How many children are pretending to read?

Winter vacation is coming soon. Many parents have begun to look for books for their children. I still remember that I recommended a set of books to a friend last year. He looked around and commented on how the books I recommended were useless. I said, \”What kind of book do you want?\” \”The kind that makes him not lose his temper after reading it, or the kind that allows him to learn knowledge.\” \”Children like that set of books.\” It’s useless for them to like it. They also like comics and novels. Do you want them to read comics and novels every day?” “Good comics and novels are fine too!” Then he stopped talking. Later, he showed off his trophies in the circle of friends and bought a bunch of adapted classics, fairy tales, and Chinese enlightenment ceremonies. I\’m really worried about his son. When the child receives it, should he like it or reject it? How many children pretend to read to satisfy their parents? A mother once left a message saying: Every time her child said he wanted to go to the study room to study, she would take a peek and find her son playing with his toys there, or writing and drawing. As soon as his mother came, he quickly picked up the book and read. In fact, she could feel that her son was dealing with her, but he just didn\’t want to make his mother angry. She said she didn\’t know what to do? Could it be that I was really pushing too hard? Children pretending to read are often forced by their parents. Your child pretends to like the book you bought, but actually has no book to read. I can only secretly read online novels on the Internet, or borrow books from classmates in private. , or make small moves as soon as they leave your sight. When parents and children have no common words, it is actually the most dangerous time. Because the child no longer tells you the \”truth\”. Nowadays, a new theory of \”the uselessness of reading\” is spreading. Because parents feel that time is tight, they feel that reading must be useful books. What are useful books? A few days ago, a friend who works in a courier company said to me: \”You said you make books, but I see why there are so few books in your warehouse? You don\’t ship many express books. I have a customer in the development zone who ships books every day. \”Thousands of sets.\” \”What kind of books are those?\” \”They are all complete collections of Chinese studies and advanced teaching aids. Unlike you, they are all picture books. Who reads them? People nowadays pay attention to practical effects.\” In fact, my friend It’s really about the current situation of children’s reading. Because the right to buy books rests with parents, many parents add their own ideas to the books unknowingly. Read anything that can help your children improve their scores. And those picture books, stories, and novels! They are all miscellaneous books and are useless after reading them. When choosing extracurricular reading books for your children, you still need to look at their interests. Especially when children are young and their interest in reading has just sprouted, if you step on it suddenly, it may be extinguished immediately. A mother said that her two-year-old son loves cars. So if there was a car in the book, he would look at it and not look at anything else. Ask me if there is something wrong with the child. This is actually quite normal. When I read by myself, I also look at the table of contents and choose the chapters I like to read first. After reading it, I found out that it is a good book, so I will definitely finish it. If your child likes Che Che books, buy him Che Che books. At that time, when Xiao Xiaoyu was more than 2 years old, the most books he had were car and car books, hardcover, paperback, three-dimensional, and loose-leaf. All kinds of books were collected for him.Come, show it to him, and remember his favorite books to play with every day. In the end, I stuck several layers of tape on it, but it still became \”ashes\”. But his interest in reading sprouted and continued to grow. This is especially true for older children. For example, 7- or 8-year-old children will read a book written by a three- or four-year-old child with gusto. You can\’t talk about him! Because some picture books are suitable for us adults to read. I have a cousin who once came to our house as a guest and played with all of my son’s cardboard books. A middle school student doesn\’t read the world famous books on my bookshelf to play with baby books? It’s normal! Children love to play. Then they were very interested in the interesting history books I had at home. For example, \”Hello, Forbidden City\”, this series of books is interesting and fresh, allowing history to be displayed in a new form. In this way, children are willing to accept it, and it is enjoyable to read, and they will never forget the question-and-answer knowledge points. The pleasure brought by this kind of reading is far beyond what history books can give. Many parents are afraid that their children will read such alternative books, so they turn their noses up at classic books. This is actually a misunderstanding. Because children who really fall in love with reading will not be picky eaters. For children in the third grade of primary school and above, you can start to choose some classic literary works for them. Try to read the original books to your children without any cuts. Don\’t underestimate your child\’s reading and self-learning abilities. These classic books will continuously improve children\’s reading ability and enter a new level. Parents should never choose books for their children for utilitarian purposes. Respecting children\’s nature and interests is the prerequisite for making children truly love reading. What exactly can reading bring to children? This is a question that many parents are concerned about. Especially new parents are hesitant to read to their little babies. Old people will say that it is bad eyesight, and some friends will say to give children a stress-free childhood. What impact does reading have on preschool children? Professor Raymond Mah of York University in Canada published a research result in the \”Psychological Yearbook\”: the more stories preschool children read and hear, the more sensitive their minds are. I very much agree with this point of view. Children have a keen mind, which cannot be seen on the outside. But their learning ability will be better. Isn\’t this what every parent hopes for? Sometimes, we always talk about how reading helps children’s language skills. In fact, when reading, it is not just the language area that is stimulated in the child\’s brain. For example, when you read \”Stars\”, \”Red Fruits\” and \”Cheese\” with him. Their brains will follow. The stars are bright. What shape are the stars? Red fruit, red! Cheese is fragrant and your child\’s olfactory processing area will be stimulated. Moreover, children are often integrated into the plot, exercising their imagination and their brains. For older children, the biggest role of reading is to shape the child\’s worldview and knowledge. Mothers often leave messages saying that their cultural level is not high and they don’t know how to educate their children. Especially teenagers, they have more and more ideas. Very disgusted with parents\’ preaching. what to do? If the child has the habit of reading, this matter will be much easier to handle. Because a good book will help children understandMake your own world, understand your own troubles, understand your parents, and recognize some of the things you are going through. It\’s hard for these parents to do that sometimes. Even if parents are capable of doing it, their children may not listen to you. But if a child takes the initiative to read, the effect will certainly be different. Reading can help children become a more complete person. Another key to cultivating children\’s reading habits is parents\’ emphasis on reading. Because parents can get involved themselves, which is the best start, and your words and deeds are the best education. Of course, everyone will also be concerned about how to make children really fall in love with reading? Let me briefly list a few ideas, which I have discussed with you one after another before: 1. Create a reading corner at home, give your child a dedicated bookcase, and prepare enough books. 2. Take action as soon as possible and let your children start reading as early as possible. Don\’t make it serious, but make reading as easy and normal as eating. 3. Ask your child what kind of book you want to read, and then satisfy your child. This is respect for his wishes and your best chance to get to know your child, and your child will not \”pretend\” to read to cooperate with you. 4. Hold a small reading club and use the holidays to bring children who like reading together to read together. You read to me and I read to you. For example, I will invite Xiao Xiaoyu’s cousin who is in elementary school to come to my house to read with him. The two children read very enthusiastically together. 5. Make a reading plan with your child. This plan can be specific to the title of the book, the time to read every day, and the number of chapters and pages. Remember, the child must make his or her own arrangements, not you forcing the arrangements.