8 truths about education that every child and parent should know

1. Not every child is good at reading. This sentence is a bit cruel, but it is true. Li Ao said it well, an iron pestle can be ground into a needle, but a wooden pestle can only be ground into a toothpick. If the material is wrong, no matter how hard you try, it will be useless. Not everyone is suitable for learning mathematics, physics, chemistry, language, foreign languages, history and geography, and not everyone is suitable for answering questions in the classroom. Achieving a jump in life class through the examination of cultural courses is destined to only belong to some people. It is right to hope that your children will become dragons, but the nine children born from a dragon are all different. Of course, the children born by us ordinary people are also all kinds of. Concentrating all children on the college entrance examination track is actually a misunderstanding. 2. Talent is sometimes more important than hard work. It is said that Edison said \”Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration\”, followed by another half sentence: \”But the 1% inspiration is the most important, even more important than the 99% perspiration.\” Sometimes a child’s performance is not good because he doesn’t work hard. There are people who have a photographic memory. Before you can memorize a section of the text, he has already memorized the entire text. There are also people with outstanding logical thinking. Before you can figure out a formula, he can already draw inferences from one example. You may not be able to reach someone else\’s talent even if you work hard all your life. The achievement of any achievement requires a lower limit of IQ. If you are below that lower limit, no matter how hard you try, you will not be able to reach other people\’s heights. 3. Academic performance and life achievements are not completely proportional. What is gratifying is that not everyone who has a name in history is an academic master, and not every successful person in society is an academic master. Academic performance represents a person\’s ability to memorize and summarize existing knowledge. In the competition of college entrance examination, this is all, but in the competition of life, this is only part of it. A good IQ is certainly helpful for success in life, but high emotional intelligence and reverse quotient are also important conditions. The further you go in life, the more comprehensive strength you strive for. As long as you stand out in other aspects, there are still plenty of opportunities to stand out. 4. The role of a teacher is to cultivate rather than shape. The teacher cannot decide who studies well and who studies poorly, or who becomes what. Students in the same class taught by the same teacher range from first place to last place. The teacher is just a gardener. What a student can eventually grow into depends on what kind of seed he or she is. You are the seed of a rose and cannot grow into a peony. You are a dogtail flower and cannot grow into a lilac. The role of the teacher is to carefully cultivate, water and fertilize, so that all flowers can grow vigorously. The role of education is to make every seed become the best version of itself. 5. Whose child looks like whom. Meet the parents, and you will find that not only their appearance, but also their temperament and small movements, the children are exactly the same as their parents. Part of this comes from genetic inheritance, and part comes from the influence of daily life. At least in primary and secondary schools, students can’t see many traces of their teachers, but they can 100% see the traces of their parents. The family environment has a vital influence on children. Influence through ears and eyes is the most important education. If you want your children to become adults, you must first pay attention to it. If your child\’s growth is unsatisfactory, don\’t question the teacher, reflect on yourself first. 6. No one can count on children’s learning. Learning is not about asking for help, it is easier when you have acquaintances, andThe bigger the official, the better. It’s useless to know the principal, it’s useless to know the director of education, it’s still useless to know the head teacher and the classroom teacher. Of course, if your grades are not good, it is useless to rely on making up lessons. Think about it, if you didn’t learn the knowledge in a week at school, could you possibly learn it on the weekend? If you don’t understand it in one semester, can you possibly understand it in one winter or summer vacation? The most important thing is parents. Cultivating good study habits in children from an early age is more important than anything else. If a child did not develop good habits when he was a child, he will now have to spend more time and energy to make up for it. Expecting to spend some money to find someone to help will basically be in vain. 7. All hobbies need to be started from childhood. Don\’t believe that children should grow up happily in childhood. A normal childhood will be happy no matter how you live it. It does not mean that children should learn nothing and play every day, or do whatever they want to be happy. For many people, if they missed it when they were young, they may miss it for the rest of their lives. Do your best to provide your child with as many things as possible from elementary school, develop as many hobbies as possible, and be exposed to as many new things as possible, which will benefit him throughout his life. 8. Stay away from people who advise you not to study. There are thousands of ways to change your destiny, but reading is always the best way. No matter whether you are good at reading or not, or how talented you are, you must finish reading all the books you are supposed to read during your schooling period, and do your best to read them well. This is the basis for everything you do in this life. Indeed, not everyone needs to study to change their destiny, because they were born in Rome, and if they do not change, they will succeed. But you can\’t, you need to change. What\’s more, at every stage of life, doing what you should do to the best of your ability is a kind of experience in itself. Remember, if someone advises you not to study, saying that studying is useless, then this person is either stupid or bad, so stay away from him.