This mother’s 10 house rules and family training for primary school students have hit the circle of friends and are worth learning from.

We all know that on the road to education, parents should not be lazy, and children should not be lethargic. However, how to educate children is a difficult problem facing parents. One mother set these 10 house rules for her children. It covers all aspects of a child\’s growth process and is worthy of reference by all parents. When you meet an acquaintance, you should say hello first. This is the most basic politeness. The Analects of Confucius says: \”If you don\’t learn etiquette, you can\’t stand up.\” It means that if you don\’t learn etiquette and politeness, it will be difficult to stand up for yourself. Educating children to be polite reflects not only their own accomplishments, but also the tutors of the entire family standing behind them. But the most common thing is that the more parents force their children to say hello, the more the children shrink and hide behind them. In the end, parents can only blame the child: \”This child is just not polite\”, and the child becomes more introverted. But in fact, there is no need to force children to cultivate the polite habit of \”saying hello when they meet\”. Parents should first set an example of being polite and kind to others. Children will naturally develop good habits under the influence of their ears and eyes. When speaking in public, be careful not to disturb others. When it comes to holidays, the most favorite place for parents to take their children is the shopping mall. It is cool and comfortable and has a variety of interesting toys. The children are happy and the parents are relaxed. But when people around them whispered that they should take care of the noisy children, the parents retorted that \”children are like that.\” It is the nature of children to be free and lively. But no one likes a child who makes a lot of noise in public. As parents, we have the responsibility and obligation to educate our children and abide by basic social rules. Everyone has the right to enjoy a quiet environment and should not disturb those around them at will. This is not only abiding by public principles, but also a required course for children to enter society. If you don’t educate your children now, one day society will educate them for you. Say things you don’t want to say to your mother, say things you don’t want to say to your father, but you can’t say it all to your mother. Some parents once asked me: \”Why are the children not willing to tell us what is in their hearts?\” But in my opinion, most Some of the bad blood between parents and children is due to distrust in the parent-child relationship. Children who don\’t get the listening and responding they deserve from their parents naturally don\’t want to speak. A good parent-child relationship is based on mutual trust. We not only need to tell our children, but we can talk to our parents about anything. Also pay attention to using correct expressions when communicating with your children. Only when parents fully trust their children will their children trust their parents. Equal and effective communication between both parties is the starting point of family education. Honesty is the most precious quality. Lying can make you lose friends and family. Children lying is an inevitable experience in the process of growing up. It does not mean that there is a problem with moral character. But we cannot let it go and ignore lies. When a child is caught lying, parents need to find out the motive behind the child\’s lie. Guide children correctly and help them stay away from the bad habit of lying. Let them know that only honest and trustworthy children will be loved and trusted by everyone. But parents should teach their children that honesty is the most basic principle of life. Be punctual and don\’t be late. Being late is a taboo in people\’s interactions. People who have no concept of time often leave an impression of being unreliable., and many good opportunities will be missed. If your children are not punctual when they are young, don’t expect them to be able to correct themselves when they grow up. Therefore, we must promptly help children establish a correct concept of time and develop good habits. This is a sign that children are responsible for themselves and respect others. Only when children control time can they control their own lives. If you cause trouble to others, you must apologize and don\’t underestimate this detail. Even adults may not have the courage to admit their mistakes head-on. Instead, there are many excuses to cover up the truth. So for many things, it is really necessary to educate them from an early age. It is not that difficult to say \”I\’m sorry\” to the mistakes you have made. Taking the initiative to admit mistakes not only makes it easier to gain forgiveness from others, but is also part of emotional intelligence education. But parents also need to be patient and rational enough to accompany their children to correct and grow together. If you teach your children to change, they will become better day by day. All food is precious and cannot be wasted. A few days ago, Michelle Ye revealed her experience of eating other people\’s leftovers on the show. It turned out that she saw the guests at the next table in the restaurant with a vegetable that was almost untouched, and thought it was a waste. And this move also won everyone\’s appreciation. As writer Li Yueliang said: \”In this era, squandering is not glory, moderation is a higher virtue.\” Behind cherishing food is respect for labor and gratitude for life. \”One porridge and one meal should be remembered as hard-earned; half a thread and half a thread should be kept in mind that material resources are difficult.\” Teaching children not to waste food is not only a kind of education, but also a must-have concept and action for us. Go all out to do what you want to do and don’t care too much about the results. We must admit that children’s love for their parents is unconditional, but parents’ love for their children is conditional. You have to be well-behaved and sensible, you have to study hard, and you have to follow the path we planned… And the children have been trying to act like their parents like them and meet their parents\’ expectations. But we all forget that every child is an independent individual and not an accessory of his parents. They have their own path to walk and their own dreams to fulfill. The best love parents can give their children is to learn to let go when it\’s time to let go. Tell your children to go all out to do what you want to do and try to live each day well. It doesn’t matter if the road ahead is difficult, I will always be behind you. Don\’t compare with others, this sentence is more like reminding parents themselves that everyone is unique. Because the root of children\’s comparison lies with their parents. China Youth Daily once conducted a survey, and the results showed that 83.4% of the parents surveyed would compare their children with other people’s children. Parents believe that \”comparative\” education can encourage children to be enterprising. But the fact is that while parents are affirming other children, they are also constantly denying their own children. Where do children get the confidence to be their best selves? Educator Suhomlinsky once said: \”Every child is a completely special and unique world.\” They are all stars falling into the world, emitting a unique light. There is no need to follow any rules when encountering danger, because life is the most precious. We educate children to abide by the rules and have a sense of order. All this is based on the premise that the child is in a safe environment. But noWhat we deny is that sometimes unnecessary conflicts and injuries can be reduced if we don’t teach our children to follow the rules. Children may be facing danger in many places that we cannot see. Therefore, when we educate our children to be alert to safety, we must also teach them to protect themselves. When your life is threatened, you don\’t have to tolerate and retreat. Don\’t put other people\’s lives above your own. Because nothing is more important than self-preservation. Your safety and health is the best reward for your parents. Some people say: Being a parent is a practice. But educating children requires parents to devote a lifetime of effort. Although we cannot see the final results of a child\’s growth, we can guide the child towards a better future through the process.