The finale of Qiao\’s Children reveals the two taboos of raising children, parents should never touch them

The hit drama \”Children of the Qiao Family\” had its finale last night! As the series comes to an end, the characters have reached different \”ends\”. Cooperative Parenting: The Importance of Parent-Child Communication and Parent-Child Education PDF Download After a lifetime of working as a parent, Father Qiao finally considered for the sake of his children and put an end to the nanny\’s plan to annex the property with his death. Free yourself and let go of your child. The eldest brother Qiao Yicheng, who had worked hard for most of his life, got Qiqi\’s kidney source and saved his life. The fate of each character has its ups and downs, and viewers will also taste the ups and downs of life. More importantly, the two families headed by the Qiao family and the Qi family allow us to see our own parenting figures. Two different family environments: one too salty and one too sweet, create different lives for the children! \”Too Salty\” Qiao Family: Selfish Father + Selfless and Tolerant Mother As the main line of the story, Qiao\’s mother is gentle and tolerant, hardworking and capable. It\’s a pity that \”good people don\’t live long\”. She died in childbirth when she was 77, leaving only a portrait that was too small to be seen. The death of Qiao\’s mother turned the Qiao family into a single-parent family, while Qiao\’s father\’s indifference turned the children into \”orphans\” completely. When his wife\’s body was still cold, she took her children and made a scene in the hospital in order not to pay the medical bills. Eating, drinking, prostitution, gambling, three things. Every day I was either playing mahjong or drinking wine and eating braised food. His own children were so hungry that they could only lick the spoon and drink the \”magic soup\” made with soy sauce and water… Just as netizens summed up and joked, the biggest advantage of Qiao Zuwang is that he treats several children equally and doesn\’t care about them~~~ In this kind of \” In the \”too salty\” native family, the children have different personalities, but they all bear the imprint of the native family. The eldest brother Qiao Yicheng: Sensitive and low self-esteem As the eldest son of the Qi family, Qiao Yicheng lives up to his name, Yicheng Yicheng, young and mature. Since his mother\’s death, he has taken on the responsibility of taking care of his younger siblings. He went to his elder brother when he was eating, when he went to school, when he was sick, when he was bullied, he still went to his elder brother… But he was also a child, but he lived a life of \”having children and a daughter\” early on. The mixture of miserable life and strong self-esteem has developed Qiao Yicheng\’s character of low self-esteem and arrogance. He speaks in an eccentric manner and often misinterprets his cousin Qi Weimin\’s good intentions. Children\’s emotional intelligence training + explosive learning ability + the power of good habits + thinking ability training series of parenting courses Because he has lacked love since he was a child, he is particularly eager to have a home of his own. Therefore, he particularly valued his marriage to Ye Xiaolang, which ignited his yearning for a small family life. Unfortunately, he had too many burdens in his life, which eventually led to a bumpy road to his marriage. Perhaps this is the tragedy of the \”parent\” character. I have been busy all my life and gained a lot, but it seems I have gained nothing. If possible, Chen Ma really wants to step into the show and tell him: Yicheng, please live a little more selfishly and love yourself a little more. Your younger brothers and sisters are all grown up, so you can take a break without forcing yourself to take on responsibilities that are not yours! Qiao Erqiang in the drama \”Erqiang\” is a simple and honest character who doesn\’t like to study. He entered the factory early and developed feelings for his master Ma Suqin, who is more than ten years older than him. This relationship, which was not favored by the public, made him suffer a lot. Many people don’t understand the source of Erqiang’s obsession with Ma SuqinFrom where? But I think maybe it was the lack of maternal love when he was young that made Erqiang first develop a sense of dependence on the kind and gentle Ma Suqin, and then slowly developed into love. Although Erqiang has always been honest and silly, he will persevere and go to the end for what he believes in. Fortunately, in the end, he got everything he asked for, and he had no big regrets! The sensible and intelligent Sanli. Of the five children in the Qiao family, Chenma actually feels the most sorry for the sensible Sanli. Because she is sensible, she is not a good word, it means \”no one cares, licking one\’s own scars\”. Her father, Qiao Zuwang, never cared about his children, and his eldest brother worked too much, causing Sanli to become wise early. When I was molested (attempted) by a neighbor when I was a child, I didn\’t dare to speak or cry, so my father gave me a meal of xiaolongbao. Her childhood experiences made her afraid of the approach of the opposite sex when she grew up. It was not easy to meet Wang Yiding, who was honest and kind to her, but in the process of getting along with her, she still couldn\’t get over the hurdle in her heart. Resisting Yiding\’s physical contact… Fortunately, Yiding is an extremely good man, and uses his sincerity to make up for Sanli\’s childhood scars. Of the four younger siblings, Sanli is the one who makes her eldest brother worry-free the most. She takes care of things by herself and helps her brother take care of the house. But being sensible is not a child’s first choice. If given the choice, everyone would want to live a carefree and happy life. But sadly, Sanli has no choice. Among the five children of the Qiao family, Simei is selfish, dares to love and hate, and the one who lives the most free and easy life is undoubtedly Simei. She has two older brothers and sisters, plus the favoritism of her cousin Qi Weimin. Her life can be described as wonderful. We fell in love early in elementary school, and when we grew up, we went to Beijing to watch Fei Xiang\’s concert… Later, we met Qi Chenggang, a scumbag, and we dived headlong into it. He traveled thousands of miles to Tibet to pursue love, knowing clearly that there was something wrong with Qi Chenggang\’s style, and insisted on marrying him regardless of his elder brother\’s objections. As a result, I have experienced the pain of marriage. Her husband cheated on her again and again, and she chose to forgive and wipe her husband\’s ass again and again… She had no principles and looked down upon herself. It was only after my heart was broken that I decided to divorce. Her character is most similar to her father Qiao Zuwang, who is venomous, has a controlled appearance, and lives her own life. He only cares about his own feelings and will only seek help from his elder brother if something goes wrong. But such people are the ones who can best live their lives and be happier! The cowardly and kind-hearted Qiqi. Some netizens described Qiqi’s life this way: Playing out her whole life at eight times speed. When he was in school, he was pursued by a female classmate and fell in love prematurely. Then the two watched the video tape, tasted the forbidden fruit, and created a child. At the age of being a child, he turned around and became a father and a husband. But a marriage that is too quick is destined to not last long. In the play, Qiqi soon becomes a single father. In fact, the five children of the Qiao family are all pursuing the love and happiness that were elusive in childhood. It\’s just that haste makes waste. The more eager you are, the more you lose everything. The eldest brother\’s two marriages were both influenced by his family of origin. He could not leave his younger brothers and sisters behind and devote himself wholeheartedly to his family. The marriage of Erqiang and Sanli seems happy, but there are also some irreconcilable trivialities and troubles. Needless to say, Simei and Qiqi are single parents who have worked hard all their lives. Five children, five lives, all are soaked in the influence of the original family, making it impossible to escape. \”Too Sweet\” Qi Family: The whole series of good-natured father + shrewd and soft-hearted mother,Chen Ma likes the role of uncle the most. He is gentle and capable, has a stable and decent job, and cares about the family and loves their children. Every time something happens to the Qiao family, he contributes money and effort. To a certain extent, he plays the role of \”father\” in the hearts of the children of the Qiao family. His wife, Wei Shufen, is a typical person with a sharp mouth but a soft heart. She cares about her family and children, and occasionally helps the Qiao family\’s children. Compared with the Qiao family, the growing environment provided by the Qi family\’s parents for their children was \”too sweet\”, and the children they raised went to two extremes. As the eldest brother of the Qi family, Qi Weimin has a happy family. His academic performance was among the best, he was admitted to Nanyang University, and he worked in a government agency after graduation. Because he was influenced by his father since he was a child, he has a kind and soft personality and is too doting on his younger siblings. This kind of character destined him to be a submissive and \”blood-sucked\” image. When he was a child, he raised the young Qiqi to adulthood. When he grew up, he took care of his whole family and younger siblings, and also helped the Qiao family from time to time. After her father passed away, her mother wanted to remarry, but was strongly opposed by her younger siblings. Raising Girls e-book PDF download [on the bestseller list for 15 consecutive years] Without saying a word, he transferred the old house to his younger brother and gave his father\’s pension to his younger sister to fulfill his mother\’s remarriage. But his own wedding was postponed again and again, and he couldn\’t even hold a banquet. This kind of good old man often makes others happy and wrongs himself. It might be easier if you could live a little more selfishly and not accommodate others in everything. Unfilial younger siblings have the love of their parents and the protection of their elder brothers. The younger brothers and sisters of the Qi family have developed selfish characters. It hinders the mother\’s pursuit of happiness in old age. When her mother was seriously ill, all the responsibility for taking care of her was placed on her mother\’s remarried uncle, Ma. What he did was to fulfill the old saying: exhausted parents have ungrateful children. Qi\’s father and Qi\’s mother try their best to provide their children with a good growth environment. But precisely because of everything going smoothly, the children of the Qi family lacked a sense of unity and were not as united as the children of the Qiao family. Chen Ma reminds parents not to give blindly to their children. Giving their children too sweet a life will make them develop a demanding character. Our love must have some reservations and boundaries. Raising a baby is like cooking, every step is crucial. The control of heat, seasonings such as salt, sugar, light soy sauce, when to add, and how much to add…all need to be carefully considered. Don’t be greedy for too much of each condiment, and don’t give it up completely, as it will affect the final product of the dish. The same is true for children. Giving too much love or too little love will not work, as it will make their lives incomplete. Raising Boys Collector\’s Edition PDF download [on the bestseller list for 15 consecutive years] Childhood, as a time that occupies nearly one-eighth of a person\’s life, may seem short, but its influence is endless. As parents, we must learn to make choices and be careful in order to give our children a healthy and loving childhood. Because \”lucky people are healed by childhood throughout their lives, and unfortunate people are healed by childhood throughout their lives.\”