\”The child does not belong to the teacher, it belongs to you!\” the head teacher said sharply, awakening countless parents

When many parents send their children to school, they always say something like, \”The child will take care of the teacher.\” The implication is often, \”I send the child to school and hand it over to the teacher, and the teacher will be responsible.\” In fact, the teacher will be responsible for it. , the children belong to the parents, not the teachers, and the parents should bear the greatest responsibility. No matter how good or responsible the teacher is, it is impossible that he cannot guarantee your child\’s good conduct; cannot give your child good habits; cannot make your child interested in reading; cannot help you cultivate your child\’s will… A class teacher Say the following words to parents at a parent-teacher meeting. Many words seem inhumane and even a bit like shirking responsibility! But these words are really a wake-up call for us parents! Parents, think carefully, this is the class teacher who can really help us parents and children! I don\’t thank you for coming. This is what you should do. I don\’t thank you anymore for taking the time from your busy schedule to come to the parent-teacher meeting. Because although you are busy, you don\’t have everything to do every day. Your child is studying here, and it is only right that you condescend to come here once. I don’t know how effective it will be to attend a parent-teacher meeting, but if you don’t come, you will never know how big the gap is in your understanding of education with other parents. The child does not belong to the teacher, it belongs to you. The education of your child is not that our teachers are begging you, but your obligation. As parents, we must find ways to pave a better future for our children. But every time I hold a parent-teacher meeting, I have the illusion that all the children belong to the teacher. The teacher is on the podium and talks about the shortcomings of some children or the parents who have not done enough, and the parents just listen passively. never mind. They always point out how you should manage your children. You feel sad, and the teacher feels sad too. Whether your child\’s academic performance is good or not, parents have the greatest responsibility. If your child\’s academic performance is good, you don\’t need to thank me; if your child\’s academic performance is poor, you don\’t need to blame me. There are naturally reasons for her good academic performance. Generally speaking, the most important thing is her or his own merits, as well as the credit of some parents. Poor academic performance is always inseparable from poor foundation, poor study habits, or poor management by parents and teachers. There will always be good students and bad students in the same class. To the teacher, this is normal, the good and the bad are just part of the class; to you, the good and the bad are all of your family. Therefore, please take full responsibility for yourself. Teachers can only give their own educational advice. Teachers are just a profession and a means of making a living. In fact, if you think about your attitude towards work, you will be more tolerant of us; or if you think about your attitude towards work, you will raise higher requirements for our teachers. This is all normal. So what I said today is definitely not something you have to listen to. I am not qualified to educate you and tell you what should be done or what should not be done. Regarding your children\’s education, you may be more professional and spend more time on it than I am. So, you can do whatever you want. If what I say is pleasant, just listen; if what I say is not good, just ignore it. Parents\’ own behavior is the most critical. Parents\’ understanding of their children\’s growth determines the height of their children. Do you think there is no use studying now, and it will still be no good if you get into college?work. Then your child probably won’t pay too much attention to learning. If you spend a lot of energy paying attention to the details of your child, it will probably be difficult for your child to develop many bad habits. You watch TV and play on the computer every day, and your child probably doesn’t have much thought when doing homework at home, or he may be unbalanced. Why can adults do it, but I can’t? You are a person who likes to read, and your child is also more interested in reading. Interested, you like to travel, and your children may also be interested in outdoor activities. In some cases, your understanding of things will also affect your child\’s understanding of things. All emotions and feelings of children can be accepted, but acceptance does not mean approval! Accepting feelings does not mean accepting children\’s unreasonable behaviors (such as throwing things). On the contrary, after parents accept their children\’s feelings (jealousy), they can guide and demonstrate how children can express their feelings with positive behaviors (jealousy can be said to be (come out), how to adjust one\’s behavior to improve the current situation (such as \”Later, my mother studied more seriously, and her grades caught up next time\”). The study of Chinese subjects is definitely not just in the classroom. Chinese classes only have seven periods a week. Our teachers have too many tasks and the main energy must be spent on guiding children to recognize, read, understand, and write. How can I take care of everything for one child in this little time, let alone 48 people? I often feel that 80% of my time is spent doing useless work, spending a lot of energy on managing students with poor grades, urging homework, correcting, revising, making mistakes again and again, and correcting again. Instead of spending a lot of time instructing them how to read and how to write. For example, the vast majority of children just finish the weekend test papers and don\’t bother to do it at all. So how effective will it be if I give comments after returning to school? I am very helpless. If a student does not read or think during his or her time at home. If he only relies on the little content in school, he can never expect to have a high level of Chinese literacy. The status of Chinese is getting higher and higher, but some people are paying less and less attention to the high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination. In the future, the proportion of Chinese will further increase. In the future, school education will focus more on practical applications and be more in line with today\’s national conditions. In addition, the liberal arts and science subjects of the college entrance examination will gradually disappear, and the amount of learning will become larger and larger in the future. Children do not pay attention to the accumulation and improvement of Chinese literacy in such a relaxed environment in primary school. I really don’t know that after entering junior high school and high school, the learning content will be greatly improved. How do children cope with being bombarded with so much knowledge? Please take the initiative to communicate with me more. What I just said is from my heart, but it may not be correct. You can have opinions about me, and you can communicate with me when you have time. But what’s rare is that I haven’t been able to say a few words to you throughout the year, and even very few people have called me. If you leave your children in school and leave everything to the teachers, you can rest assured. To be honest, I\’m not worried at all. I know that my ability is limited and I cannot give more attention to your children, I cannot give equal guidance to every classmate, and I cannot help every child achieve good results. This is also true. I have no intention of complaining about you today, I just have some thoughts in my heart. I stated this point of view frankly.come out. If it makes you feel disgusted, it is all my fault; if it can cause you to think a little bit, then my purpose has been achieved. Written at the end: A good teacher may be able to influence a child for three to five years, but the influence of parents on their children lasts a lifetime! Which one is more important, I believe everyone can understand! When you send your child to school, your child is just one of the teacher’s N students. Educating your child is only part of the teacher’s job. But you are different. Your child is your only one. Educate your child well and it will always be you. The most important cause. Children are not the teacher’s, they are yours. Parents are always their children’s first teachers and their children’s eternal role models. Please be a competent parent!