Smart parents stand side by side with their teachers

Last summer, after my niece took the college entrance examination, the family discussed what major to enroll her in. I said, it would be pretty good for a girl to be a teacher, so why not enroll in a normal school? The eldest brother who has been a teacher for most of his life waved his hand, forget it. Yesterday, a student\’s parent went to school to scold the teacher. Because of a dictation mistake, the teacher punished him for writing a wrong word ten times. The teacher criticized the child again in the group, saying that it was not good for homework. Seriously, parents also have a certain responsibility. No, the parents got angry and went to school to curse at the teachers, saying that it was the teacher\’s responsibility to teach the children poorly, so what did it have to do with the parents? Also, teachers who punish children for writing so many typos are simply torturing their children. It’s surprising that children can be taught well in this way! well! Really, the biggest problem in children\’s education now is: parents are reluctant to take care of it, teachers dare not take care of it, and it is inconvenient for outsiders to take care of it. I don\’t know what those parents who don\’t want teachers to control their children think. Just like a friend who is a teacher told me last year, a child in their class was very naughty. As soon as class started, he teased those in front and teased those in the back. His friend was so angry that he was forced to stand in front of him for a whole class. This is causing big trouble. The next day, the child\’s grandparents, parents, aunts and uncles all came and insisted on an explanation from the school. Under pressure, the school apologized and circulated criticisms, which made people tremble. Later, the student was transferred to another class. No one wanted to sit with him, so he was asked to sit in a row by himself. The teachers no longer dared to control him. Is this really a good way for children? The answer will come in the future. During the winter vacation last year, I went to hold a parent-teacher conference for my daughter. Their head teacher said: During the next period of time, the children will be in your hands. If you let the children play during the winter vacation, I guarantee that when they come back from the vacation, their grades will be certain. will retreat. If parents keep an eye on their children and let them follow the study plan, their grades will at least be stable. I hope parents will work harder. Children are children and their self-control is not that strong. Let’s work together to cultivate the children. good. The teacher\’s words made me teary-eyed. Many times, some parents always think that it is the teacher\’s responsibility to hand over their children to school and teachers. In fact, no matter how good the teacher is, he cannot replace the position of the parents. Educating children well is not only the responsibility of the teacher, but also of the parents. The most important career in this life. Teachers are the ones who teach and solve problems, but parents are the influencers in their children\’s lives. Children\’s good habits, good qualities, good interests, and good mentality all come from the cultivation of parents. The son of my colleague Yingying, from the first grade to the fourth grade of elementary school, I basically witnessed his growth process in the past few years. When Yingying\’s son first entered the first grade, he liked to talk and do all kinds of little tricks. He had no patience in studying and could not listen to the teacher\’s lectures. Of course, many children who have just entered first grade have these little problems to one degree or another. Teachers talk to the parent group every day about how each child is doing and what areas need improvement. He hopes parents will cooperate. Developing good behavioral habits at the beginning of your child\’s schooling will benefit him throughout his life. Some parents are indifferent to the teacher\’s words, and some parents will also pay attention. Yingying has never been concerned about the teacher\’s words.She always takes it seriously. She communicates with the teacher about her child\’s situation every day, and the teacher will also give her some suggestions. Gradually, the minor problems that Yingying\’s son had when he first entered school disappeared and he listened more and more attentively to the class. In his second grade, he was elected as a study committee member. In the past few years, Yingying\’s son has been outstanding and has done well in all aspects. These achievements are due to the cooperation of teachers and parents. Really, the consistent attitude of teachers and parents will help children grow better, and I am one of the beneficiaries. I remember that in my fifth grade year, I ranked tenth in the class during the midterm exam of the first semester. This result made my head teacher very angry. You know, I was her proud disciple at the time. I thought I would be in the top three, but I failed the test. But the teacher knew that I had high self-esteem, so he still encouraged me. Then he went to my mother and analyzed the reasons for my unsatisfactory grades. In the end, they all agreed that I didn\’t recite the text carefully and didn\’t do the homework assigned by the teacher seriously. I just dealt with it and my parents didn\’t care. Let it go. The two of them reached an agreement that every night when I did my homework, my mother would watch and then check my recitation. When I was a child, I lived in a bungalow. At that time, every household did not lock the door after dark. They would only lock it before going to bed. Under such convenient conditions, my head teacher, who is about 500 meters away from my home, is said to have gone to our home many times at night to see through the window glass whether I was doing my homework and whether my mother was watching. Once, the teacher was checking the recitation in class. I was the only one in the class who could recite it without any mistakes. The teacher proudly said: Do you know why Su Xin recited it so well? Her mother stares at her every day. I have seen her. Several times, my mother-in-law memorized the text. Wow, now I know the truth. It turns out that the teacher often visits me secretly. Guess what, at the end of that semester, I ranked first in the class. Thanks to this good foundation, I later entered junior high school with the second best grade in the school. Yes, teachers and parents, as the most important people in a child\’s growth, have the same responsibility and mission – to make children successful. The degree of attention and support of parents determines the speed of children\’s progress. Therefore, the cooperation between parents and teachers is very important. When it comes to children\’s education, smart parents stand side by side with teachers. When parents and teachers are together, it\’s not that one plus one equals two, but one horizontal and one vertical together, giving their children ten times the power. Help him grow. Finally one day, the child will leave our sight and go out into the world. Those parents and teachers who accompany their children through failures and confusions, develop good qualities and habits, and help them gain wisdom and strength will become the sword around their children\’s waist, accompanying them all the way to the end of the world, allowing them to go through thousands of sailings. Forever like a boy!