A 10-year-old boy had 27 plastic surgeries, the truth is shocking

This may be the gentlest children\’s movie I have ever seen, and no movie in a long time made me cry from beginning to end like \”Wonder Boys\” did. It has no consumer suffering, no ups and downs. It just uses an implicit approach to treat everyone in the story gently, weakening all the evil, and bringing goodwill to people, just like what the poster expresses: choose kindness. The story didn\’t start well. The little boy Auggie was born with a serious disease – Treacher Collins Syndrome, which caused his face to be deformed and ugly. The doctor concluded that he would not survive more than three months, but he survived with his tenacious vitality. . From birth to now, he has undergone 27 surgeries before finally being able to breathe freely and live a normal life without relying on hearing aids. But his face was still extremely distorted. For as long as he could remember, Augie carried an astronaut helmet with him wherever he went. He likes to bounce on the bed and imagine that he is traveling in space. He wants to be an astronaut, likes to watch \”Star Wars\”, and likes to play \”Minecraft\”. His face would make other children cry, and they would only dare to go out to play if they wore a helmet. Mom taught him herself at home until fifth grade, when he had to go to school. Although everyone looked at him with surprise at first because of his uniqueness, they would also distance themselves from him. However, with the firm support of his family and the good intentions of his teachers, Auggie finally accepted himself and the world, and gained friendship with his strength and kindness. The synopsis of the story seems a bit clichéd, and the ending is a bit deliberate. Some people even think it is too positive… But I really think it is a good educational film about love, as moviegoer Rohood said: Its Touching is definitely not superficial, but goes straight to the heart. There is no deliberate sensationalism, but in every detail, it touches you with the most ordinary true feelings, like a gentle hug, sweet and warm. The truth, kindness, beauty, bravery, and tolerance reflected in the film made me think about it for a long time after watching it. This movie, adapted from the children\’s book \”Wonder Boy,\” won numerous awards before the adaptation, and has topped the New York Times children\’s book list for 120 consecutive weeks. Its author, Ms. Palacio, said: She met a child with a weird face in an ice cream shop with her two sons. The 3-year-old son was so frightened that he cried loudly, and the 10-year-old son could not hide his embarrassment. This experience made it difficult for her to let go, so she decided to write a story about how a little boy with a facial disability should be treated and accepted. After being adapted into a movie, it has received many positive reviews as expected: 85% freshness on Rotten Tomatoes, 8.6 on Douban, and an astonishing A+ score from CinemaScore (Hollywood\’s authoritative word-of-mouth prediction company). The movie is performed by Oscar-winning actress Julia Roberts and \”genius child star\” Jacob Tremblay. In addition to the touching story, the movie\’s way of expression is also very good. It shows the people around you through the perspectives of different characters, making it more objective for different audiences to find resonance. Therefore, it is highly recommended for parents to watch it with their children. Below, Danma will analyze it in detail from the four perspectives of family, school, classmates and herself in the film. Family education: “Firm love and encouragement are the source of children’s self-confidence.” Let’s talk about it firstAfter Auggie was born, my mother stopped studying for a master\’s degree and devoted herself to the care and education of her son. She is strong and wise, and she raises Auggie to be a well-behaved and sensible child with excellent academic performance. But when Auggie finished fourth grade, she insisted, over her objections, that her son be sent to a regular school rather than a school for people with disabilities. The communication between mother and son on the first day of school, after Auggie breaks down due to a bad experience, is particularly touching. Mom first pointed out that Auggie shouldn\’t leave without emotion. Auggie cried bitterly: \”Why am I so ugly?\” His mother comforted him gently: \”You are not ugly, Auggie.\” Auggie said: \”Because you are my mother, so you can only say this.\” His mother looked directly into his eyes: \”Because I am your mother, so what I say is the most important, because I understand you.\” Repeatedly emphasized: \”You are not wrong, you are not ugly at all! We all love you very much!\” Finally, we sympathized with Auggie\’s feelings: \”Every There are marks on everyone\’s face, and each of your operations left a wrinkle on my face, but the face is just a map of the past, and the heart is the map of the future.\” I think it is precisely because my mother is so determined His love gave Auggie a constant sense of security, allowing him to endure the loneliness of being rejected by everyone; he was also able to intelligently understand that when people looked at him, sometimes they didn\’t mean any harm, just because of ignorance. Let’s talk about dad. He has always been humorous and optimistic at home, even a little childish. He often makes Auggie angry and laughing, but he never forgets his father’s responsibility. Play games with Auggie, make jokes to keep him happy, and tell him to fight back when someone bullies him. He also took away Auggie\’s \”protective hat\” and asked him to show himself generously. Infected by his father\’s optimism, Auggie can say humorously: \”It took a lot of effort for me to become so handsome.\” He is also able to fight back without fear when being bullied. There is also sister Weiya: she will feel disappointed because her parents pay too much attention to her younger brother, and she will also understand her parents\’ fatigue. More importantly, she loves her younger brother wholeheartedly without any complaints. In adolescence, she also faced growing pains, but she constantly encouraged Auggie: \”You are born different, and you are destined not to be unknown.\” Compared with her parents, her sister is actually better able to understand and be aware of Auggie\’s emotions. She could tell from Auggie\’s behavior of cutting off her braids that she had been laughed at by her classmates; she could also use her own experiences to comfort Auggie when he was sad because of his friends; and when Auggie misunderstood his sister, she could tell him that not everything was perfect. It started because of you, and the world does not revolve around you. If his parents made Auggie strong and brave, then his sister helped Auggie become more understanding of the world. Just like the first day of school, the whole family sent him to school together, and everyone told him: Mom: I love you, I will pick you up on time. Dad: You may feel lonely, but in fact you are not. Sister: If others want to see your face, then show it to others. From the perspective of sister Via\’s friend Miranda, Auggie\’s family is extremely warm and loving, which makes her very envious. I must say here that Julia Roberts’s acting skills are really good. Every time I see the picture below, her eyes as a mother with infinite love and concern for her children make me feel likeThe urge to cry. I think it is precisely because of such a nearly perfect family and the warm \”encouragement\” education that gave Auggie a steady stream of security and self-confidence, giving him the courage to face the world. School Education \”Kindness is a Choice\” When Auggie entered school on the first day, the teacher subtly taught them: If you have to choose between being right and being kind, please choose kindness. The principal took great pains to arrange for the children to communicate with Auggie; he welcomed the children to school every day wearing a furry Chewbacca costume to avoid everyone staring at Auggie; he carefully cared for the kindness of the children. Like Jack fighting with Julian over Auggie, the apology letter reads: I\’m sorry I got into a fight at school and I knew you might revoke my scholarship. But I can\’t say why, because it would implicate Julian. The principal’s reply particularly touched me: Many years of educational experience tell me that you have to see both sides of everything. For fighting, you have to suspend school for two days; but your scholarship will not be cancelled, and may you always maintain your kindness. After Julian bullied Auggie, he said to Julian: Auggie can\’t change his appearance, but we can change our attitude towards him. Whether it is the principal or the teacher, they all teach the children seriously from top to bottom: Please choose kindness. It is precisely because of this kind of kindness that the world\’s cruelty towards Auggie is diluted. Peer Friendship \”When faced with peer pressure, being firm is growth.\” If many things in the film are too like fairy tales, then this friendship is particularly vivid and real. The handsome boy Jack is the prototype of the author\’s eldest son. She wrote the experience of the ice cream shop into the story. Jack felt guilty about Auggie because of the ice cream incident, and with the advice of his elders, he took good care of Auggie. Slowly he discovered that Auggie was smart, humorous and strong, so he was sincerely willing to make friends with Auggie. But being friends with special people means that you will become special. Faced with the fact that the boys in the class, headed by Julianne, were ostracizing Auggie, Jack did not want to be ostracized too, so he said to the other boys: I don’t like Auggie, I am obsessed with Auggie… I must praise the young male protagonist Jacob Tremblay\’s acting skills could be felt even though he was wearing thick makeup. Unfortunately, Auggie heard it and the two stopped talking. Until Jack knew that his behavior had hurt Auggie, he finally stopped succumbing to peer pressure, no longer cared about what others thought of him, and chose to be friends with Auggie openly. Jack\’s behavior inspired many people, and the little girls Summer and Charlotte… all began to approach Auggie. The last few scenes are really beautiful, and the children’s innocent friendship is so irresistible. This story continues the ending of the incident in the ice cream shop. I think what the author wants to teach his children most is: how to treat people who are different! Augie \”When you smile at the mirror, you smile at the world.\” Augie said he likes Halloween because at other times, he is a special presence in the crowd. On this day, everyone is just like him. He said that the superpower he wanted most was invisibility. I think the most torturous thing for him wasCome from other people’s strange eyes! In real life, it is difficult for children like Auggie to be accepted by everyone. But allowing yourself to accept the world can really be done. First of all, don\’t think too low of yourself. When the little girl Summer approached him, he thought it was just sympathy. But Summer saw the good qualities in Auggie from the first day, and she really wanted to make friends with her. Sometimes I think others treat me in a special way, but in fact most of the time it is just what I think. Secondly, understand that when others look at you in a strange way, most of the time it is not malicious, it is just because of ignorance or being strange. Auggie bravely said to the principal dressed as Chewbacca in front of the whole school, and he was also telling all the children: I\’m sorry, my eyes made you feel embarrassed. Looking at this story from Auggie\’s point of view, I think it is written for everyone who feels that they are special or humble. If you like yourself, you will like this world that makes you beautiful. On the other hand, if you don’t like the world, the fundamental reason is that you don’t like yourself. When you smile in the mirror, you smile to the world.