A 12-year-old girl committed suicide by jumping off a building, and a suicide note made all her parents cry.

The winter vacation has passed, and children are about to start school. I thought that the children would go to school happily, meet their long-lost friends, and study and play wildly with their classmates. But on February 20, the first day of school, a tragedy occurred that made all parents feel heartbroken. A 12-year-old girl ended her life by jumping off a building. A 12-year-old girl wrote a suicide note \”I hate you\”. Here\’s what happened: On February 20, a loud bang came from the 4th floor of Yijuming Community, Songshan Road, Zhengzhou City. Ms. Liu, a resident, heard the sound and looked over. What she saw in front of her was The sight scared her to the spot. Ms. Liu said: The entrance to the platform on the fourth floor and the surrounding railings were covered with blood spatters. The little girl was lying motionless on the ground, and her limbs had been separated. Surveillance showed that the little girl was on the top floor of the 32nd floor of the residential building at that time. She put her schoolbag aside, then jumped and landed on the small platform on the 4th floor. The family members who heard the news ran to the scene crying, and the little girl\’s father kept saying: \”I just said a few words to you and quarreled with you a few times, why did you do this?\” Later I found out that because the little girl was in grade 5 and going to grade 6 this year, her parents were very strict with her academic studies. That morning, the little girl had a verbal conflict with her father for this reason. The father scolded his daughter for her academic performance. The child packed his schoolbag angrily and went out. The whole family didn\’t think much about it, thinking that the little girl was going to school. Who would have thought that going away would separate parents and children from each other. When the parents went to the scene where the little girl jumped from the building to collect their daughter\’s belongings, they saw a suicide note in the schoolbag. They thought it was filled with guilt for their parents. When they opened the suicide note, everyone was shocked. The four bold words on the suicide note are \”I hate you\”! There is also a passage that says, \”I want to commit suicide. I do my homework every day. If I die, just tear up all my homework.\” After seeing the little girl\’s suicide note, everyone present could not help but shed tears. A 12-year-old girl should have enjoyed a happy childhood and played happily with her friends. Just because of a few words from her parents, a young girl in her prime is burdened with pressure from her parents, negation from her parents, and endless disappointment in her parents. In such an extreme way, he left this world and ended his short life. You must have said these words. As soon as this incident came out, it caused heated discussions among many netizens and parents. But one comment like this made me not only reflect, but also made me regret. Here’s the quote: “Most parents never understand how damaging verbal aggression can be.” Many times, verbal violence from parents causes more harm than physical spanking. \”You don\’t think it\’s embarrassing, but I think it\’s embarrassing!\” \”I\’ve never seen a child as stupid as you. Look at so-and-so\’s child…\” \”Are you a waste? You can\’t do anything like this.\” \”How can I It’s a sin to have a child like you.” These simple sentences may seem to our parents just to educate their children and hope that their children will have long memories. They are very ordinary and common words, but in the children’s hearts they are not. so. childThe people children trust most are their parents. They will unconditionally accept all information conveyed by their parents, including negative information. Children who have lived in a state of denial and verbal violence from their parents for a long time will gradually doubt their own abilities and value. The child will have such an idea in his mind: \”My parents think I can\’t do it, so how can I do it?\” Okay, am I just not good at doing it, and am I the kind of waste my parents say?\” Over time, children will no longer have confidence in such thoughts, and may even be timid and fall into low self-esteem. Psychological research shows that children under the age of six who often say angry or even negative words can easily develop a negative personality, have low self-esteem, be introverted, and be afraid of getting along with others. Verbal violence from the family has an extremely profound impact on children. This kind of verbal violence will cause a lifelong psychological shadow on the child, making the child feel stressed when thinking about these words throughout his life. Don’t try your best to make your children hold grudges. Have you ever seen a short film on the Internet called “One Word, Ruin a Child’s Life.” The protagonists in the short film are repeating the hurtful words that their parents said to themselves when they were children. These words are Like a thorn piercing deeply into their hearts. Each of them is no longer the child they once were, but whenever they recall these words, they are still vivid in their minds. Each of them has a solemn expression and even sheds tears. Sometimes our simple words can cause unimaginable harm to our children. Every parent wants their children to become successful and successful. However, why are our children not doing well, why are our children so bad, and why are our children not as good as other people\’s children? Have we seriously thought about it? I once saw this question on Zhihu: What does it feel like to not be understood by your family and be hurt by their words? The answers with the most likes were: \”Thanks to their 20 years of brainwashing for finally making me believe that I am really a puddle of mud and can\’t hold myself up to the wall.\” \”At a certain moment, I suddenly realized that not all parents are qualified to be called parents. \”My love is conditional, and I will spend my whole life getting rid of this family.\” These two short sentences seem so heartbreaking and poignant that the children we raised with so much hard work actually want to get rid of us in the end, and finally want to escape from this family. Home. The child is an angel, a piece of pure white paper. We parents need to spend our entire lives trying to guide our children. Instead of spending our whole life in exchange for our children\’s hatred and disgust towards us. May we stop slandering, give our children a happy childhood, and let us build our happy family with our children!