Please don’t choose comfort when you can endure hardship the most! Definitely read it to your child!

My child, if God is kind to you and gives you a superior life, please don’t restrain your fighting spirit; if God sets up obstacles for you in every possible way, please don’t lose your confidence in yourself and the courage to fight. If youth only cares about craziness, humbleness will become closer and closer. Today\’s children talk about a few celebrities with low education but successful careers to silence their parents\’ sincere words. However, the fact is: such people are only a minority. Most children who do not like to study find that when they grow up, they have spent a few years of crazy youth in exchange for a lifetime of humility and low status. Nowadays, when some children talk about studying and enduring hardship, they are like a tiger, and they are afraid to avoid it. A group of uneducated girls gathered together and called themselves sisters. They thought that if they had sisters, they would have the world. Together they talked about delicious food, clothing, and cosmetics. What they thought about was online shopping, checking WeChat, Weibo, and watching Korean dramas. And a group of idle boys gathered together and called themselves buddies, thinking that with their buddies, they would have the world. They skip classes together, smoke, play poker, play games, watch fantasy and even have sex… They think this is madness and this is what youth should be like. They look down on those good students who don\’t know how to put on makeup or dress up, and only know how to study all day long. He also called those good students nerds and called them stupid because they only knew how to study. As everyone knows, two or three years later, good students will go to one school, 211, 985, or even Tsinghua and Peking University, but they will have to consider going to three schools, a higher vocational college, or even whether to go south to work. Of course you can be rebellious and crazy in your youth, but a few years of indulgence may result in a lifetime of humility and low status! The more you learn, the greater your contribution and the more you earn. There is a classic dialogue between father and son, which tells us the big difference between studying hard and not studying. Not long after his son started school, he asked his father, a farmer, why people should study. My father said that if a small tree grows for a year, it can only be used as a fence or as firewood. 10-year-old trees can be used as purlins. A tree that is 20 years old can be used to make beams, pillars, and furniture. If a child does not go to school, he can herd sheep when he is 7 years old. When he grows up, he can herd a large group of sheep. But apart from herding sheep, he can basically do other things. Can\’t do anything else. If he graduates from primary school, he can use some new technologies to farm in the countryside. In the city, he can work on construction sites, as security guards, or as a small business vendor. The knowledge from primary school is enough; if he graduates from junior high school, he can learn some If he graduates from high school, he can learn a lot of mechanical repairs; if he graduates from college, he can design high-rise buildings and railway bridges; if he graduates with a master\’s degree and a doctorate, he may invent and create something that we didn\’t have before. s things. \”Do you know?\” The son said he did. Dad asked again: Is it shameful to herd sheep, farm, or work as a security guard? The son said it was embarrassing. Dad said: Son, it’s not a shame. They neither steal nor rob, they work to earn money and support their children and parents without any shame. It’s not that if you don’t go to school, or if you go to little school, it’s useless. Just like a small tree of one year, it is useful, but not as useful as a big tree. It is useful even if you don’t read or read little, but it will be harmful to society.If their contribution is small, they will make less money. If you study more, you will spend more money and use more time, but if you contribute more, you will earn more money and your status will be higher. That conversation left a deep impression on my son. From then on, he would make the best choice without coercion or inducement in his studies. If you don\’t endure hardship, why do you want youth? A speech titled \”If you don\’t endure hardship, what do you want youth for?\” said this: \”When you don\’t fight for a scholarship, don\’t live a life you haven\’t tried before, you hang around QQ all day long. , scrolling through Weibo, browsing Taobao, playing online games, and doing things that I can do even when I am 80 years old. Why do you want youth?\” You are just like teenagers. You choose to fall in love when you can learn best. When you can endure hardship, you choose to be comfortable. You rely on your youth, but your youth is wasted, but you don\’t know that youth is fleeting and there is no youth anymore. What does it mean to endure hardship? When you complain that you are already having a hard time, please look at the poor children in the west. They don’t have enough to eat, don’t have warm clothes, have cold feet, and are eating cornstarch. Please think about the situation for decades. Just like the teachers who wake up early and work late at night; please compare it with those migrant workers who are exhausted but still hungry, and your parents! Can studying in a classroom with air conditioning and hot water be considered hardship? Is it hard to rest in a dormitory with air conditioning and hot shower? Can you be considered to have endured hardship when you have your parents as the \”prince\’s companions\”, and when you have clothes to wear, food to eat, and mouth to open? My child, I know you may feel tired and miserable. If you can\’t hold on anymore, just open it and take a look! See what the price of not enduring hardship and tiredness is! In the first cartoon, everyone is carrying a heavy cross and moving forward slowly and hard! On the way, a person suddenly stopped. What is he thinking! He thought, this cross is too heavy, I can chop off a piece of it! So he started to chop it! After cutting it off, it was indeed much easier to walk, and his pace could not help but speed up. Just go, go, go! As he walked, he felt that the cross on his shoulders was still very heavy! He thought, how about if I cut off another section, it would be easier for me to walk! So, he cut off another section! This way, he felt much more relaxed! In this way, he reached the front of the line effortlessly. While others were struggling to move forward with heavy loads, he was humming a ditty easily! Aha! Unexpectedly, a deep and wide ravine suddenly appeared in front of us! There is no bridge over the ditch, and there are no roads around it. The people behind slowly caught up. They put the crosses they carried on the ditch to form a bridge, and crossed the gully calmly. He wanted to do the same. It\’s a pity that a long section of his cross has been cut off before, and there is no way to make a bridge to help him cross the ravine! So, when others were moving forward towards their goals, he could only stop where he was, dejected and regretful… On the road of life, each of us carries various crosses and walks forward with difficulty. It may be our study or our work. However, it is these responsibilities and obligations that constitute the reason and value of our existence in this world. Even if you are superior, don’t restrain your fighting spirit. If the picture above is stillIf it is not intuitive enough, cannot touch your heart or change your mind, or if you feel that you are living a good and superior life now, then take a look at the pictures below. Rather than comparing the present to the future, let us see which kind of person can have the last laugh? These comparison pictures are so cruel and so real. Whether you work hard or not, and whether you are willing to endure hardship, the future will give you the answer. If God is kind to you and gives you a superior life, please don\’t restrain your fighting spirit; if God sets up obstacles for you in every possible way, please don\’t lose your confidence in yourself and the courage to fight. When you want to give up, be sure to think about those people who go to bed later than you, wake up earlier than you, run harder than you, and are more talented and virtuous than you. They are already running in the morning light towards the place where you can never do anything but Looking into the distance. Writer Long Yingtai once wrote in her book to her son Andre: \”My child, I ask you to study hard, not because I want you to compare your grades with others, but because I hope you will have the right to choose in the future. , the meaning of choosing a job with time, rather than being forced to make a living. When your work is meaningful in your heart, you have a sense of accomplishment; when your work gives you time and does not deprive you of your life, you have dignity. . A sense of accomplishment and dignity will give you happiness.\” Reading will not directly make you gain wealth, but reading can give you more opportunities to gain wealth. By reading more books, you will have more choices, meet better people, enjoy a better life, and have a better and more comfortable life. So, please don’t choose comfort when you can endure hardship the most. No one spends their youth walking on the red carpet! Since you dream of becoming the self that others cannot reach, you should choose your own path and make efforts that others cannot reach. Parents, please also tell your children: Don’t give up when it’s time to study, and you must cherish and work harder at the age when you should study!