The baby goes to bed too late, and there is no time to read before going to bed. How to spend time raising a baby to be efficient?

The most scarce asset for everyone is time. Because we are pressed for time, we often feel anxious and feel like we can’t get anything done. After waiting for the baby to go to bed, I do something else. Before I go to bed, I look at it and realize that it’s 12 o’clock again. I can’t get up in the morning and I am almost late for work. At the end of the week, I find that I have done nothing! After half a year, I feel that I have learned nothing, and I have aged another year in vain. So every year at the end of the year, I sigh, except for being a year older, nothing else has improved. Where did the time go after becoming a mother? In fact, I am also very busy, but I am still very busy and efficient. I feel like I can learn a lot every day. I post my time management techniques, hoping to give you some inspiration. These revelations may be large or small, but mainly practical. Take photos of your children, one is enough, develop and print the photos regularly and keep them. After becoming a mother, why do you feel like you want to give up but can\’t let go, and want to keep but feel useless? It’s the photos of the same type of children on the phone that can form a nine-square grid! The key to the problem is that these photos are almost identical in the same scene. We felt great when we took the photo. I also thought the child’s expression was cute and wanted to keep that look in his eyes. As a result, there were a lot of almost identical photos on my phone. The memory quickly filled up, and when I was saving it, I realized that it took half an hour just to delete the photos! The last time I took Edamame to Aksu to climb the Taklimakan Desert, I had a great time taking photos, but it was frustrating to organize the photos: most of the photos were the same, why did I keep so many? So in fact, when taking photos of your children, you don’t need to take so many photos. You just need to choose the right angle and take one or two photos decisively and carefully. This will save you the trouble of deleting them later, but save them now. Don’t think that “large quantities lead to high-quality products”. Your requirements for your children’s photos are certainly not as high as your own. Any photo can bring back memories for you. This also saves you from annoying people by posting the same pictures in your circle of friends. You used to spend an hour or two regularly organizing photos, but now you don’t! Looking at the folder of photos that cannot be deleted or redundant, does it make you feel happy from the inside out? It turns out that being separated can be so happy! Then, I will do this: print out all the photos, stick them in a photo album, and write down my feelings at the time next to them. That is to convert the electronic version into a handwritten version. I have been doing this since Edamame was born and have been doing it for more than 4 years. △I will find a photo developing and printing company on Taobao, and develop them every time I have 80 photos. This is done because, when viewed electronically, our feelings are quickly forgotten, and the names of the photos are only dry file names without the warm story behind them. Only by writing it on paper and saving it in a photo album can the thoughts at that moment be preserved forever. Reading online brings a different sense of happiness than writing. On the weekend at the end of every month, I would take half a day to sit at the desk by the window, make myself a cup of tea, spread out the recently developed photos one by one, and recall what Edamame was doing at that time, and what we had at that time. What stories are written, the growth of edamame becomes a thread. We will pass this photo album around in our family, turning the warm details of those photos into memories shared by the whole family. There are photos and documentationWords, this is the correct way to take photos of children. A few years later, when you flip through a photo album with handwritten notes and the scent of yellowing ink, it will be 100 times more satisfying than opening an electronic folder. What\’s more, there is no need to delete unnecessary photos, which itself saves precious time in your busy life with a baby. Don’t take too many photos, take one or two carefully; develop and print the photos; paste them into a book after printing and be sure to write on them! To ensure reading time at night, start with a fixed washing time. Many mothers will ask: \”What should I do if my child goes to bed very late at night?\” Some mothers will ask: \”The reading time of Maodou is so long, have we watched it?\” After reading two books, it’s time to go to bed, what should I do?” Let me share with you how to arrange my family’s evening time. Generally, at the age of 4 and a half, Maodou can read for an hour and a half every night. In order to ensure the kindergarten schedule for the next day, I usually ask him to lie down at nine o\’clock and fall asleep at nine thirty at the latest. Pushing forward this way, in fact, from 7:30 to 9 o\’clock, it is the reading time that we cannot stop and everything must make way for it! Therefore, we wash Edamame after dinner every day, and go to bed at about 7:30. Because the living room is more lively at night, I always read in the bedroom. This time is often the most lively time in the circle of friends. People who post about their feasts, movies, skewers, and dramas all do so after a busy day. But if you want to ensure reading time for your children, a mother should basically be pure in mind, maintain a Buddhist attitude, and say goodbye to these activities. So you have to ask, how can you ensure reading time for your children in the evening without delaying the next day? In kindergarten, the only way is to wash up after dinner (if you eat a lot of dinner in kindergarten, you don’t have to eat a formal meal with your family and supplement dairy products instead), preferably between 7:30 and 8:00 went to bed. Many problems in modern families are: going to bed too late. A friend of mine once complained about why the reading time every day starts very late and lasts for a long time. In the end, the children still want to read and the adults start to worry about whether to sleep or not. But in the final analysis, the time rhythm is still not grasped well. Okay, wash time started too late. In many families, children do not wash up after dinner. Instead, they play games, watch cartoons, and play with the adults. They are not forced to brush their teeth and take a bath until eight or nine o\’clock. After all the bedtime preparation procedures are completed, it is almost ten o\’clock. . Reading time is compressed to a tiny bit. In fact, children\’s play time in kindergarten is relatively sufficient. Children will play with teachers and peers. However, one-on-one reading time with adults is very scarce in kindergarten, and parents need to make up for it at home. So, take out a pen and carefully write down your child\’s home schedule on a white paper. Take a look at the few hours your child is at home at night. How can you make better use of it? Generally speaking, the only way is to ensure that you wash up and go to bed at 7:30, so that you can ensure a large amount of reading time. Time is a thief. It secretly steals our most precious essence and blood. By the time we find out, it is too late to recover it. Every time at the end of the year, weIn a daze: \”What have you done this year?\” In fact, the time arrangement is unreasonable, whether it is tight or relaxed when it should be. But in fact, there are some critical time points in raising children. If you grasp them, you will get twice the result with half the effort, and one will be worth ten. For example, the two things I shared today are: don’t take duplicate photos, regularly print and write down my thoughts, and wash up and go to bed at 7:30.