Really smart parents work side by side with their teachers

The most important factor affecting children\’s performance is not school, but family. There are many things that teachers cannot teach, and parents need to cooperate! The following are the heartfelt words of a head teacher. Each sentence is a classic and has inspired countless parents. I would like to share it with you. A teacher once told this story: There was a little boy in his class. His parents were middle-aged children and they doted on the child very much. At school, this child always throws clothes and things on the floor. He talked to parents and hoped that parents could cultivate good living habits in their children. But what I didn\’t expect was that the child didn\’t change, and the child\’s mother often ran to school to help the child pack things. The next day after communicating with the child\’s mother again, the child\’s mother reported him to the principal, saying that he was wearing small shoes for her child… Educating children requires cooperation between parents, teachers, and schools, but some parents often refer to teachers The relationship between him and the school became tense, and the teacher was forced to have no control over his child, and he had no choice but to let it go. Please check the following 5 behaviors for yourself, and don’t be a merciless parent who destroys your children; if you are a teacher, please also share it to your circle of friends to remind more parents to pay attention…Before you understand it, you may argue with the teacher or even Every child is the treasure of their parents. It is normal for parents to be impulsive and angry when their children are wronged at school. But before going to the school to \”ask for an explanation,\” you must first understand the ins and outs of the matter. If it is your child\’s fault, then apologize proactively; if it is another child\’s fault, you can report the situation to the teacher and let the teacher coordinate and deal with it; if the school and teacher did not handle it properly, you can negotiate with the school and teacher first What to do next. During this process, parents should show an understanding and tolerant attitude, which will leave a very good impression on the teacher. If you go to school and make a fuss with the teacher before you understand the situation, it will only make the teacher think that the parents are being unreasonable. Leaving such a negative impression on the teacher is actually not good for the child. Don’t take the rules of the school and teachers seriously. The most important thing parents should do is to cooperate with the rules of the school and teachers. For example, many schools will stipulate that students are not allowed to bring mobile phones. Regardless of whether parents agree or not, it is best to educate children to abide by the school\’s regulations. If parents have strong opinions on some rules and acquiesce or even encourage their children to violate the rules, this will make the school and teachers very embarrassed, and will also bring great difficulties to the teachers\’ work. Because for parents, they only need to face their own children, but for schools, they need to face hundreds or thousands of students. Many systems that seem unreasonable to parents are actually out of the need to protect and educate their children. Only when parents understand more can they be beneficial to their children\’s growth. If you don’t attend parent-teacher meetings or communicate with teachers about your child’s education, the first person responsible should be the parent, and the person who knows the child best is also the parent. The teacher hopes to establish contact with the parent and understand the child’s situation in a timely manner so that he or she can promptly adjust the education of the child. education method. Therefore, no matter how busy parents are at work, they must take time to attend parent-teacher conferences. If you really can’t get away, it’s best to talk to your elders regularlyTeacher communication. Otherwise, the teacher is not sure whether you care about your child\’s education, nor is he sure whether your handling of your child\’s problems is acceptable to you, let alone whether some of the problems your child has in school are related to problems at home. What a child will ultimately be educated into is determined by family education, school education, and social education. Without communication with the teacher, the teacher does not have an overall grasp of the child\’s education, and it is naturally difficult to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. Judging teachers based on social and educational issues is like doctors who want their patients to be healthy most, and teachers who want their children to be excellent most in the world. It is every teacher\’s biggest dream to teach all students to be excellent. Some parents attach great importance to their children\’s education. Once some educational incidents occur in society, they will think that there is something wrong with the entire education industry and criticize their children\’s teachers. It is undeniable that there are also some problems in the education industry, but this cannot deny the teachers as a group. This will make the vast majority of teachers who cherish educational ideals and work conscientiously sad. If parents can be more understanding and considerate of the teacher\’s work, the teacher will naturally respond with tolerance and encouragement to the child. This virtuous cycle will ultimately benefit the child for life. Facing teachers with a leadership attitude conducted a survey a few years ago: What kind of parents do teachers hate the most? Parents who take a leadership stance towards teachers are at the top of the list. Many parents now think that education is a service industry. If I pay the tuition, the teacher should provide the best service to my children. But education is not a service, it is guidance and nourishment at the spiritual level. The best attitude towards teachers is respect and trust, because only these can activate the most noble emotions in teachers, allow teachers to treat children with heart, and give children the best quality education. If education, the last piece of pure land in our society, cannot hold its head high, then what hope does our society have and what hope does our children have? Every life is a complex individual, and one child can cause headaches for a whole family. A teacher has to face dozens of children, hundreds of parents, and other things in life and work. Although he cannot make every child become a talented person and cannot satisfy every parent, he must at least believe that he has done his best for the sake of his children. So please be kind to every teacher, especially those who are kind to your children and tough on your children. In the new semester, parents and teachers should work side by side to be more tolerant and understanding. Give teachers more respect and trust. Teachers will definitely educate your children well.