How to raise a promising child?

For all families, children’s education is absolutely a top priority. Letting children win at the starting line is the top priority. In the TV series \”Xiao She De\”, it is not unrealistic that every major tutoring class is hard to find. I work from dawn to dusk and send my children to tutoring classes, just because I don’t want my children to lose too much to their peers. Since the implementation of the “double reduction” policy, many parents have applauded. Finally, the children can stand on the same starting line without the efforts of their parents. Is this really the case? With the loss of after-school tutoring classes, can children really start at the same time? In fact, this is not the case. After a period of time, many people find that other people’s children are still so good, but their own children have completely lost their temper without tutoring classes. This is because other families have discovered a more useful and effective way of education than tutoring classes – home education. The help that family education brings to children is huge, has lifelong benefits, and is inexhaustible. Ten years from now, children who grow up in these 9 types of families will definitely be more promising! 01 Cooperate with the teacher’s family. Ancient scholars must have a teacher, and a teacher is the person who preaches, learns, and solves doubts. Since ancient times, teachers have always played the role of teaching and educating people, answering students\’ questions. Parents are the earliest enlightenment teachers for their children in everything they say and do in life. Therefore, behind an excellent child is an excellent teacher and parents who support education. \”Double reduction\” is a liberation for children, but it does not mean a relaxation of education. Especially under such circumstances, parents should communicate more with teachers and cooperate tacitly. In this way, the children can become better and better without aggravating their academic studies, thereby leading to the starting line. 02 Families with a wide range of interests recently heard such a saying, which deeply touched my heart: A child is a blank piece of paper, whatever you draw will be what it appears. Children often imitate their parents at a very young age, and their parents\’ behavior will affect their children\’s development direction. A family with a wide range of interests is not only a loving family, but also a family that likes to study. If parents have broad interests and like to study, their children will definitely not be mediocre after being exposed to them for a long time. Einstein said, \”Interest is the best teacher.\” A life with hobbies and interests is a colorful life, and children will be mentally healthier. 03 Families that support children What would you do if your child accidentally graffitied a large area on the wall? Should he beat him up first to vent his anger, or should he teach his child not to do this again in the future? Actor Sun Li once shared this story: When she found two children at home graffiti on the wall, as a mother, Sun Li’s first thought was to stop it and prepared to replace the wall panels, but her husband Deng Chao stopped him. It means that the wall panels can be replaced, but if the child\’s creative inspiration is gone, it will be completely gone. Yes, blind criticism can indeed make children more honest, but it also loses the happiness that children should have. The more you support your children, the more confident they will be. On the contrary, if you criticize your children all year round, they will have even lower self-esteem. Behind the development of a confident child, there must be a supportive parent. 04Families who like to readThe first noble people a child meets in his life are definitely parents who are willing to read to their children. Parents like reading, which not only nourishes themselves, but also brings the atmosphere to their children, making them eager to read from an early age. The book has its own golden house. In today\’s era of short videos, it is especially important for yourself and your children to calm down and read. Parents who like to read often have the ability to judge and know what books their children should read at different ages. Instead of throwing a lot of books at the children, no matter what the content is, just read them first. Both are reading, but the two are completely different. As children grow up, parents accompany their children to study. In this way, parents are not only parents, but also mentors and best partners. 05 Family knowledge education that likes sports can make children think better than their peers, but physical education is also essential. Good health is the root of everything. If children are in good health, parents can rest assured. The body is the capital of revolution. This is Chairman Mao\’s famous saying, that is, if a person wants to accomplish something, he must have many qualities, but all of them must rely on one prerequisite – a healthy body. Research data shows that certain exercises will not only make children healthier, but also make them more focused. As an essential part of the growth process, parents must not be lazy and must take their children to move. 06 A family that abides by rules In \”Han Feizi: Playing Evil\”, Han Feizi expresses his own views on the word \”rules\”: Hang the balance and you will know the balance, set the rules and you will know the circle; everything in the world must be regulated. That is to say, everything in the world needs rules. It seems that this word is far away from us, but in fact it exists around us and is closely related to us. Traffic lights, queuing, code of conduct, etc. These are all rules. If you don\’t follow them, the consequences will be disastrous. Parents are unwilling to follow the rules, and if they are influenced by their own ears and eyes, their children will naturally not know how to follow the rules. In recent years, the term \”naughty child\” has appeared in the public eye again and again. The fundamental reason is that children do not understand the rules, so they follow their own inner thoughts and cause trouble. Therefore, in addition to setting an example by following the rules themselves, parents must also teach their children to follow the rules so that they understand what should be done and what should not be done. Loving children does not mean doting blindly. Teaching them to follow the rules is the best way to love children. 07 A family with loving parents Hellinger, the founder of the family arrangement system, proposed that parents are the most important position in a happy family relationship, with parents as the axis and the relationship between husband and wife as the first priority. Therefore, the relationship between parents affects the child\’s life and even determines the child\’s emotional outlook. Parents loving each other can establish the concept of a happy family and a harmonious relationship between husband and wife to their children from an early age, thereby forming a correct concept of marriage and family. And children who grow up in a loving environment can often achieve delayed gratification, emotional stability, security, etc., which are all necessary conditions for successful people. Therefore, please do not ignore your lover. For children, the happiness brought by their native family isSomething that transcends everything. 08 As the saying goes in families that train their children: \”Pampering is not love.\” Because many parents are worried about their children, they worry about their children everywhere and even do not let their children participate in housework. Little do they know that it is this doting that cuts off the children\’s wings that should fly. In the popular variety show \”Metamorphosis\” in the past few years, none of the \”transformed\” children who moved from the city to the countryside did any housework at home. They were all taken care of by their parents. As a result, their tempers became worse and worse, and their parents\’ hearts became more and more unfavorable. pain. Why did the protagonists of \”The Metamorphosis\” only begin to understand their parents\’ hard work after going to the countryside? It is precisely because in the process of labor, you will have thinking, feel tired, and understand that everything is hard-won, which is something you cannot experience under the control of your parents. Parents help their children in every detail, which is harming them. They allow their children to be young but unable to be independent. Therefore, parents must let go when it is time to let go, to prevent their children from relying too much on themselves, and to train their children appropriately, starting with housework and small things. 09 Families with Good Habits The ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle once said: \”People are shaped by habits, and excellent results come from good habits, not temporary actions.\” The power of habits is undoubtedly huge, It is difficult to develop a good habit, and it is even harder to break a bad habit. Good habits can benefit you for life, while bad habits can even harm you for life. As parents, we must set a good example for our children and use the power of habit to help our children grow. In this way, not only children, but parents can also benefit a lot in educating their children. The implementation of \”double reduction\” is a relaxation for children and a new test for parents. 52 compulsory lessons for Chinese parents during the critical period of children\’s growth mp3 Family is the first classroom for children, and it is also the classroom for their entire lives. As parents who have the longest influence on children and the most far-reaching effects, we must pay attention to family education. Prepare your children for success. Education is a long practice. Not only do children need to learn, but parents also need to continue to learn and grow during this process. Education that works both ways is more meaningful!