Don\’t be reluctant to let your child endure hardship, that is the path he will take sooner or later

If life is destined to be a hard journey, then teach your children to start working hard earlier and learn to endure hardship earlier. In the future of his life, he will have more opportunities to enjoy the scenery calmly instead of running around paying for travel expenses. Regarding the question \”Should children be allowed to endure hardship?\”, we always say: Don\’t be reluctant to let your child endure hardship, that is the path he will take sooner or later. But when it comes to my own children, it doesn\’t seem to be the same thing. 104 episodes of children\’s educational stories Anpanman cartoon complete set Cantonese super high definition 25.6G My colleague Mei\’s child chose to eat at school at noon because of the long distance after entering junior high school. But the children always complain that the school food is really bad: every dish seems to be cooked in plain water, without any oil or water, and is soft and tasteless at all. The mother felt sorry for her child and was afraid that he would not have enough to eat, so she gave him a lot of money and asked him to go to a private restaurant near the school and order delicious food for every meal. We all laughed at her: I had been eating takeaway snacks for so many years at work, and my children couldn’t bear to endure this hardship. Sister Mei doesn\’t care, as long as her son is good, it doesn\’t matter what happens to her. Of course, the food at school is incomparable to that at home, but when we think about the days when we were in school, it’s already so many times better. How many people carry steamed buns and pickles on their backs every morning and eat them all the way, and then eat the rest at noon. Occasionally I go to the school cafeteria and eat two stir-fried dishes, which are all vegetarian. When children are in school, to be honest, as long as they are not picky eaters, can eat enough, and keep up with nutrition, there is nothing wrong with them. In fact, sometimes children\’s adaptability is very strong, but now that economic conditions have improved, parents don\’t want to see their children suffer at all. Once the child complains and is tired, quickly grab it, pull it into a comfortable nest and protect it, so that it can grow up happily in the hotbed. However, do these parents know that hardship is the only way to go in life? When you can protect him, he has never suffered. But one day you cannot protect him, and he has grown accustomed to it in a hotbed. When he faces hardship again, he will not be able to bear it. In the past, people often said: Children from poor families will become rich early in life. However, now more and more working-class families are raising \”rich second generations\” one after another. For example, my friends around me have a monthly salary of only 4,000 to 5,000 yuan and have to support a large family. Their daughter has already used the latest IPAID mini when she was still in elementary school. She is covered in famous brands. In total, her father has spent two or three months on it. salary. Although these are not very expensive, they are still stressful for working-class people to bear. I couldn’t help but ask: Why should I buy such expensive things for my children? He said helplessly: There is nothing we can do. The child said that her classmates all have them, and it would be too embarrassing for her not to. I made a fuss several times, and even said that I didn’t want to study if I didn’t buy it. I don\’t have much ability, so I can only grit my teeth and satisfy her. After listening to it, I felt angry and funny. If I don’t buy it, I won’t study anymore. Children nowadays are really cruel. The logic of many parents is: As long as their children are willing to learn, I am willing to spend more money. However, if you blindly satisfy your children, you can get them to make progress.Heart? I\’m afraid not necessarily. Some time ago, I saw such sad news. It is said that in just one month, the child used his mobile phone to reward a certain Internet celebrity anchor with more than 40,000 yuan on a certain live broadcast software. All this money was earned by his father\’s part-time job, which was almost equivalent to a year\’s savings, and was squandered by his children. My father had no choice but to call the police and ask the police to intervene and get the money back. Unexpectedly, before the police expressed their position, the child exploded first: \”I can\’t say that I am determined. Since it is money given out, how can there be any reason to get it back?\” This would make him lose face. What a surprise! Son, why don’t you think about it, why do you use your father’s hard-earned money to show off in front of a stranger and pretend to be wealthy? Such a white-eyed wolf child is detestable, but why he behaves like this is probably inseparable from her parents\’ indulgence since childhood. The most terrifying thing is that parents from poor families raise their children to be children from rich families. This era has been quietly changing for a long time. More and more working-class families have cultivated \”rich second generations\” who want to \”buy, buy, buy\” when they open their mouths. However, many parents of wealthy families insist that their children learn to learn from an early age. endure hardship. In this era of widespread material abundance, meeting the basic needs of children for food and clothing has long been no problem, but being able to have a correct understanding is still a test for all parents. A noble child comes from a poor family, and the most valuable thing lies in the child\’s spirit of hard work and struggle. But nowadays, parents from the wealthy class are increasingly aware of the importance of cultivating their children\’s spirit of enduring hardship, while parents from poor families are advocating: using their only salary to satisfy their children\’s vanity. After all, the one who can really produce a noble son must be from a noble family. The so-called expensive does not mean being rich in an absolute sense. It depends on the educational philosophy of the parents, the structure of the parents, and the mentality of the parents. True love does not mean taking out all the things parents can give, but cultivating children\’s independent ability, simple character and fighting spirit. As parents, we should naturally do our best to give our children a better life. But he must still let him suffer the hardships he deserves, and don\’t be reluctant to bear it. Otherwise, one day, when it is time for him to stand upright, he will have to rely on you to stand up, and he will suffer even more. Parents, don’t be reluctant to let your children endure hardship, that is the path they must take to grow up.