Every boy is his mother’s weakness and armor

Many parents actually want to have a daughter. Because girls are gentle, considerate, well-behaved and sensible. My niece smiles sweetly every time she sees us. The mouth is also sweet. And what about my boy? He stopped talking when his voice was loud, and kept talking about shit, piss, and farts. Don\’t expect him to be nice for a while. What is it like to have a boy at home? He walks like the wind and even lifts his clothes to say they are wings. There is always endless energy. The way to make him quiet for a while is to plug his mouth with delicious food, otherwise he will keep talking! He likes to chase you and play fighting games with him. They are eager to show their strength and courage and like physical collisions. Every time he went to school, he had to have his nails trimmed and promised not to fight, but when he got excited, he would accidentally scratch his good friend. And what about girls? I would rather focus on dressing up, change a set of clothes for my doll or tie her hair in a new style, and be quiet, which makes people feel so good. And boys are generally stubborn and can\’t pull back ten cows. But she is also super sensitive, and her little mouth sometimes pouts higher than that of a girl. When you talk about him, your eyes turn red. Big tears rolled down one by one. She also pretends to be brave, only to blame herself for her tears. However, if a boy happens to be born, actually…it\’s not bad! Because they also have a very warm side. They say girls are their parents’ little cotton-padded jackets. In fact, the boy is also his mother’s little cotton-padded jacket, a little heart-warming stove. A mother said that for a while her son always got into her bed. Finally, I had to take him back when I went to sleep. Once I asked my son, \”Why do you have to sleep in mom\’s bed every time?\” The son said, \”It\’s too cold in winter, so I\’ll keep you warm. I\’ll be your little stove.\” Give me the beauty of being a mother. I didn\’t expect that my son, who is usually so naughty, would have such considerate moments. In the eyes of his son, his mother is the most important person in the world. If one day you ask him jokingly: \”Who is your favorite person?\” I hope the answer will be your parents. \”The person I love most is my mother.\” \”What else?\” \”And it\’s still my mother!\” Well, let me, the biological father who takes care of you every day, be filled with jealousy. So every time I heard the knock on the door when my mother came home, I ran to open the door without putting on my shoes. She called out affectionately: \”Mom, you\’re back! Mom, did you know?\” Then she excitedly told her mother about her day. When dad comes home, he often looks at me and then plays with himself. Every time this happens, I feel that the hardships mothers endure are worth it. Because there is a little person in the world who can warm you and protect you. For a family, having children comes with weaknesses. Children are always the weakness of parents in their lives, as a little poem puts it: After you have a child, you simply lose your dreams and just want to stay by her side, go home early every day, play and sing with her, and every boy is Mom\’s weakness. Every time I see my son doing some mischief. My mother’s reaction was the biggest, and then I would calmly say, “It’s nothing, I did it when I was a kid.” Because I also grew up as a little boy. When it comes to boys, mothers face a new world.Why is this little guy so obsessed with all kinds of cars? Why do you like such ugly dinosaurs? Why do you like to fight? Why can\’t you take a break? …However, while raising boys, mothers also participate in a growth process that is completely different from their own childhood. Many mothers are vigorous and decisive in their work outside. I also taught my husband to be obedient. But when he was in front of his son, he immediately became softer, and even his eyes became much warmer. No wonder in many families, the mother is determined by the father, the father is determined by the son, and the son is determined by the mother. The child is the mother\’s weakness, and she also wears armor. My temper is slowly smoothed and my heart becomes softer and softer. I always think about my children first and pay for them, forgetting myself, even risking my own life. \”A woman is weak by nature, but a mother is strong.\” This woman can do anything for her children. There was a mother during the Wenchuan earthquake. When rescue workers found her, she was already dead. Her death posture could be seen through the gaps in the pile of rubble, with her knees on her knees and her hands on the ground to support her body. Some of them are like the ancient people kneeling down to worship. When the rescuers carefully cleared away the rubble that was blocking her, they found the child lying under her body, wrapped in a small red quilt with yellow flowers. He was about 3 or 4 months old. Because the mother\’s body was sheltering He was uninjured, and when he was taken out, he was still sleeping peacefully. The accompanying doctor came over to untie the quilt and prepare to do some examinations. He found a mobile phone stuffed under the quilt. The doctor subconsciously looked at the screen of the phone and found a text message that had been written on the screen: \”Dear baby, if you can live, You must remember that I love you.\” The doctor who was used to seeing separation and death shed tears at this moment. This is maternal love. Like armor, it protects the child. However, as a mother of a boy, you must remember to learn to show weakness appropriately. You will find that boys all have a heroic plot. If you say he is a superhero, he will act like one. But if you keep controlling him, \”Say this is dangerous, this is not possible, you are too young, you can\’t do it well, you can\’t do it! Your father will beat you if you do it. Aren\’t you afraid of falling? You don\’t have a long memory! Your Prepare to be spanked even if your clothes are dirty!\” If you often say this, the child will only have low self-esteem and feel incompetent. My son has always wanted to be strong since he was a child, and he doesn’t want to be looked down upon by me. When we go out to buy groceries together, he will pick them up. When mother is tired, he will comfort her. Every time his mother comes back, he must open the door by himself. If I say I need to go out for something, he will say that he can protect my mother because he is a man. He would often curl his upper arms to show us if he had any muscles. Sometimes, you may feel that your child is ignorant and still young. But in the eyes of a child, maybe you are the person he wants to protect. Smart mothers show weakness. And strong mothers always make their children hurt. If you show weakness, your child will feel that you need help and he will show his abilities. It will also teach him responsibility and responsibility. Isn’t this the kind of man we want? Such a boy will become a good husband and a good father in the future.