The highest level of showing off wealth is to raise well-educated children

So heartwarming! When the \”man who dominates the seat\”, \”the woman who dominates the seat\” and the \”aunt who dominates the seat\” on the high-speed train were making a fuss on the Internet, a moral breeze finally appeared. Two days ago, in Hezhou, Guangxi, an old man on crutches staggered across the road. But halfway through, the traffic lights changed and vehicles moved forward. The old man was at a loss in the middle of the road. At this time, a black car actively stopped to avoid the situation. After a while, a motorcycle suddenly crossed the traffic flow, forcing the vehicle behind it to stop, and waited quietly for the old man to pass slowly. A friend said that he watched this video several times and was very moved. In sharp contrast, some time ago, at the gate of a school in Heze, Shandong Province, the driver of a white car not only failed to give way to passing students, but instead pressed the front of the car against the children\’s legs, cutting off the road. Many netizens said: If a person is educated or not, you will know all about it if you let him drive once. Stopping and giving way to pedestrians is a moral practice that every driver should have. However, some people lower the moral bottom line again and again for their own selfish interests. No matter how glamorous your clothes are or how exquisite your makeup is, the moment you are self-centered and ignore the rules, you look uneducated, so ugly! Your words and deeds are like a person\’s second face, letting everyone see the real you: education and person. Education is found in the details. Some people say that there are three things in the world that cannot be concealed: cough, poverty and love. I would also like to add one more important thing, which is education. Whether a person is educated or not can always be reflected in the details. Education is not something you are born with. It is deeply influenced by the family of origin, integrated into everyone\’s bones, and revealed inadvertently in every move. Watching \”Wife\’s Romantic Travel\”, I found that Ying Cai\’er is really a thorough implementer of \”Operation CD\”, and also warned Ying Er to eat as much as she can and not to waste food. He is also polite to the waiters and constantly reminds Wei Daxun to say \”thank you\” and \”please\” to the waiters. Seeing this, I finally understood how Jasper, who is loved by everyone and has countless fans, was \”refined\”. I remember that the program team went to her home for an interview and found that the living room was super clean and the picture was completely different from that of a family with a cute baby. It turns out that when Jasper was very young, Cai\’er Ying taught him that the living room belongs to everyone, not just him, so even if the toys are brought to the living room to play, they should be put back in the room and tidied up in time. In her view, children must know how to respect everyone from an early age, which is a very important quality. It was under such influence that Jasper became the \”warm man\” who best knew how to express gratitude and love in \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”. Every detail in life is actually not a trivial matter. Many times, every move, word and deed of parents will be subtly engraved in the memory of their children, making them what they are now and in the future. Wise parents know how to use their own practice to provide \”subtle education\” to their children. Behind every \”naughty child\” is a \”bear parent\”. Not long ago, an Internet celebrity caused an uproar when he beat and insulted a pregnant woman for a dog guard, causing her to have a threatened miscarriage. Why is an Internet celebrity with 3 million fans so poorly educated? In fact, just look at her motherknew. From beginning to end, her mother was an \”accomplice\” on the sidelines. Afterwards, he denied everything in front of the police. Even Wang Sicong couldn\’t help but criticize her mother on Weibo for \”no one taught her to be a good person since she was a child.\” Indeed, if the parents are not \”bears\”, where will the \”bear children\” come from? In the Disney \”Butt Touching Incident\”, instead of sincerely apologizing and educating the child, the boy\’s mother used swear words and got into a fight. In the \”Hot Pot Restaurant Throwing Soup Disfigurement Incident\”, when a child stole a girl\’s mobile phone and spit into the hot pot, the parents did not stop him in time, but excused themselves by saying \”the child is still young\”, which caused a disaster. In Pingdingshan Amusement Park, a 5-year-old boy was kicked down a slide by a boy, causing his arm to be severely fractured. Instead of taking responsibility, the boy\’s mother quickly \”fleeed\” the scene with her child in her arms. Parents are their children\’s first teachers. Whether parents have healthy behavior patterns has a decisive impact on their children\’s behavioral habits, words and deeds. If the parents are of low quality and are overbearing and rude, the result may be that their children will look hideous throughout their lives. If a child does something wrong and instead of teaching the child to take responsibility, the parents help the child to \”come forward\” and escape, the child may not be able to distinguish good from evil, beauty and ugliness throughout his life. Therefore, the behavior of \”naughty children\” is never an honest mistake, but \”premeditated for a long time.\” The seeds of what kind of person a child will become have already been planted in the actions of his parents. Upbringing is kindness rooted in the heart. One time, a friend’s child had a birthday party, and we played until about ten o’clock in the evening. The private room was in a mess. Balloons, ribbons, cakes, fruit peels, and coffee cups were scattered on the table and the floor. The strange smell mixed together made people not want to stay for more than a minute. Everyone packed up in a hurry and hurried home. I forgot to take my child\’s coat, so I turned back. When I opened the door, I found that my friend was taking the child, deflating the balloon gently, sorting the garbage into categories, putting it in bags, throwing it into the trash can, and wiping the table clean with a rag. Later, I discovered that no matter where he went, this friend would carefully clean up the seats he had sat on. The children also learned to put away used blankets and read books neatly, and throw garbage into garbage bags. This reminds me of the Japanese culture of \”don\’t cause trouble to others\”: don\’t talk on the phone on the train; don\’t make loud noises on the street; clean up the floor in a restaurant quickly so as not to disturb other people. Just like the young mother on the subway, she was afraid that her sleeping child would kick someone else and stain her clothes, so she held her shoes with her hands until she got off the train. A 2-year-old girl squatted beside the bus trash can and carefully ate ice cream because her mother said: Don\’t let it drip on the clean floor of the bus. A child wrote a note on the trash can because his sister broke a glass: Please be careful not to let the glass shards slip on your hands. This kind of warmth goes straight to the heart and makes people happy. Behind it is the kindness of thinking about others and the thoughtfulness of always considering others. Know how to take care of other people\’s feelings instead of being complacent and self-righteous. Learning to look at problems from the other person\’s perspective, and being considerate, understanding and respectful of others without wronging yourself is truly educated. In order for children to do this, they need the help of their parentsDial, parents should guide their children to see that there is a caring heart behind these behaviors, so that they can understand what kindness is and what love is. Education is the best education. Writer Su Gengsheng once wrote: \”I have been wondering what education is. Is wearing Armani more educated than Baleno? Later I realized that wearing Armani is indeed more decent than wearing Baleno. Education But we can\’t talk about it.\” A person may have a good skin, but he may not be well-educated. Education is the cultivation rooted in the heart, the power of the soul, and the light that illuminates life. If you lack education, no matter how much you get, you can only have a low-level life. There has always been a saying that raising a poor person is not as good as raising a rich person. In ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, success has nothing to do with family background, but everything to do with upbringing. The gap in life largely depends on the gap in upbringing. Only truly educated people can live a high-level life. As parents, we all want our children to have good luck and good fortune, and education is the best \”passport\” for our children to be happy. Suhomlinsky said: \”Every moment you see your children, you also see yourself. When you educate your children, you educate yourself and test your own personality.\” Being a parent is a practice. Parents have deep-rooted inner cultivation and self-awareness of respecting themselves and others, and know how to be a well-meaning person. Only then will their children have good etiquette and behavior that will benefit them throughout their lives. When you are kind to the world, the world will allow you to have warm spring flowers.