying to teach us that people can be kind, but they cannot be weak. Because no matter how powerful your parents are, they cannot protect you for the rest of your life.Protect children. Because we cannot let \”kindness\” become the reason for being bullied by evil people from now on. So there is nothing wrong with teaching your children to be kind, but you must also remember: Don’t weaken his courage, don’t cover up his edge!