The phone was found, but the child was gone! What kind of mother could beat her own son for 5 hours?

Recently, a tragedy in Huangqiao in which a mother beat her son to death hit the screen. On the evening of January 5, a mother in a community in Huangqiao beat her son to death because the child had lost his mobile phone. On the night when her son died, the mother was still in the community property group, calmly asking her neighbors if they had picked up a mobile phone without a card. It was originally a peaceful and ordinary night, but the next morning, a neighbor broke out in the group about a terrible tragedy. The mobile phone was lost, as if the sky had collapsed. The police are now involved in the investigation. It is said that the 9-year-old deceased was obviously raised by his grandparents since he was a child. He lived with his mother in the Fuhuang Apartment in Huangqiao when he was old enough to go to school. He has been on vacation these days. , the child lost a mobile phone used to communicate with his mother while playing. He searched for it for several hours to no avail. He obviously sat in the snow and cried. From the video, it can be seen that Mingming still had his mobile phone in his hand when he got off the elevator and went out to play (around 2:50 p.m.). But when the surveillance probe captured Mingming\’s figure again (at around 3 p.m.), Mingming was already hurriedly looking for his cell phone. His panicked and crying appearance attracted the attention of Uncle Qian, the community security guard (almost 4 o\’clock). After learning the details, Uncle Qian helped Mingming search for the mobile phone, but to no avail. (Ming Ming was crying and looking for his phone after he lost it.) Afterwards, Uncle Qian said that because he couldn’t find his phone, he comforted Ming Ming a few words and left first. After a while, Uncle Qian was a little worried and walked over to see Mingming, and found Mingming sitting in the snow crying. Although I couldn\’t find my phone, I obviously returned home in the end. Although I am afraid of my mother\’s accusation, this is obviously the only place I can stay. But this only place of refuge made Mingming pass away that night. My mother was usually \”flammable and explosive\”. I saw a large number of reporters and police attending the scene. Neighbors broke the news to the media: Xiao Chen, Ming Ming\’s mother, was polite to others, but she was very strict with Ming Ming. She beat her twice every three days, and she had deep feelings for her. A kind of resentment that iron cannot become steel. The criminal suspect Xiao Chen lost control of his emotions for a time after being arrested. According to the suspect, Mingming\’s father did not come home for many years and did not give him a penny for living expenses. He is obviously very dependent on her, and often says that he is afraid of being alone at home, and asks if his mother can stay with him without going to work. \”How can I have income if I don\’t go to work? How can I live without income?\” Criminal suspect Xiao Chen admitted that she tied Ming Ming\’s hands, feet and body with tape that day. Calling from 6pm to 11pm. I hit, rested, and hit, about 5 times. During this period, she fed Mingming some water. Late at night, she took Mingming to her child\’s room and said, \”Mom, I don\’t want to see you.\” She went back to her room angrily, maybe because she was tired, and fell asleep. At about 5 o\’clock in the morning, she came to Mingming\’s room again and found that Mingming\’s body had already become cold. Later, after the snow melted, the phone was found. Things are so sad. Do mothers love their children? The answer is yes. But when the pressure of life comes to you, will there be times when you can\’t control your emotions? The criminal suspect Xiao Chen usually studies and lives alone with his children. His father is away from home all year round and basically does not take care of the children. The relationship between the couple is not harmonious. When encountering unsatisfactory and annoying things in life, old and new grudges will ariseAll of them came to mind, and in anger, they took out their anger on the innocent children. Maybe in just a moment, he made a mistake and the child was gone. When this mother calms down, she will regret it deeply. The Chinese New Year will be in one month. While other families gather together to have New Year’s Eve dinner, my own children will never come back. Only the person involved can understand the pain and regret of a mother who beat her son to death with her own hands. To a certain extent, this mother is also a victim. The child was accidentally beaten to death and the body was pickled and hidden. \”The child is my personal belongings.\” Not long ago, on December 29, 2017, the verdict was announced in the case of a Chinese-American woman in Ohio who murdered a female and hid the body. Chen Mingming, a 30-year-old Chinese woman who beat her 5-year-old daughter to death and hid her body in the refrigerator of her restaurant, was sentenced to 22 years in prison after pleading guilty. According to previous reports, the police said that the Chinese mother hit her daughter on the head multiple times with her right fist as the main cause of death. At that time, the father saw green liquid coming out of his daughter\’s mouth and hurriedly took her to the toilet to wash her face. He found that she was no longer breathing and immediately performed cardiopulmonary resuscitation, but unfortunately she died in the end. Then, the couple put the body of the five-year-old girl who was beaten to death into a kitchen container, then completely covered it with salt and hid it above the restaurant\’s refrigerator. In court, the criminal suspect Chen Mingming defended herself in every possible way, saying that she was busy, had a bad relationship with her husband, and had to take care of two daughters. The daughter she gave birth to was free to beat and scold her whenever she wanted. No matter how you look at it, it seems that the subtext is: She is my daughter, I gave her life, and if she disobeys, I can take her life! It\’s really breathtaking. When a child is just a personal item in the parents\’ heart, and can be called around and drank at will, it is almost as if the child is regarded as their \”opposite\”. When parents and children are not on the same front, why are there more and more people nowadays? Children close themselves in their own world and are unwilling to communicate with their parents. What causes it? Why are some children so frightened that they dare not go home if they just lose a small mobile phone, but choose to sit in the snow and cry in despair? A class teacher once told two things about the children in her class: Classmate A was extorted of pocket money for a long time, and did not have lunch for a whole month. The lunch money was \”donated\”, and the parents did not find out. Classmate B fell down while riding a bicycle and suffered skin injuries, but he did not dare to let his parents know. He asked his classmates to bring herbal medicine from home for application. As a result, his feet became so inflamed and swollen that he could not put on his pants. His parents were kept in the dark from the beginning to the end. The head teacher learned that the children in his class were hiding things behind their backs. He felt very sorry for these children who had to learn to \”knock out their teeth and swallow them in their stomachs\” at a young age. Facing the dark side of life, these underage children used My weak shoulders bear all this alone, and I am unwilling to say a word to my parents even if it is painful. Parents stand on the opposite side of their children and become the \”topic terminator\” \”Mom, I want to go out and play with my classmates in the afternoon.\” \”Which classmate? Are you good at studying? Don\’t stay with people with poor grades. Also, are you taking the test this time? What\’s the score? Why do you keep thinking about having fun?\” \”Mom, let me tell you something super fun. During class today…\” \”Just go to class.Be disciplined. You laugh and joke like this all day long, do you think your grades are good? I\’m so anxious! \”Mom, I\’m very unhappy today. I…\” \”What are you unhappy about?\” At your age, I have to do a lot of housework every day, and I also have to take care of my younger siblings! What do you do every day? I’m studying, but I’m still not good at it! It’s true that I don’t know how blessed I am. \”Mom, I want to buy…\” \”You only want this and that all day long. How can you have the shame to say that if you are so bad at reading?\” \”Both cats and dogs know that they feel comfortable when brushing their fur, not to mention children. These topic-stoppers may cause parents to lose the trust of their children. When a child has difficulties, he will no longer consult his parents first. Children and parents The bridge between time has collapsed! \”Topic Terminator\” Parents have one thing in common, that is, they like to look at the problems encountered by their children from the perspective of experienced people, and provide opinions to their children with the experience of completely different generations. No child is born Even if they want to be estranged from their parents, no child will refuse their parents\’ help and love. Because in a child\’s world, parents are the heaven and earth, the most solid backing, and the source of all security. Become the child\’s most solid backing Unknowingly, children do not consult their parents first, but instead consult their classmates. This practice has become a habit among children. Why is this? We can see from families with good parent-child relationships that parents There is mutual trust between parents and children. When one party encounters difficulties, he can seek help from family members without hesitation. In families with poor parent-child relationships, we often get the opposite situation. When children experience unconditional acceptance , tolerance and love, only the long-pent-up negative emotions inside can be vented, and communication will be effective. When a child feels this, he is no longer on the opposite side of his parents, but on the same front as his parents. On. Such a change requires not only the children themselves, but also the efforts of both parents. Don\’t wait for the children to come over on their own initiative, but hope that the parents will go through it themselves. We hope that we will never see such a tragedy again. When children If you make a mistake, you can bravely tell your parents immediately. Parents can also empathize with their children\’s anxiety and fear, stand by their children\’s side, and tell them: \”Don\’t be afraid, it\’s okay, I\’m here!\” \”