Kindergarten is about to start the school year. The child is crying and missing his mother, but the teacher won’t let him cry! Heavy! want!

Each of us misses our mother sometimes, whether we are a successful person in society or a child who wants to stay with her mother all day long. For the younger children, the sky is bright when their mother is there. Hearing my mother\’s voice, I felt inexplicably at ease. This is people\’s emotional needs. This need will be stronger in children than in adults, because people at this stage are not yet completely independent mentally. Missing my mother is a \”program\” that is performed almost every day in kindergartens. In Ba Academy, all teachers know that if a child cries because he misses his mother, he must give him a chance to vent. No one can say to a crying child, \”Stop crying.\” Therefore, we often see that whenever the school season comes, there is a lot of crying in the courtyard of Ba Academy. Looking at the teachers, they seem very calm. They will tell the children: \”You can cry if you miss your mother, the teacher will be with you.\” Because the teacher knows that crying is a basic emotional need for people. Crying is allowed! But not everyone thinks so. Just because the teacher of Ba Academy allowed the children to cry, some adults in the community saw it and pointed at the teacher outside the kindergarten fence with concern and said: \”What kind of kindergarten is this? The children have been crying for so long. If you don\’t hurry up, Coax the children well, you teachers don’t know how to coax the children!” Oh~ It turns out that many people think that a child who can quickly coax a child from crying is a great teacher and that is the standard of a good teacher! But, let’s think about it, what can a child do if he misses his mother very much? Some people say, of course they will cry! It will be very sad! Yes. For children, although crying cannot avoid leaving their mother to go to kindergarten, tears and crying can express the pain of missing their mother and not being able to see her! This flood of emotions cannot be stopped, nor should it be stopped. Because crying is the way God gives every child to express their emotions. But can the teacher bear it? Can everyone sympathize with the child\’s feelings at this moment? Can you understand your child’s need to cry? Can you prepare your loving self to accept your child’s emotions? This is really great! Heavy! want! Maybe you can\’t stand the discomfort and irritation caused by your child\’s crying, so you try your best to stop your child from crying. However, no matter what method is used at this time, as long as the child is not given a chance to cry, it may suppress the child\’s emotions and aggravate the child\’s pain. At the same time, it will also destroy the child\’s trust in the kindergarten and the teacher. Once this trust is destroyed, let\’s just imagine how painful it will be for the child. They are sent to this place every day, but the people here only want them to be \”good\” and don\’t allow them to be \”bad\”. They are not even allowed to cry! Over time, children have to adapt to the needs of adults every day and become the \”good children who don\’t cry or make trouble\” that everyone wants. People always don\’t like children crying, and always want to remove \”crying\” from the child\’s life state. For example: People like children not to cry when they fall down. Even if the fall hurts, they want the child to say calmly, \”It\’s okay, it doesn\’t hurt at all.\” Don\’t cry even if your favorite toy is damaged. It’s best not to cry when you miss your mother, or simply stop thinking about your mother and enjoy your childhood.The wonderful life of kindergarten! You might as well think about it again, if a person can no longer cry and can only laugh, is he still normal? Fortunately, there are many kindergarten teachers who are very caring. They not only understand children, but also have the ability and determination to care for children. No, when the school season arrived, Ba Academy teachers also welcomed crying children. Faced with the child\’s crying, they choose to do this… 1. Respect and acceptance: If the child refuses to join the class because he misses his mother and is not familiar with the kindergarten, the teacher will choose a place where the child is willing to go to accompany them. 2. Empathize and give the child a chance to cry: The child cried over and over again and said he missed his mother, and the teacher took the trouble to empathize and said: Well, I know you miss your mother. I see you are sad and can cry. Many people will cry sadly because their mother is not around. I did the same when I was a child. Mom loves you very much. She will pick you up after dinner. The teacher will stay with you until she comes. 3. Find a way to make the child feel at ease: For example, take the child and call the mother to say that I miss you and please pick me up early… For example: draw a picture for the mother, using the mother\’s favorite color. Ask the teacher to write what he wants to say to his mother on the back of the painting. Another example: Make a missing gift for your mother, put all your thoughts about your mother into the gift, and give it to your mother in the afternoon. In fact, there are many methods, but the one thing that remains the same is the understanding and love. This love is not an empty slogan or a fixed action, but a heartfelt determination to do the best for your children.