Among the 10 most failed parenting practices, which one is yours?

Your child only submits his homework to you and never expresses his feelings to you. Maybe your child is very docile and submits his homework to you on time, without any sloppy strokes. But they never confess their hearts to you, hiding their sorrows and joys, and hiding their grievances. careful! Deep in a silent soul, there are often undercurrents. Want your children to confide in you? You have to be able to understand their little things, tolerate their little mistakes, and be able to keep their little secrets. The child is afraid of you but disrespects you. Some parents often complain: The child is not afraid of me at all! It seems that as long as the child is afraid of adults, everything is under control. Parents should be strict but not ferocious. Please let your children feel awe of you, not just fear. There is no love without reason in the world, and there is no fear without reason. Only when they respect you will they fear you. You don’t know or ask what a child’s dream is. Every child has a dream, big or small, which is the fire in their hearts. If parents don’t know what the dreams are in their children’s hearts, you won’t know how to light them up. Children hate going home. If your child would rather wander under the overpass in the wind and rain and be messy than go home after school, then you are setting yourself up for failure. Children who don\’t love home are usually not because their hearts are too wild, but because the lights at home are not warm enough. Only parents who have never cooked for their children can be considered as real parents. You don’t have to be very good at cooking. You can scramble eggs with tomatoes or tomatoes with eggs. Some parents either order takeout, cook instant noodles, or go out for big meals three times a day. When you take your children to taste all the delicacies in the world, they will never know what \”mother\’s taste\” is. Home will definitely lack a little sweet taste and warm memories. None of your merits can be mentioned by your children as a parent. If your children cannot mention any of your merits, it means you are so bleak! You should have your own highlight, which can be talent, character or attitude, so that your children can truly appreciate it and look up to you appropriately. You don’t have to be a perfect person, but you must have good qualities, such as: knowledgeable, hard-working and brave, be able to talk your talk, walk with style, write well and so on. Beat your child at all times. The child is your own child. If you are really naughty, beating your child occasionally is also an education. But hitting their children at every turn is a sign of incompetence on the part of the parents. Remember two points: First, parents should keep their trump cards for themselves and not make mistakes easily. Second, beating children is just a way for great apes to discipline their offspring. There must be a more advanced solution than \”beating\”. You make a lot of money but lose the heart of your children. Parents in the world are great. They bend down and sweat for their children. However, the lost parent-child relationship cannot be redeemed even by money. Don\’t always blame life for being difficult or too far away. A harmonious parent-child relationship requires not only time to build a bridge, but also love to bridge the gap. Listen more, understand more, help more, and you will naturally understand. You spend a lot of time being a pseudo-accompanying person. There is a kind of parent who completely agrees that \”parents\’ companionship is never exchanged for gold\”, so they are willing to quit their glamorous jobs and take off their dazzling crowns just to spend time with their children. However, if you play your games and he does his homework, and you play your mahjong and he memorizes his books… companionship becomes a minus. Some companionship is fake companionship, it is better not to accompany you. You obviouslyThey love their children deeply but hate them in return. Some parents clearly love their children deeply, but their children are completely indifferent and even hate them in return. This is a problem with the parents\’ expressions. The love of a parent is the most taboo. The more I love you, the more I love you, the more I love you, the more I care for you. Sometimes, a cup of refreshing tea, an umbrella in the rain, an understanding look, and a bowl of warm soup are more powerful than words.