Is this the truth about why children recover after holidays and vomit when they go to school?

A 13-year-old boy in Jiaxing, Zhejiang Province is in the second grade of junior high school. Since entering junior high school from elementary school, he has developed a strange problem. He will vomit whenever he carries his schoolbag every day. At first, the parents thought the child had a bad gastrointestinal problem and took him to the hospital for examination, but doctors in Jiaxing and Shanghai said the child was in good health. Faced with their children\’s condition, parents are also wondering, what happened to their children? This situation lasted for more than a year. As the frequency of the child\’s illness became more and more frequent, the mother of the child summarized the pattern of the child\’s illness. The mother discovered that her child would vomit during normal school days, but not on weekends. The child\’s mother thought that this might be a psychological problem, so she took her child to see a psychiatrist. After careful communication, the doctor found that the child did have a heart problem. It turns out that when the child was in primary school, his academic performance was very good and he had many good friends. After entering junior high school, his friends all separated, and he suddenly felt lost. His bad mood caused his grades to drop, and he was filled with anxiety. The doctor said that the child\’s emotional symptoms turned into physical symptoms, so the child would have vomiting symptoms as soon as he arrived at school. Psychiatrists emphasize that children subconsciously have a profit mentality. If they think they are sick, they don\’t need to go to school. Psychiatrists believe that children\’s condition has a lot to do with their parents\’ education methods. It is believed that parents usually place too much emphasis on their children\’s academic performance and neglect their children\’s psychological concerns. The child is currently receiving psychological counseling. If everything goes well, the child will be able to go back to school in a week or two. In this regard, some netizens also said that they had a fever as soon as they took the exam in elementary school, and some netizens bluntly said that their children were too stressed. Why do teenagers suffer from anxiety disorders? Indeed, today\’s teenagers are under a lot of pressure to study, just like children. Coupled with changes in interpersonal relationships, it is easy to feel anxious. But in addition, the following aspects can easily lead to adolescents suffering from anxiety disorders: 1. Nowadays, almost all children are only children, and they have received too much attention and care from their families since childhood. Children often do not have a clear understanding of themselves. When faced with sudden changes in the environment, they are easily unable to adapt. They also tend to lose confidence when encountering setbacks, develop self-doubt, and thus develop a sense of anxiety. 2. Parents have too high expectations for their children, put a lot of pressure on their children in life, and always set goals and tasks for their children academically. The children seem to be rushing to complete the tasks. When children\’s grades fluctuate, they will be more worried about their parents\’ blame. Such constant tension can easily lead to children being overly anxious. 3. Improper punishment from parents. When children do something wrong or their grades decline, parents tend to deny and attack their children, which will affect their children\’s self-confidence and make them feel frustrated and afraid. Children don\’t know what their parents will do to them, and they feel anxious about the punishment they will receive. 4. If parents themselves are very anxious people, there is no doubt that this behavior will affect their children. Children will also be affected to a certain extent when they see parents who are anxious all day long. Symptoms of the three major anxiety disorders: 1. Reduced self-confidence. Children will doubt their abilities, feel unsure about anything, and tend to be hesitant. Strong sense of insecurity, anxiety, and reduced self-confidence. 2. Children who are overly sensitive and anxious are also prone toOverly sensitive to things around you and highly concerned about your own body changes. Sometimes I feel a loss of self-control and have a strong sense of fear. 3. Easily evasive. Children always underestimate themselves when facing large-scale exams or making important decisions, and they feel like they are always ready to escape. The body sometimes undergoes a series of physiological reactions. In fact, occasional anxiety can be beneficial to children, giving them a sense of urgency and improving their subjective initiative. But long-term anxiety is very bad and can cause psychological disorders in children. Once parents find that their children are too anxious, they must help their children relieve stress, change their own education methods, and take their children to see a psychologist if necessary.