A bowl of noodles killed a child, but awakened countless parents across the country!

A few days ago, a video went viral on the Internet. The story of a bowl of noodles touched countless people. A mother took her son to eat noodles, but because they didn\’t have enough money, they only ordered one bowl. Seeing the mother and son happily eating a bowl of noodles, the noodle shop owner was very moved. The kind-hearted man told a little lie and told the mother and son that because they were the 100th guest, they could get a free meal. A few days later, the boy appeared in front of the noodle shop again. He used twigs to count the number of customers. When he finally reached 100 customers, he quickly called his mother. The one hundredth customer was still free of charge, and the boss served a bowl of noodles. When the bowl of noodles was served, the boy gently pushed the noodles in front of his mother and said, \”Mom, I\’m treating you today.\” Looking at his mother eating the noodles, the boy smiled happily. His mother worked hard to raise him. He had little strength at a young age, but he could finally do something to repay his mother. But for the same bowl of noodles, some children are so selfish that they are outrageous! A grandmother often takes her grandson to eat beef noodles at a restaurant next to the school after school. She orders two bowls every time, but grandma always puts all the beef in her own bowl into her grandson’s bowl. Seeing her grandson eating meat, a kind smile appeared on her wrinkled face. That day, mother-in-law and grandson came to this noodle shop as usual and had two bowls of noodles. When grandma went to the window to serve the noodles, she directly picked up the chopsticks and put all the beef into her grandson\’s bowl, and then brought the noodles to her grandson. After the grandson took two bites, he suddenly complained loudly to his grandma, \”Why didn\’t you give me the beef today?\” As he said this, he used chopsticks to dig into grandma\’s bowl and even took out all the noodles on the table! Grandma took the noodles that her grandson had brought to the table and put them back into the bowl, and said helplessly, \”Grandson, grandma had already put all the beef into your bowl before bringing it here.\” But grandson pouted, looking unconvinced. He looked so angry that he stopped eating noodles. The helpless grandma had to buy another bowl. But everything that just happened was seen by the shop owner. He wanted to teach the child a lesson and let him know his mistake, so he said he would not sell it to them anymore. As soon as the words came out, the boy overturned the bowl on the table and ran out of the store crying. Soon the boy brought a man. As soon as the man entered the store, he loudly asked for three bowls of noodles. After the noodles were served, he specially called the boss and put all the beef into the boy\’s bowl in front of him. He also said loudly: \”You can eat the noodles you want with the money I bought. I gave them to my son, do you care? Now I won\’t eat your stinky noodles!\” As he said this, he threw down 100 Yuan took the boy away. \”Bah, I won\’t eat your stinky noodles!\” The boy walked to the door, turned around, spat into the store, and walked away proudly with his head raised. The other customers in the store shook their heads and sighed: Such a selfish and ungrateful child will probably not have much success in the future. Same bowl of noodles, same young children. But his character and character are clear-cut. In the first story, when the child ordered a side dish for his mother, the mother did not refuse. Because she loves her children, but she doesn\’t dote on them. She wanted her child to know that her mother was very touched by everything he did for her, so that the child could receive spiritual praise and affirmation. Such children will understand that they are loved and will feel that they have given more than justIf you can bring happiness to others, you will also gain happiness for yourself. Such children will become stronger and kinder. In the second story, when the boy lost his temper and refused to eat noodles, his grandmother did not stop him, and his father gave him wrong guidance. Let the child feel that everything must go according to his own wishes, and let the child think that he is the little bully in the family. Their love is excessive doting. Children who grow up under such pampering may not adapt to society at best, or may become \”white-eyed wolves\” in serious cases! It is not uncommon in our lives today to be spoiled and raised as a \”white-eyed wolf\”. After an 18-year-old girl defrauded her father of 3 million yuan, she blocked her family and stopped contacting her. After searching for his daughter in every possible way to no avail, the helpless father said this: \”Looking back to the root cause, I have an unshirkable responsibility for being too doting on my daughter.\” The mother took her son to get glasses, but the son only played with his mobile phone. Because a piece of paper handed over by his mother blocked him from playing the game, he reached out and hit his mother hard on the head. In the mall, my daughter wanted to buy an Apple mobile phone, but her family was in a difficult situation and could not buy it. The disabled mother knelt down and begged her daughter, but her daughter still complained: \”Why did you give birth to me if you don\’t have money!\”… There are many, many such cases. Because they have been doted on since childhood, they do not understand how difficult it is for their parents. They constantly ask for things but are completely unafraid of gratitude! This is the case for parents and elders at home. It is really hard to imagine what they will be like when they grow up and enter society one day! There is an old saying in China: \”It is unlucky for a beloved child, and it is difficult for a beloved child to become a talent.\” Nowadays, the living environment is getting better and better. Many families are like this: the TV at home belongs to the child, and he can watch whatever he wants, and the whole family will accompany him. Look at him; the delicious food on the table belongs to the child, and he can eat whatever he likes. He picks and chooses the leftovers before the whole family eats them with chopsticks; when shopping, the child buys whatever he wants without hesitation. , for fear that the things their children use are inferior to other children; at home, children are not allowed to do anything, such as washing dishes, washing clothes, mopping the floor, etc., and parents take care of everything; outside, if a child gets into trouble, he immediately protects him without any hesitation. Instead of asking him to admit his mistake, he feels that the child should be forgiven when he is still young… These are all signs of over-indulgence and will lead the child down the wrong path. Today he thinks that his parents should carry his schoolbag and buy a mobile phone for him. Tomorrow he will think that his parents should find a job, buy a car and buy a house for him. If one day his parents cannot give him what he wants, he may become resentful. Therefore, parents must let their children understand the importance of gratitude, whether to their parents or to other people around them. A child who knows how to be grateful will cherish everything he gets and feel more joy and happiness. Parents should remember: If you don’t want to raise your child to be a “white-eyed wolf”, don’t over-indulge him, don’t let him feel that he is the center of the world, and teach your child to always be grateful!