High-speed rail gate blocking incident: Don’t let the ugly appearance of parents tarnish the pure soul of their children

At the beginning of the new year of 2018, a Luo Xing woman became famous across the country in a very special way. In order to wait for her late husband, she and her daughter forcibly blocked the door of the high-speed train. No matter how the staff communicated with her, she just blocked the door and refused to let the train leave. She even said confidently: \”When my husband gets off, I will get in immediately.\” There were more than 500 passengers on the bus, but because of her fuss, the bus started five minutes late. After the incident was exposed, public criticism of her was overwhelming, and she herself was reportedly suspended from her work. This Ms. Luo will undoubtedly be punished for her actions. However, what makes people feel some heartache is the lady\’s daughter who has witnessed the whole farce and has been standing next to her in embarrassment. It can be seen from the video that the child, who was estimated to be a primary school student, was first pulled by his mother to block the door. Later, while the woman and the staff were pulling the child, the child stood behind with his hands in his pockets, looking embarrassed. . What the child saw was her mother\’s hysteria and rolling around, and she probably felt scared, embarrassed, and at a loss. However, the scariest thing is that she didn\’t necessarily know whether her mother was right or wrong. The incident ended when the staff opened the ticket gate to let Ms. Luo\’s husband in, and the family of three finally boarded the high-speed rail. Can you imagine how this mother would show off her \”victory\” to her husband and children? In fact, she didn’t need to say anything. She had already taught her children by “example”: What is the public interest? Personal interests must be the most important thing in everything. As long as it conflicts with my interests, there is no such thing as public interest. What are rules? Only rules that are in my personal interests need to be followed. If they conflict with my personal interests, then there is no need to follow them. What is quality and accomplishment? It doesn’t matter if I roll around on the ground in public or make everyone in the car laugh. What’s important is that I saved dozens of dollars on the car and got actual benefits. Ms. Luo\’s daughter is the background of the incident today, a bystander standing behind and watching the battle silently. However, what is worrying is that under her mother\’s \”education\”, who knows that one day, when she grows up, she will Will he also become the protagonist of similar incidents? I wonder if this Ms. Luo, who is said to be the deputy director of the teaching department of a primary school, is also using the above values ​​to \”teach\” her own students? It\’s heartbreaking. Coincidentally, last year, a video of a female doctor from a prestigious Wuhan university hitting a staff member at the airport also became a hot search topic. This female doctor failed to check in on time due to personal reasons. After negotiating with the staff at the airport to no avail, she started beating people. The doctor\’s son was also present when the incident occurred. Ms. Luo, who blocked the subway, was the deputy director of the education department of a primary school. The person who beat her at the airport was a female Ph.D. from a prestigious school in Wuhan. They are not uneducated people. On the contrary, they are educators, highly educated, and have a certain social status. I believe if you ask them, they can tell you many scientific parenting methods. However, what they lack is the basic sense of rules and social ethics that a person should have. The sense of rules and social morality are the most basic barriers to ensure the safety of everyone. Breaking the rules seems to be self-serving, but in factIn fact, harming public interests will eventually harm personal interests. Imagine this: if everyone blocks the door and ignores the departure times of flights and trains for personal reasons, we may never be able to take the last public transportation that leaves on time. If everyone ignores traffic rules, runs red lights, and drives drunk, we may be speeding up life and death every day. If everyone ignores the law and hits, injures, or even kills people if they disagree, then we may risk our lives every time we go out. How can such a society feel safe? If there are more directors and doctors like this in our society, they are respected as teachers and top talents in vain, but they fail to teach our children even the basics of being a human being, what will our future be like? ? Some people say that children are the reflection of their parents’ lives. I deeply agree. Children not only inherit the appearance of their parents, but also imitate their living habits, hobbies, and value orientations. I once read a story. A boy said about his father: \”My father has always been mean, withdrawn, and has no friends. I have known his characteristics since I was a child, but when I grew up, I still became like him. My dad sometimes asked Me, why am I so mean to him? I always answer, because I was born by you, don’t you treat me the same way?” How many people know clearly that their parents have character flaws, but still unknowingly become them when they grow up? He showed the look he hated most back then. Of course, fortunately, there are many positive examples: my good friend in high school is a very enthusiastic person. He is an officer of the school league branch. He always helps teachers with school activities. He is always the first to do anything in the class. One stepped up to help. He told me that his mother was a very enthusiastic rural woman. When she was a child, her father was always away from home doing business. Her mother had to work in the fields and go to her grandparents’ house to help with chores. She also often went to visit her grandmother who lived alone next door. Every family helps to fetch water and deliver meals; when someone in the village has weddings or weddings, she always likes to ask her to help. Mom is very busy, and he is always playing the role of tail behind. He is used to seeing and doing things. He feels that helping others makes others happy, and he is happy too, which is good. In life, when looking at a child’s personality and performance, we always like to say that based on his personality, he and his parents are really like a family. Yes, if parents are kind to others and treat family, friends, and even strangers with kindness, then their children will learn to treat the world with kindness. If parents are generous and don\’t pick up things on the road, their children will not be fussy and will naturally know how to share with others and know not to be greedy for petty gains and not to take things that are not their own. Parents follow the rules and are moral. Children will know that certain rules must be followed, that they cannot do things that harm or hinder others, and that they must think of the collective interests in a group. The words and deeds that parents give to their children in life, and how they behave in front of their children, will eventually become the cornerstone of their own personality. Before we sell everything to buy a house in a school district and spend tens of thousands on interest classes, as parents, we should first return to our original aspirations and work hard to make our children become kind, principled, and beneficial to society. don\’t let fatherThe mother\’s ugly appearance stains the child\’s pure soul.