How to avoid becoming a greasy brat

School is about to start for the naughty kids. Finally, I no longer have to be dragged by my mother to recite poems and sing at gatherings of \”greasy\” middle-aged people! Hidden behind my mother\’s back, my mother would fish it out and dry it in front of the heavily made-up aunties. I feel a little helpless and heartbroken, so I wanted to write something for children and mothers. Dear child: You have the right to have a complete and not greasy childhood. Thinking of me, I was very stubborn when I was young. You want me to practice calligraphy? I will cry flowers on a big rice paper, and the words can be soaked into the flowers. I run wildly outside with my friends, play house, catch grasshoppers, like the snails with dewdrops in the morning, and put a sticky flower that looks like rouge on my ears. I don’t like to eat breakfast, I don’t like to respectfully call everyone uncle and aunt, I don’t like to be forced to recite Tang poetry and Song lyrics and the multiplication tables in front of others, I don’t like to eat onions, ginger and garlic, I don’t like to eat shrimps in dumplings, I don’t like to eat them. I like to wear my sister\’s clothes, but I don\’t like to wear my sister\’s clothes every Sunday night and the day before school starts… As a child, at that time I would stubbornly do all the things I liked, and I would do all the things I hated without shame. refuse. Children at that time seemed to be more aggressive, not afraid of being beaten or scolded, had a firm heart, were not so sensible, and lived very much like children. Child, I wish you could be like this in this best and worst of times. Why can\’t you be picky about food? Maybe your mother was a picky eater when she was little, giving your grandma a lot of headaches. For example, if you really don’t like the taste of steamed carrots, you have the right to refuse. Why eat something you don’t like? You can tell your mother if it can be made with another flavor? Although you are young, as a person with independent personality, you have the right to express your own thoughts. Maybe if your mother makes breakfast a lively zoo for you, wouldn’t it be more interesting to eat? You said you don’t like onions, ginger, and garlic. I didn’t like onions, ginger, or garlic when I was a kid. Later, when I grew up, I suddenly discovered one day that when I was eating with my family, they would remember to pick out the onions, ginger, and garlic from my bowl. When someone misses you three times a day because of your stubbornness, it is also one of the ways to feel happiness. So, just say it if you don’t like it, but you also have to remember that you are still growing, and the taste you don’t like may be available in a different way, so it’s good to be a brave child and try it! Why do you have to perform your talents when meeting people? Children, do you hate performing your talents in front of everyone? When I was a kid, I really didn’t like it! At first, I was always forced to sing a certain song or memorize a certain Tang poem, and I was also asked by bored adults to compare which child could memorize it best. My face always turns red and I say: No! Those uncles and aunts joked, \”The kids are all shy!\” (You\’re shy, you sister). Why do you have to perform for them? On the surface, they flatter and praise, but in their hearts they may be disdainful, or they may go home and continue to teach their children why they can’t memorize as well as others. Children, don’t be afraid, don’t be shy, don’t make your face red, and just say no if you don’t want to perform. Are your parents enrolling you in so many talent classes just to show off in front of others? It must not be, right? (Even though many of them are like this) Believe me, none of those uncles and aunts who are looking at them really appreciate these, thisThe world is like this. You don’t need to be like a villain to understand all the ideas of pleasing and showing off. You don’t need to be as comfortable on stage as you are dressing up. You don’t need to smile and perform for everyone. Just be yourself, kid. Why do you wear clothes you don’t like? Children, I absolutely believe that your dressing sense must be extremely childish. But so what? Maybe your mom doesn\’t like it. She will probably buy you currently popular clothes, a children\’s version for adults, or even matching parent-child clothes that she likes. But you just like to wear zoo clothes on your body, you like red, blue, yellow, and green ones, but you don’t like the cool, cold, black, white, and gray ones your mother gave you. But maybe you don’t understand this now. But when your grandma or grandma dresses you and you find that the sleeves are baggy and the pants are long, you can always feel it, right? Be brave enough to say no. Why wear something you can still wear in three years? Want to have your mother take ugly photos and post them online to tell the world that this is a \”grandma\’s belt\”? Child, although you are young, you still have the right to be a clean and neat child, and to have your own childish but own aesthetic ideas. One day, you will discover beauty and understand beauty, and then you will grow up. Who said your mouth should be as sweet as honey? My child, you are very polite. You call uncle and aunt good morning when you meet everyone. After dinner, when you see your grandparents, you will ask you if you have eaten? When you meet a child, you will run over and hug her, saying how happy you are to see you! You seem to know how to care about everyone. Everyone likes to listen to what you say. Your elders praise you when everyone meets you. You are that obedient \”other people\’s child\”. As time goes by, one day you suddenly feel bad and don’t want to say hello to the aunt passing by on that sunny morning, hug that little friend, or smile and say hello to grandpa who is walking around. What are they going to say about this kid? Why are you so rude? Your mother started to get a little anxious, a little embarrassed, and started to scold you. Everyone has forgotten why you are unhappy. You really don\’t want to deal with them anymore, and they even keep their children away from you, saying that you are a bad learner. The world of adults can turn upside down so quickly. Children, maybe you don’t understand, that’s okay. Say hello if you want to say hello, just smile if you don\’t want to. You don’t have to be a child with a mouth sweeter than honey. You are just a child and you don’t need to learn these things so early. After all, when you grow up and have to do this, you\’ll miss the time when you didn\’t have to do it as a kid. Can I refuse to participate in various selection contests in my parents’ circle of friends? Dear cool kid, when your parents want to take your cute photos to participate in the local baby photography studio or angel baby selection, you have to bravely stand up and say \”no!\” Otherwise, you know, from all over the country Uncles and aunts from all over the world, your parents\’ close relatives and neighbors, your aunts and uncles, your classmates in elementary school, middle school, high school and college will all be forced to pretend to smile and follow a certain public account for you and then vote for you. Curse, I guess you may not feel it now. When you grow up, you will understand. Of course, you may not be able to stop your parents now, but youYou can give it a try. I saw a post like this. A little boy insisted on eating marshmallows. His mother pointed at the little candy man in his hand and said, \”The Sun Wukong I just bought hasn\’t been eaten yet. Why do you still want it?\” But the little boy didn\’t listen and stayed where he was. Mom had no choice but to buy him marshmallows again. The little boy finally got the marshmallow and said happily to Sun Wukong, \”Monkey King, look, your somersault cloud is here!\” The world of children is very exciting, but many times adults don\’t understand it. I remembered that I had a little sister who was sensible and obedient since she was a child. She never cried or made trouble unreasonably. She is good at homework, respects the elderly and loves the young. Everyone likes her. Later we all grew up. One day she told me how much she envied me because she had never gotten anything she liked since she was a child. She envied people who could cry and break up with their classmates after a disagreement. She envied people who could cry and fight to get new toys. She envied those girls who grew up and confidently asked their boyfriends to buy this and that. She envied public transportation. A young man who was tired after a day\’s work and was glared at on the subway and refused to give up his seat said that she sometimes envied these selfish, willful and ignorant people. After being kidnapped by Shishishi for too many years, she gradually got used to the grievances and unspeakable unhappiness. Children, in the long struggle with adults, tightly protect their childlike innocence that has not yet been wiped out. Creatures like adults are sometimes scary and always want to tamper with the program that originally belonged to childhood. So, dear child, I hope you can be simply happy at the simplest age, even if you are selfish, willful and ignorant. You have your favorite snacks in your mouth, your favorite comics in your hands, and the words in your heart that will not cause you any grievances.