Methods of educating adolescent children

A writer said: Accompanying adolescent children is, to put it more harshly, like accompanying a tiger, and you have to be careful. Adolescent children have extremely strong self-esteem and can act impulsively. When I took a psychology course a few years ago, the psychology teacher emphasized that adolescent children have two major characteristics: strong self-awareness and wanting to make the decision on everything, not their parents; strong self-esteem and good face. If you have adolescent children at home, you must not do two things: don’t rush over and smash the child’s cell phone or unplug the child’s computer without saying anything; don’t insult or criticize the child in public. Otherwise, the child may behave aggressively. An educationist once said: When affecting the inner world of children, one should not dampen the most sensitive corner of their hearts – their self-esteem. When a child makes a mistake, discipline is needed, but compared to the child\’s self-esteem, disciplining the child is not as urgent. Protecting the self-esteem of adolescent children is something that every parent must be aware of. During adolescence, parents should be the ones who \”stabilize\” their children, not the ones who \”break\” them. Duel? Don’t compete with adolescent children. High-definition scan and PDF version download. The process of adolescence is a process in which teenagers gradually get rid of their parents and move towards adulthood. This process is called the \”psychological weaning period\”. They long for independence and for their parents to re-examine themselves and treat themselves as adults. It is precisely because the psychological model of children has been broken and the mature psychological model has not yet been fully established that adolescent children become struggling, chaotic, rebellious and radical, like a powder bag, flammable and explosive. Studies have shown that in adolescent children, the brain’s dopamine neural circuits become extremely active. This increase in dopamine can make children impulsive and take action without careful thought, that is, doing things without using their brains. Therefore, once the mood is excessive, the child will not consider the consequences of life safety, but will be obsessed with revenge. All they want is the pleasure of making their parents regret after taking extreme revenge. It was not one straw that broke the camel\’s back, but thousands of straws. The extremeness of adolescent children is not caused by one scolding, but caused by parents\’ incomprehension, and even scolding and beating. If parents could give their children more respect and acceptance, it would be another story. The majority of the causes of tragedies for adolescent children are that parents fail to listen, use violent language to intensify conflicts, and push their children further and further away. If you want to overcome the \”puberty barrier\”, you must establish good communication with your children. When something happens, don\’t rush to deny or scold, listen first; to solve problems, you don\’t need to use violence to deal with violence. You need to use softness to overcome toughness, so that children can understand why. The best way to win over teenagers is to first side with them in a kind, firm, and respectful manner. Let children gain a sense of self-esteem and belonging through the support of being understood. Adolescent children have strong personalities. Once their parents are impulsive and harsh, they will be like a lion meeting a wolf, or they will be in a stalemate, or both will suffer. Be more patient with adolescent children. The degree to which you accept your children determines the depth of the relationship between your adolescent children and you. Love and understanding, waiting and acceptance are the way out and salvation for adolescent children. wish everyEvery parent is a catcher in the wheat field during adolescence. They watch from a distance, and when their children need it, they stretch out their hands and tell their children: Mom and Dad are here.