\”That year the flowers bloomed and the moon was full\”: 8 kinds of parents, 8 kinds of children\’s lives are achieved

\”That Year the Flowers Bloomed and the Moon Was Full\” mainly depicts the legendary life of Zhou Ying, the richest woman in Shaanxi. However, in the changing fortunes of several families, it also gives us a lot of inspiration as parents. What parents are like and how parents raise their children largely determine what kind of person their children will become in the future. I have roughly sorted out the 8 families in the play, and we will analyze them one by one. Of course, the parents mentioned below do not necessarily refer to both parents, but may also be the father or the mother. The first type: parents are unkind and children are unjust. This type mainly depends on the third uncle and third aunt of the South Courtyard of the Wu family. When the third uncle was young, he was greedy for the beauty of the third aunt. Even though he knew that the third aunt had someone he liked at that time, he still spent a lot of money to marry the third aunt. After the marriage, the third uncle doted on the third aunt and was always at the mercy of his wife. The third aunt is still involved with her old lover. While enjoying her husband\’s favor, she also asks her lover to help make money. The third uncle is not bad in nature, but he has no independent opinions and always listens to his wife. After the death of her eldest brother Wu Weiwen, the third aunt was concerned about the property in the south courtyard, and she did not hesitate to adopt her only son to the east courtyard for the sake of the shares in the pawn shop. The father has little authority, the mother is the only one in the family and is only interested in profit, and the son has a weak character. Under the influence, he obeys his mother\’s arrangements in everything. After his parents died, he left his hometown and made a living selling fake goods under the name of the Wu family, and planned to kill Zhou Ying. Although Zhou Ying let him go, it was inevitable that he would be ruined. The second type: parents dote on the child, and the child is willful. Hu Yongmei’s father, Hu Zhicun, his wife died young and he only has one daughter. Hu Zhicun promised his wife that he would not let his daughter suffer any injustice, so he did not remarry and raised his daughter alone. The Hu family has a great business, and his daughter has no worries about food and clothing. Hu Zhicun also strives to provide the best for his daughter and do his best to raise her daughter as rich as possible. In Hu Yongmei\’s eyes, she can get whatever she wants, and everyone should revolve around her. In this way, it is not difficult to understand her various actions after Hu Zhicun\’s death. Wu Pin married Zhou Ying. She thought it was Zhou Ying who was causing trouble. In order to get Wu Pin back, she did not hesitate to poison her. As a result, Wu Pin was poisoned to death. She put the responsibility on Zhou Ying. Her father did something wrong and couldn\’t bear the psychological burden, so he hanged himself. She put the responsibility on Zhou Ying. In order to go against Zhou Ying, she ignored her father\’s last words and went into business willfully. In order to defeat Zhou Ying, he ignored the dissuasion of the old housekeeper and made a desperate move, but was ultimately defeated. Knowing that he had killed Wu Pin, he lost control of his emotions and tried to kill Zhou Ying, then committed suicide, harming others and himself. Throughout the rest of the plot, Hu Yongmei was controlled by her emotions. Everything she did was irrational and entirely based on her own temper. It seemed that the whole world owed her something, which was also caused by the doting of her parents. A typical characteristic of children. The third type: the parents are ignorant, the children are mediocre and have no talents themselves. Four brothers are in business, and he is the worst one. He and his fourth aunt were both scheming people, but fortunately they were happy to be an ordinary couple, quarreling and quarreling happily. When it comes to treating children, the fourth aunt relies on pampering and the fourth uncle relies on yelling. Neither of them have any rules. The people in the middle courtyard are the most prosperous, and they gave birth to three sons at once, but there is nothing surprising about the three sons. There is even a single son in the whole play.I didn\’t even bother to give them my own shot. The fourth type: parents are rude and children are rebellious. Shen Sihai\’s family is a two-child family. The eldest son is the pride of his parents. He has been obedient and sensible since he was a child. He is the focus of his father\’s training, and he does not express it. The second child is a careless person. He has lived in the shadow of his eldest brother since he was a child and cannot get his father\’s favor. In order to attract his father\’s attention, he makes trouble everywhere. Shen Sihai had only one way to educate his unsatisfactory son, which was to beat him up if he disagreed with him. In his mind, the child cannot be effective unless beaten. If he is afraid of being beaten, he will behave. However, although Shen Xingyi was afraid of being beaten, he was not well-behaved. In this family, if there is no grandma, the father is the absolute authority, and the mother does not have much say. Under the violence of his father, the son either obeys or resists. The eldest child became a good boy, and the second child became a naughty child. If it were not for the stimulation of the subsequent family tragedy, Shen Xingyi might have remained a playboy for the rest of his life. The fifth type: Parents respect, children are free. The second uncle in the West Courtyard is shrewd and is known as the old fox. He puts profit first, but he has not lost his human touch. The second uncle and second aunt have two children. The son has no intention of doing business and only wants to gain fame. Year after year, Wu Ze failed and failed again and again. His two sons were no longer young, but he still failed to pass the exam. Although the second uncle was anxious, he still respected his choice. He thought that since the child had this pursuit and his family could afford it, he would take the exam. Finally, Wu Ze passed the provincial examination. In a relatively relaxed environment, Wu Ze was free and radical in his thoughts, idealistic, a bit idealistic, a bit out of touch with reality, and lacking in life experience. The sixth type: parents are free and easy, and the child is positive. Zhou Ying was adopted by Zhou Laosi when she was a child. She doesn’t know who her biological parents are. She followed Mr. Zhou for four days all over the country and saw all kinds of people, and she made a living by performing arts and deceiving people. Zhou Laosi has many shortcomings. He drinks and gambles, and sells his daughter when he runs out of money. Ordinarily, such a family of origin should be terrible. But Zhou Laosi can be considered a good father. He is a free and easy man. Although he has never read any books, he has traveled thousands of miles. He can see through many truths that others cannot. When Wu Pin died, he advised Zhou Ying that no matter parents, children, or husband and wife, they can only be together for one journey, and people must learn to let go. When Zhou Ying decided to become a widow, he advised Zhou Ying that life is short. Think about the fights you have fought, the roads you have walked, and the delicious food you have eaten. You will feel that you are worth it, so Zhou Ying should It\’s up to you to do whatever you want, no matter what the world thinks. These are all wisdom honed in life, which can be seen in books but not necessarily understood. Although Zhou Ying was adopted, Zhou Laosi loved her very much. When Zhou Ying was going to Dihua, Zhou Laosi said he wouldn\’t go, but rushed ahead of everyone else. He knew the road was dangerous and he wanted to protect his daughter. When Hu Yongmei wanted to kill Zhou Ying, he pushed Zhou Ying away without thinking and blocked the knife himself. Under Zhou Laosi\’s seemingly haphazard education, Zhou Ying did not stick to small details. She not only saw what was in front of her, but also had a much broader picture. No matter how big the difficulties were, she could face them optimistically, as if she could not be beaten to death. Xiaoqiang. Such Zhou Ying, no matter whatNo matter where you are, you can survive tenaciously. Type 7: Parents are self-disciplined and their children are motivated. Wu Pin\’s father, Wu Weiwen, is upright, gentle, and honest in business. He has built a world through good reputation and became the richest man in Jingyang. When it comes to his son\’s education, he insists that everything should be done according to the rules, that he should respect etiquette and abide by the law, and that there should be no transgressions. Wu Pin, who grew up under the influence of others, is a standard good student, with excellent academic performance, business rules and regulations, and is well-behaved. If no accidents occur, Wu Pin may be the second Wu Weiwen. He will have a successful career and a harmonious family, but of course, he may also be less happy. He and Zhou Ying are two completely different people, but he is attracted to Zhou Ying because Zhou Ying has something that he does not have. He will be a successful person, but it will be difficult for him to be as successful as Zhou Ying. Type 8: Parents are wise and the child is lucky. The child Yucheng who was adopted from Wu Family Courtyard to Zhou Ying is a troublesome child. Mentioning this child, everyone shook their heads. He didn\’t want to study, so his mother pulled him over and beat him, but after the beating, he still did whatever he was supposed to do. If he had been in the West Courtyard, he might have become the second Shen Xingyi. Fortunately, he met Zhou Ying. At this time, Zhou Ying is no longer the careless little girl. After years of hard work, her style is beyond the reach of ordinary women. Even most men feel inferior to her. She also has a way of educating children. She decided to choose Yucheng as her son, but Yucheng regretted it in public and said that he did not want to be her son. She was neither angry nor angry, and told Yucheng seriously that since he had participated, he could not go back on his word, he had to come. There aren\’t many things that she can decide on, which was the first lesson she taught him. Yucheng threw the quilt sewn by Zhou Ying on the ground. An angry Chunxing chased him and beat him, trying to make him surrender and admit his mistake. This move had no effect on Yucheng. When Zhou Ying came, she took Chun Xing away directly and let him taste the cold. Naturally, he would not throw away the quilt. Letting children know how to bear the consequences of their actions instead of being afraid of being cold and hungry and being tolerant to them is Zhou Ying\’s second lesson. At this point, Yucheng should be afraid of Zhou Ying and dare not act willfully, but he has not yet accepted her from his heart. Later, Yucheng skipped school, thinking that he would be beaten severely, but Zhou Ying let him go. Yucheng wanted to escape and met Zhou Ying. Zhou Ying had a heart-to-heart talk with him, understood his motives, and said she would not put so much pressure on him, and the two reconciled. In the end, Yucheng was in danger, and Zhou Ying risked her life to save him, and finally won Yucheng\’s heart. This naughty kid who was fearless was finally accepted into submission, and he was willing to accept Zhou Ying as his mother and follow her teachings. This can be called a model for educating children. Which one are you?