What are the best ways and methods to educate children?

In a restaurant in Chengdu, a father took his son to eat at the buffet. When the son brings a lot of food, the father reminds him, you brought so much, can you finish it? What a waste! The son listened and didn\’t care. After his father left, he poured all the uneaten food into the trash can. Dad came back, but he lied and said, \”Look, I\’ve eaten everything.\” Dad didn\’t believe it. So, the father made a second move and brought the trash can over. At a glance, he knew that his son had dumped everything he couldn\’t eat here. The last action was also the most surprising. The father took out what his son poured into the trash can and ate it directly. When the son saw it, he became anxious and stood up quickly, crying and stopping his father from eating. The little boy will never forget this scene in his life, because his father taught him an unforgettable and profound lesson. Everyone who has watched the video has to praise this father\’s education method. When facing his ignorant son, he did not use rough beating and scolding, but told his son in another way that every porridge and meal should be considered. Hard-won. We all say that parents are their children\’s best teachers, and words are not as good as teaching by example. This father’s approach proves how to be a good guide for his children and cultivate their children’s good conduct. Children are young and naive. When they see that they can take food at will, they naturally want to take more. As for whether they can finish it, they never think about it. It is also normal for children to sneak away food they cannot eat. However, what you do as a parent will have a profound impact on your children. Although this father\’s approach is surprising, it achieves the best effect. I believe that this child will not waste food when eating buffets in the future, and will also develop good qualities of thrift. When children grow up, they will inevitably make mistakes of one kind or another. The key lies in how parents treat them. The reason why naughty children are naughty children is not because they are born. There may be naughty parents behind them. They not only promptly correct and educate their children\’s bad behaviors, but also use the excuse that the children are young and ignorant to protect their own children and indulge their own behavior. child. Children gradually develop a arrogant character. Once they encounter dissatisfaction, they will protest in extreme ways and even do extraordinary things. On a bus in Changsha, a woman asked a boy to grab the handle and practice lifting rings. After the driver tried to dissuade her, the woman angrily said, \”It\’s none of your business,\” and yelled at the driver, \”I do this every day, and it\’s only you who have an opinion. You\’re sick!\” She called the driver to complain, and the driver was out of safety concerns. Consider pulling over to the side of the road. At Shanghai Disneyland, a young woman was touched by an 8-year-old boy on her buttocks. When she refused to argue, she was beaten and insulted by her mother and three other people. \”If you touch me, you touch me. Your butt has never been touched?\” After this video was exposed online, it caused a stir among netizens. Great outrage. After coordination with the police, an understanding was reached, and the attacker paid the woman 1,000 yuan in compensation. A fourth-grade brat pushed a pregnant woman. The reason turned out to be, \”I saw on TV that a pregnant woman would miscarry if she fell. I just wanted to see if pushing her would also cause a miscarriage.\” On a high-speed train, several children were making a noise in the carriage, and the parents were minding their own business and shouting. chat. A foreign expert was unbearable and reminded parents to control the volume and take care of their children. As a result, the child\’s parents were very angry and not onlyThe child\’s mother was so rude that she slapped the man until his eyes bled. While watching a movie, a girl felt that a child next to her was too noisy, so she kindly reminded her and moved to the front row. Later, the child kicked the back of the chair again, and she reminded her again. Unexpectedly, the child\’s parent got mad and said, \”I just want to kick you,\” and kicked the back of the chair six or seven times. After the show ended, Ms. Chen was beaten by the other party, and even the cleaning lady who tried to persuade her was hurt. A Chinese couple took their 6-year-old son to the United States for vacation. On the plane, the child jumped up and down, punched and kicked the passengers sitting next to him. The passenger asked the parents to discipline the child but was ignored. Three hours later, the conflict intensified and the two parties struggled with each other until the flight attendant arrived and separated them. After getting off the plane, more than 20 law enforcement officers from the US FBI, airport security, and border security were waiting for them at the entrance and exit of the plane. The naughty family was eventually deported by US Customs for intentional injury. The bad record will affect and accompany them for the rest of their lives, and they will never want to go to any other country in the future. There are many such cases. \”Family is the first classroom in life, and parents are children\’s first teachers.\” Xi Jinping particularly emphasized: British educator Whitehead\’s purpose of education PDF \”We all need to pay attention to family construction, pay attention to family, pay attention to tutoring, and pay attention to family tradition. \”The problem. Only every family can shoulder the important task of “helping children to buckle the first button of life and take the first step in life”, and also shoulder the responsibility of helping children to “pursue happiness for the family, provide warmth to others, and serve others.” In this way, children raised by families can lay a good ideological foundation in \”consciously assuming family responsibilities, establishing good family traditions\” and making useful contributions to society. , moral foundation and personality foundation.