When the final results come out, no matter how good or bad your child is, you must read this article.

There is never something for nothing in this world. Children\’s learning depends on themselves, but also on teachers and parents. If you benefit from reading this article, please forward it to parents and teachers. The final exam has come to an end, and what follows is the announcement of exam results. In their children\’s schooling career, what parents value most is their children\’s learning and performance. This is a topic that parents can never do without. Every parent hopes that their children can achieve excellent results. So when their children\’s test scores are among the best, parents feel very happy, and vice versa. In fact, this approach of placing too much emphasis on children\’s test scores is incomplete. Today, I hope that through this article, parents can view their children\’s achievements correctly, effectively guide and train their children, and help their children develop better. It is more important to correctly understand the efforts behind children\’s performance. Some education experts believe: \”The attitude of children towards their performance determines their attitude towards learning, and the formation of this attitude is mainly determined by their parents.\” In other words, the attitude of parents towards their performance , determines the speed of child progress. If a child gets high marks in the exam, parents will praise and show off excessively, which will inadvertently breed the child\’s pride. If a child does not do well in an exam, parents\’ excessive sarcasm and reprimand will inadvertently undermine the child\’s self-confidence. As parents, we all want our children to be excellent, there is no doubt about it. But we must also realize that poor performance now does not mean poor performance in the future. Behind focusing on children\’s scores, we must also see the efforts behind the children. For a child, the result of how high the score is is not actually the most important. The most important thing is whether he has worked hard in the process and whether he has worked hard for the result he wants to achieve. If the child put in the effort, there is no regrets. But for children who know how to work hard, fate will never treat them poorly. One day, the children\’s efforts will shine and all the children\’s efforts will be rewarded. How parents should correctly deal with their children showing off when they do well in exams: That’s awesome, he deserves to be my son! Double your pocket money! Blindly optimistic type: The child\’s IQ is high, and his grades will rise very quickly as soon as he gets into school. After their children pass the exam, parents often relax their guard and let their children do whatever they want during the holidays, play whatever they want, and buy whatever they want. After a holiday, the children did not review what they should review and did not preview what they should preview. When the first test came at the beginning of the school year, their scores suddenly dropped a lot. Just because a child does well in a test does not mean that all the knowledge he has learned is solid and solid. Maybe the child is lucky, and the questions asked are all ones that the child knows. Even more lucky children get many of the questions right, instead of learning them on their own. Parents who do not understand the real situation and are blindly optimistic will make their children learn to be opportunistic, not work hard, and always want to win by luck. Although you pass the exam once, there are often hidden dangers. The grumpy type whose child did not do well in the exam: Look at your score and copy each paper five times for me! Leadership type: You should reflect deeply on your test scores. Punishment type: If you do well in the midterm exam, you will be rewarded with a toy. If you do this in the final exam, all entertainment activities during the winter vacation will be cancelled! Hold on to the pattern: Look at your grades, why are you still watching TV? don\’t forget yourFraction! Anxious type: Oh my God, what will you do if you pass the exam like this! If you can\’t get into a good junior high school, a good high school, or a good university with these grades, how can you get a good job in the future? The type who asks for help everywhere: My child did very poorly in the exam, please help my child! Do you know any good tutors? Strong pressure type: You still haven’t worked hard enough, so I bought you ten sets of test papers. Let’s do this after you finish your winter vacation homework! These attitudes are totally unacceptable! There is only one correct attitude: peace! 1. We should treat our children\’s test results with a normal mind, \”Don\’t be happy with the results, and don\’t be sad with the poor results.\” 2. Remember that children\’s grades cannot be improved by their parents\’ yelling and beatings, so they should all face it calmly. 3. To do well in the exam, be calm, give affirmation and encouragement, sum up experience, formulate plans, and consolidate the fruits of victory. 4. If you don’t do well in the exam, you should be more peaceful. You must find out the reasons why you did not do well in the exam and prescribe the right medicine. Every child wants to be praised by their parents. A child\’s self-confidence comes from the encouragement of his or her parents. Parents must have a good sense of proportion. Exams are used to discover problems. Parents should do these three things. Parents should remember one thing: Exams are used to discover problems. In normal exams, we should all look down on the ranking, but focus on the problems exposed in the exam. Start with the details, check for omissions and fill in the gaps, and consolidate the child\’s knowledge base bit by bit. Only in this way will children\’s grades improve little by little and achieve satisfactory results in the future college entrance examination. Therefore, after the final exam, what parents should do is to help their children do the following in a down-to-earth manner: 01 Analyze the test paper and find out the reasons for losing points. Reason 1: Insufficient mastery of basic knowledge. Strategy 1: Carefully review and consolidate the relevant knowledge points involved in the question to truly understand it thoroughly. Reason 2: Not familiar with the skills of using basic knowledge to solve comprehensive problems. Strategy 2: Move from one question to one type of questions, do more exercises, master the answering methods and key points of this type of questions, and truly understand them. Reason 3: Non-intellectual factors such as not carefully reviewing the questions, miscalculations, poor consideration, nervousness and fear when encountering big questions. Countermeasure 3: Consciously practice your test-taking skills and psychological quality, keep a normal mind, and develop a good habit of checking carefully after answering questions. 02 Analyze the rising and falling trend of scores and single-subject scores: You need to compare the previous and previous scores vertically and horizontally with the scores of other students to analyze the development trend of the scores in this subject: rising, falling, or oscillating? If a child\’s performance in a single subject drops significantly, parents should communicate with the child in a timely manner to find out the internal reasons (a large area of ​​weak knowledge points and skill points) and external reasons (lack of interest in the subject? Appropriate performance on the spot? And the subject Teacher relationship?) Motivate children in a timely manner instead of reprimanding them to prevent children from becoming tired of learning. Overall results: Compare multiple overall results to find the advantageous subjects and weak subjects, and formulate strategies to maintain excellence and strength. Only then will there be room for improvement. When a child\’s overall performance drops sharply, parents must pay attention to this signal, which indicates that the child is not in the state of study. Playing games, Internet addiction, making some playful friends, etc. will distract the child. At this time, parentsBe calm and calm, do not force your children, do not pry into their privacy, communicate patiently and sincerely with your children, let your children take the initiative to express their psychological confusion, and face the pain of growing up with them. 03 Analyze children’s intellectual factors. Some children’s grades always fail to improve, and there are also intellectual reasons. Several basic factors of children\’s intelligence—observation, memory, thinking, and imagination—are often unevenly developed. Some children have strong memory but weak thinking ability, and some children have strong observation ability but weak memory ability. Based on the actual situation of the child, find out the shortcomings and conduct special training. Early detection of problems in adolescence can help children develop their overall intelligence in the future. When children encounter difficulties and setbacks, what they need most is their parents’ understanding, acceptance and help. The broadest thing in the world is the ocean, wider than the ocean is the sky, wider than the sky is the scope of the exam, and wider than the scope of the exam is the parents’ hearts when they see their children’s results! When parents help their children complete the above points, an exam is truly over. As teachers, we know the importance of scores better than anyone else. However, more important than that score is that every bit of your child\’s growth is worthy of your praise. Every child is a seed, but each one has a different flowering time. Different flowers have different blooming seasons, and our children will eventually move towards their own glory. Believe in the children, let’s work together and watch together!