How to enlighten children who don’t want to go to school? These two stories are worth a thousand words

What should I do if my child doesn’t like going to school? This is a constant problem for parents. Even though you are sincere, he still goes his own way. You are anxious when you see his dismal report card, but he is in a relaxed mood and doesn\’t take it seriously. What should parents do if they have such a naughty child at home? I recently saw two stories that I believe will be inspiring to parents. The protagonist of the first story is a Chinese father. After May Day this year, a sixth-grade student in a primary school in Linshui County failed to complete his homework for three consecutive days, and his class teacher called his parents to inform them. When he clearly didn\’t finish his homework the next day, he promised his father: \”I will finish my homework. If I don\’t finish it, I will go home and pick up excrement.\” However, on the third day, his homework was still not completed. Unexpectedly, his father took him back to his hometown in the countryside on the weekend and received a \”hard education\” – picking manure. Throughout the morning, Ming Ming walked seven or eight times to the cornfield 300 meters away, carrying a manure bucket containing thirty or forty pounds of manure water. Even though Mingming cried bitterly and promised his father, his father always insisted: \”Don\’t shed tears to me, your tears are of no use to me now, let\’s go!\” After the \”dung-picking education\” was over, Mingming promised his father that he would improve his academic performance. , and set goals for the midterm exam. Moreover, Mingming also wrote an essay \”An Unforgettable Day\”, in which he wrote: \”At first I thought picking up dung was a very easy task, but I didn\’t realize how difficult it was until I received the dung bucket… I used I tried my best to stand up. It was very difficult for me to take even one step…\” \”Later, after I carried it for a long time, I felt great pain in the bones on my shoulders and the back of my neck. I also felt that the excrement on my shoulders was getting heavier and heavier, like a shoulder. It\’s like carrying a Mount Tai…\” \”This made me know that I must study hard in the future, and it also made me deeply understand how difficult it is to live in rural areas.\” According to Mingming\’s teacher, when his children return to the countryside to choose After the excrement experience, I completed the homework assigned every day seriously, \”even the handwriting was very neat.\” The protagonist of another story is a Thai mother. One morning, her 5-year-old son refused to go to school. No matter how hard she and her husband tried to persuade him, nothing worked. So she told her son that if he didn\’t want to go to school, he had to make money. You were so young and didn\’t know anything, so you could only make money by picking up garbage. She simply took a day off from work and took her son to pick up garbage. At first, the child was quite happy thinking that he did not have to go to school, so he followed his mother. The mother and son walked and picked up things under the sun. After a while, the son complained that he was tired. The mother was unmoved and insisted on walking 3.5 kilometers with him, picked up a small bag of empty bottles and exchanged them for 2 baht. At this time, the child wanted to go home to rest, but he could no longer walk. \”Mom, can we take the bus home?\” \”It costs 10 baht per person to take the bus. Do we have enough money?\” His mother\’s words left him speechless, so he had to follow her back silently. Passing by an ice cream shop, he was hot and thirsty and wanted to eat ice cream. \”Mom, I want to eat ice cream.\” \”Ice cream costs 5 baht. Do we have money?\” After walking for a while, he passed by another restaurant. \”Mom, I want to eat oats.\” Mom still refused his request. The son who really couldn\’t stand it finally discovered that,Going to school is such a blessing. I took the initiative to say to my mother: \”Mom, I\’m so tired, I\’m hot and thirsty, I want to go home, I want to go to school… Some people say that if I could live my life again, I would definitely avoid it. There are many mistakes. Unfortunately, life cannot be repeated. However, for children who do not study hard, we can give them a preview and tell them what it will be like if they do not study hard. A few days ago, my little niece said that she did not want to go to school. Her sister asked her: \”What do you want to do in the future if you don\’t go to school? The niece replied: \”Just stay at home every day like you do.\” \”As a result, my sister took her to experience her own life for half a day, doing housework, feeding pigs in the pig farm, weeding in the cornfield, and then busy cooking at home. After half a day, she was covered in sweat. My niece followed her to the end, I didn’t say anything, but I never mentioned not going to school again. As a rural girl, if she graduates from junior high school and no longer goes to school, she will probably look like this after she gets married. I believe my niece understands what she should do now. I remember one time I found a student who was not serious about studying and had a heart-to-heart talk. After spending a long time talking, the student said calmly: \”Teacher, actually I understand what you said, and I can also say what you ask me to say, but I just can\’t listen.\” Go in! \”The palest thing is words, and the most powerful thing is actions. Letting children experience the difficulty of life is really better than preaching many truths. Today\’s children, regardless of whether their family conditions are poor or rich, belong to the wealthy generation. They don’t know the hardships of life, and of course they don’t know the benefits of studying. Especially for children from poor families, their parents obviously have a hard life, but they pamper their children and let them live like a rich person, so that He cannot see the essence of life. This is a taboo in education. In this society that is not completely fair, maybe children from rich and powerful families can live a good life without studying hard, but for ordinary people, For children, studying hard is the only way to counterattack. Don\’t believe that studying is useless. People say that studying is useless. If you can\’t get into college, you can study abroad and become a senior executive after you come back. You believe that studying is useless and you can\’t get into college. The result may be to go directly to the construction site to move bricks. Tell the child the truth of life cruelly, let him experience the pain under the scorching sun and feel the pain on his shoulders, which will definitely have a positive effect on his performance in the classroom. The experience is A kind of wealth is also a kind of education. If you cover up the truth of life and only let your children see the bright side, it may mislead them.