Wu Jing bursts into tears when talking about his son for the first time: No matter how tough he is, he can\’t stop his child\’s tenderness

\”As long as you count three, two, one, look up, you can see daddy.\” Liu Peiqiang said to his 4-year-old son in the popular Spring Festival movie \”The Wandering Earth\”. In the movie, Liu Peiqiang, played by Wu Jing, is an astronaut. Because the solar system is facing destruction, he is going to space to perform a \”wandering earth\” mission. This is likely to be a road with no return. Due to his duty, in order for the only 3.5 billion people left on earth to survive, he could only leave his 4-year-old son behind and go to a distant space station. To exchange for his son\’s lifelong peace at the expense of never seeing each other again is another way of caring for his children. \”A total of twelve years and three days of dormancy, and a total of five years and fourteen days of shift work.\” He has not seen his son for 17 years and has grown into an adult. He no longer remembers his father, but he is still full of resentment towards this father. In his eyes, this father not only abandoned himself, but also gave up his mother\’s life. He was an extremely irresponsible father. In the face of the destruction of the earth, Liu Peiqiang had no time or opportunity to explain to his son. At the moment when he used his life to ignite the hope of the earth, any explanation in words became redundant. The son finally understood that his father gave up his company because of his great love for mankind and to give him better love. In this movie, the gap between his son and Liu Peiqiang is indeed caused by the lack of a father\’s role. This also made Wu Jing himself realize that in these years, in order to make movies, he has missed too many moments of his son\’s growth. . In the father-son special episode of \”The Wandering Earth\” released on February 1, tough guy Wu Jing rarely showed his tender side. Wu Jing said that every time he saw his son, he would feel a little dazed, because every time he met, his son would change a lot. He was worried that the child would be bullied in kindergarten, and he was also worried that the child would miss him. He didn\’t know if he was a qualified father, or if he could be the pride of his son. The more he thought about it, the more lost he felt. Whether it is Liu Peiqiang in the movie character or Wu Jing in real life, they all face the same confusion. In this world, adults who are parents are burdened with too many things, including responsibilities, obligations, ideals, and livelihoods. There are countless parents who, for various unavoidable reasons, endure the pain of missing and not being understood, and cannot be with their children every day. But they all understand in their hearts that although they can\’t be with you all the time, your child, your parents really love you very much. Recently, a video has become popular on the Internet. The video was taken by a military wife who wanted to commemorate the moment when her child met his military father whom he had not seen for a long time. In the video, the child who saw his father for the first time looked unfamiliar and refused to recognize him no matter what. The mother said that the last time the child saw his father was when he was 10 months old. Usually, the children often video chat with their father. They may see that the father in real life is much taller than the father in the mobile phone, and the children are afraid to recognize him. The mother thinks of a way to take out the mobile phone and make a video call to her husband. She told the child that the man opposite him was your dad on the phone. Only then did the child understand that the tall dad in front of him was the little dad on the phone. He was finally willing to throw himself into his father\’s arms. In the elevator, the father holds his sonI couldn\’t help crying. To the child, his father only existed on his mobile phone. \”Xiao Rui, call and ask when dad will be back.\” \”Dad went to put out the fire and won\’t come back.\” The firefighter\’s wife didn\’t say anything. Just two sentences of conversation with her children made my eyes wet. For soldiers, In other words, if you take care of the small family, you can\’t take care of everyone else. If you take care of everyone, you can\’t take care of the small family. Last year, Deng Chao posted a video on Weibo. In the video, the little girl was holding her father who was about to go out to work and refused to let go. She cried so sadly that it even made Deng Chao think about retiring. Of course, this is just casual talk. After all, the responsibility of supporting the family still rests on his shoulders. Even for a big star who earns a lot of money, we ordinary people don\’t dare to slack off when it comes to life. If life conflicts with our children, we can only force ourselves to be cruel in the face of their children\’s tears. The Spring Festival holiday is over, and such sad scenes have begun to unfold. The father was about to go out to work by train, and the daughter hugged her father\’s leg and cried. When the mother got in the car, the child held on to the car door and refused to let go. They are all saying, \”Mom and Dad, I don\’t want new clothes or delicious food, as long as you stay with me at home.\” My child, don\’t blame your parents for being cruel. They can\’t accompany you when they pick up work, and they can\’t support you when they put down work. My daughter is over two years old. Every time she goes out, she hugs her lap and cries, \”Mom doesn\’t go to work, so she stays with me.\” Sometimes I think, forget it, why bother yourself like this? If you give it all, it will only be three years, right? ? I might as well resign and stay at home with her, and wait until she goes to elementary school before going out to find a job. However, looking at the balance of my bank card, the mortgage and car loans I have to face every month, and the four elderly people in my family who have no pension or savings, this idea can only be thought about. My friend Ling Lan was still breastfeeding. Because the house had just been renovated and was still smelling, for the sake of the child\’s health, she placed her daughter, who was under one year old, at her mother-in-law\’s house 200 kilometers away. In order to let her daughter eat breast milk for a few more days and enhance her immunity, she used a breast pump to pump the milk every day, stored it in the refrigerator, and took a long-distance car back to her hometown on weekends. In winter, the cold wind in my hometown is very strong. Every time I go home and see the \”rural red\” on my daughter\’s face, Ling Lan will always hide and cry for a while, then wipe it off and play with the child as if it\’s nothing. Every time before she left, her mother-in-law would ask her mother-in-law to carry her daughter to a small store to buy sweets, because she did not dare to face her daughter\’s tears every time she left. Children are parents\’ weaknesses and armor. In order for you to live a better life, we can be a little bit aggrieved, a bit more aggrieved, a bit harder, and a bit harder. In \”Westward Journey\”, Zhizunbao said: How can I save you if I don\’t wear a golden hoop? How can I love you if I wear a golden hoop? We voluntarily wear the golden hoop just to love you better. As parents, we often feel guilty and worried about our children\’s growth because of insufficient companionship. However, this netizen\’s message is very comforting. A few simple words made a grateful child stand before us alive. In \”The Wandering Earth\”, the son finally understands his father, and like his father, grows into a brave and resourceful man, responsible for saving lives.The important task of saving the earth. In fact, he never really hated his father, he just had a lot of regrets about the lack of father\’s love. During the filming of the movie, his wife Xie Nan took his son Wu Suo to visit the studio. Wu Jing took his son to experience his work and visit his shooting environment. Wu Jing said to his son that everything his father did was in the hope that one day, you would find out that old Wu was doing such great things, and you could proudly tell your friends that that was my dad! Dad hopes to plant a seed of imagination in your heart, so that one day you can become a more powerful person than Dad. Although he lacks his father\’s company, Wu is not unfamiliar with his father. In his eyes, his father is very cute, cool, handsome, tall, and strong. He can protect me and lift me to the top of his head. In the sky… …After reading this paragraph, Wu Jing turned his back and couldn\’t help but wipe away his tears. No matter how tough a tough guy is, his tears will become lower in front of an innocent child. \”Parents who love their children have far-reaching plans.\” If possible, we must spend as much time with our children as possible. After all, a child\’s growth cannot be replicated, and the lack of father\’s and mother\’s love in childhood cannot be made up for. However, if there is really no other way, as long as we set a good example for our children, our children will definitely understand one day. Every child is a gift from God. They once lay on the clouds and carefully selected their parents. In order to be our children, they gave up many better opportunities and came to us like little beggars with nothing, looking helpless, just to love us unconditionally. Although time has passed forever, they all understand the hardships and embarrassments of their parents.