Dad pretends to be a dinosaur to pick up his daughter from school: How cute are parents who keep their word

A piece of news a few days ago warmed the hearts of many netizens: a big dinosaur appeared at the door of a kindergarten in Shanghai, and the person pretending to be the dinosaur was Xiao Pomegranate\’s father. A few days ago, her parents encouraged the 3-year-old pomegranate to develop the habit of independence and promised that if she could do so, she would meet the child\’s small requests. After the little pomegranate did it, she accidentally mentioned that she hoped a dinosaur would pick her up from school, so her father dressed up as a dinosaur and went to the kindergarten on Halloween. In the video, we can see that the father, wearing a huge dinosaur costume, swayed through the crowded crowd of parents and came to his daughter. The surprise and joy on his daughter\’s face was beyond words. The father dressed up as a dinosaur because his daughter once saw one while visiting the supermarket and accidentally expressed her love for dinosaurs to her parents. The parents took their daughter\’s little wish to heart. , and try his best to satisfy his daughter after she fulfills her promise. It’s so courageous to dress up as a dinosaur in public and not be afraid of people’s strange looks! You should do your best to protect your daughter\’s innocence, which is worthy of praise! Afterwards, my mother said in an interview: Because she (daughter) can agree to some of my small requests, I will also try to meet some of her requests, which is to respect each other. Keeping your word to your children is the greatest respect for your children! A word of mutual respect is a reflection of the love parents have for their daughters, but it is what many Chinese parents lack the most. Growing up, we have witnessed how many Chinese-style parents deceived us: \”Injections don\’t hurt, it\’ll be fine in one shot.\” Are injections really painless? \”This medicine is not bitter at all, it is sweet. If you don\’t believe me, try it.\” Is the medicine really sweet? \”Hurry up and eat. After dinner, mom will take you to the supermarket.\” After dinner, did mom really take you to the supermarket? When we grow up, we all know the answer, but this answer is accumulated through many times of broken trust and disappointment. We often say that integrity is the bottom line of being a human being, so we educate our children to be honest. However, how many parents use a set of double standards, telling their children to be honest, but then turn around and lie to their children. Be honest with your children, have you really done that? Keep your word and treat your child as an independent individual. To maintain integrity with your child, you must first treat your child as an independent individual and communicate equally. While asking for help from the refrigerator, Qi Wei was asked by He Jiong, if a child must want something from his mother, how should he educate him? Qi Wei responded: I communicate with her as an adult. There is no reason for you to turn other people\’s things into your own just because you are young. Chen Xuedong on the side said with a look of disbelief: But you are her mother! Chen Xuedong\’s performance reflects most of our ideas: adults should give way to their children at all times. However, behind this \”giving\” is an unequal relationship model. We subconsciously regard children as unreasonable, incommunicable and non-independent individuals. Therefore, when children cry and want to take away other people\’s less precious things, we will give up communication and satisfy the children\’s requests perfunctorily. And when the child does not cooperate with our requirements, we will also use deception and coaxing to exchange for the child\’s temporary peace. If you are used to perfunctory and deceivingway to treat your children, then congratulations! In the end, you will successfully get an unreasonable \”naughty child\”. Parents are the people closest to their children. In fact, it is precisely because they are parents that they should treat their children as independent individuals and put their children on an equal footing for dialogue. Keep your word and let your children learn to respect it. As Eileen said: \”Honesty is a symbol of strength. It shows a person\’s high self-respect and inner sense of security and dignity.\” Parents are the heroes in their children\’s hearts. He loves us, respects us, and desires our respect. The prerequisite for respect is to keep your word. Parents need to pay attention to their own words and deeds, and work hard to fulfill what they promise their children. If they blindly write blank checks and live up to their children\’s expectations, they will only end up collapsing their own image in their children\’s hearts. I still remember the story of \”A Thousand Sugar Wrappers\” I watched when I was a kid. During the summer vacation, I stayed at my grandma’s house and became good friends with Shixiang, who lived next door. My cousin was recuperating at my grandma’s house and was so troubled by us that she couldn’t sit still. She promised to give us an electric dog if she found a thousand candy wrappers. From then on, we looked for candy wrappers everywhere with great expectations. After a few months, we finally accumulated a thousand candy wrappers. However, my cousin told us with a smile that it was just to \”tease\” us. At that moment, in addition to being disappointed, the author even felt the contempt of her friends for her. After all, the person who deceived them was her aunt. Children\’s delicate sensitivity makes it easier for them to perceive the outside world. Children who have been respected for a long time will slowly become a person who respects others. Therefore, age should not be a reason for deception, and age should not be a reason for disrespect. If you keep your word to your children, your children will keep your word to society. Keep your word and let you and your child talk about everything. I still remember that after my sister gave birth to her child, she became a stay-at-home mother and took her little niece to the supermarket every night. The two-year-old niece gradually became a supermarket addict. Later, after my niece started kindergarten at the age of three, my sister found a job and started working. Since she discovered that her niece loved going to the supermarket, her sister would use the supermarket to lure her into doing various things. \”If you do well in kindergarten today, mom will take you to the supermarket.\” \”When you eat well, mom will take you to the supermarket.\” \”Sleep well at night, mom will take you to the supermarket tomorrow.\” The word supermarket It\’s like a delicious candy is imprinted in the little niece\’s mind. Every time she hears the word \”supermarket\”, she will be obedient. But finally one day, the silly little niece suddenly awakened her rebellious spirit. She discovered that even if she really obeyed her mother\’s wishes, her mother would not necessarily take her to the supermarket. After being deceived by her sister again, she cried aggrievedly: \”Mom is a liar, mom is a bad guy.\” After hearing this, her sister became furious, \”How can you say that about mom! Mom is also very tired at work today, you know? ! You don’t respect your mother at all. She doesn’t like you anymore.” My sister felt aggrieved. She just didn’t take her child to the supermarket. Has she forgotten all her kindness to her child? Of course the child will not forget it, but at the moment of being deceived, his heart is filled with great sadness and loss.The fall will cover everything up. Children can be criticized, but children cannot be deceived. Deception is the most serious harm. Being honest with children is not only about loving children, but also a trust-building model that can enhance children\’s sense of security and strengthen the parent-child relationship. If we want our children to talk to us about everything and be intimate, then we must respect our children. And this respect starts with the most basic moral cultivation – keeping one\’s word.