Day schooling or accommodation, which one is better for children?

After the school choice problem is solved, the biggest choice now before parents and children is nothing more than living in school or going to school? This is like a \”dead knot\”, which is really a headache for parents. What is the best way for their children? Today Doudehui is here to talk to you. Let’s first look at some parents’ views on this issue. Longman Online Children\’s English Learning Our Discovery Island Grade 1-6 student book + teacher\’s book + exercise book + audio + whiteboard supports parents who live in accommodation: @match falls in love with cigarettes: My family has lived on campus since junior high school. Now I am very grateful to my parents for giving him full trust and giving him space and freedom. Now it\’s better to live on campus in high school. The five of us usually talk in English and practice our speaking skills. Everyone in the dormitory has a division of labor. There is a small teacher who is responsible for tutoring one math, physics and chemistry question every day. There is a labor committee member responsible for sanitation. There are people responsible for supervising the use of mobile phones. The head of my son\’s dormitory. Usually everyone follows each other and is very harmonious. In this kind of environment, children can\’t do well. @安安 assured: I think it’s convenient to live on campus! It was already ninety o\’clock after the evening self-study, and I got up at six o\’clock the next morning. It was too late! And I can’t study well or eat well at home! @biansf: I personally think that living in school can really save a lot of travel time; however, I am worried that without parental supervision, the children will not be able to control themselves, or they will make bad friends, which will delay their studies. After all, three years of high school have passed by in a flash, and, as far as the school and teachers are concerned, your child is only one percent, one thousandth, or one ten thousandth… I really can\’t afford to be hurt! Parents who support day schooling: @wyqqnr: Regardless of whether you live on campus, how far can you go in a city? There are many opportunities to live on campus when you go to college. While your kids are still young, get more opportunities to get along with them! @大宝洋阳07: Regardless of living on campus, the first issue is food. Eating out is definitely not as good as at home. Second, adolescent children feel more at ease around their parents. If it\’s far away, I\’ll rent. @tongshuzhang: Try not to live on campus. You can communicate with your children when you go home every day, detect problems in time and guide them consciously. @书香伊人: I won’t consider living on campus unless there are special circumstances. I want to accompany my son during his three years as a middle school student. In fact, when it comes to the question of whether to live on campus, the main factors are: first, considering the child\’s wishes, and second, judging based on the family situation. The distance is close, family members can satisfy their children\’s needs for day schooling, but the children do not want to live on campus. In this case, day schooling is the best choice. Otherwise, living on campus is the best option. Accommodation or day schooling: Respect children\’s wishes. Whether they are day schooling or boarding school, after the summer vacation, children will enter a new school or enter a new grade, accept a new living environment, and face a new beginning. \”My daughter has been living in school since she was in the third grade of elementary school. It is really a test for parents, especially her mother.\” Ms. Gao\’s daughter will soon go to junior high school, and she still lives in school. When she first moved into the school, her daughter started telling her stories about the school when she came home. \”Sometimes I cry when I send her to school and say I don\’t want to live in school, which makes me emotionally flustered.\” Ms. Gao said that when her daughter is happy, she will feel that living in school is the right thing. It can train the child\’s independence in life and study.It\’s very regular, and adults are relaxed; but once they make a fuss about going home, they feel that they are too cruel. It is so natural for children to fall in love with home. \”At that time, I was living in conflict every day! But now my children have adapted very quickly to living on campus.\” As a person who has lived there, she believes that whether or not to live on campus depends on her family situation. She has no time to take care of her children, so she has to choose one. Living in a good school is actually a good choice. \”It\’s just that both parents and children have to go through a process of adaptation, and the length of the process varies from person to person.\” Generally speaking, whether you live on campus or not, there are the following situations: one is far away from home, or parents don\’t have time To take care of children, you have to live on campus. The other is to hope that by living on campus, you can exercise your children\’s self-care ability. Children living in boarding houses have more time at their own disposal, in addition to eating and exercising, and have higher requirements on their own time management capabilities. Children who attend day school may have less time at their own disposal, and parents generally make a lot of arrangements. At the same time, those who live on campus must not only study well, but also take care of themselves. Parents of children who attend day school almost take care of things other than studying. Therefore, whether or not to live on campus also depends on the family situation and whether it is beneficial to the child. The key lies in the child. The child must learn to manage his own time and arrange his life and study reasonably. Choosing day school: Be a wise parent. For day school students and parents, the most important thing is safety. \”Many times, students gather in groups as soon as school is over, chasing and fighting, which can easily lead to safety hazards. Therefore, you must pay attention to safety when going to and from school.\” There are four points to note when reading during the day: 1. Safety first, strictly abide by traffic rules, Ride less electric bicycles; 2. Arrange your work and rest time reasonably to ensure you arrive at school on time; 3. Contact parents and teachers in time when encountering special circumstances; 4. Go to school and come home on time, and do not enter Internet cafes and game rooms. In addition, parents should also be prepared when facing children who choose to attend day school at home. First of all, parents should supervise their children to develop good work and rest habits. At the middle school stage, many students think that they have grown up and do not need their parents to take care of them. This is a unique characteristic of adolescence. However, parents cannot be \”hands-off shopkeepers\”, but should secretly act as supervisors to supervise their children\’s behavior, help them form good work and rest habits, and control the general direction of their children\’s behavior. Secondly, communicate more with your children. After their children come home from school, parents should, at the appropriate time, talk to their children about what happened at school, about their children’s learning difficulties, etc., to help their children solve problems and understand their children’s psychological changes. Finally, be a wise parent. Many times, children go to school for a day and come home very tired. If parents are playing with mobile phones or watching TV at this time, it will create an unbalanced mentality in the children. When your children are at home, put down your mobile phone and read a book. This will set a good example for your children and create a learning atmosphere at home. Choosing Accommodation: Parents Should Let Go Quicker If they decide to live on campus, apart from material preparations, the only thing parents need to do is let go. Regardless of whether you go to junior high school or high school, the choice you make is to recognize this school and the method of living on campus. Parents should make material preparations and keep in touch with teachers to understandAs long as the child\’s movements are up, don\’t disturb the child too much. Parents must be mentally prepared. If their children leave home for the first time and live on campus, they will be uncomfortable in one way or another. It is normal to have problems. Don’t be overwhelmed when problems arise and choose to go to day school again or rent a school nearby. House accompaniment. The most common situation is when parents send their children to school and start to intervene. For example, they ask the teacher to tell the teacher that their children have elementary school classmates or children of acquaintances who are also here, and they hope to be in the same class or dormitory with their children. Parents always like to stay in the past, but students should make new friends and never forget old friends. In fact, it is a good thing for children to have no one they know when they come to a new environment. Think about it from another perspective, there are children who know each other in the dormitory, and they often go in and out together, which reduces the chance of him getting to know other people. The child should get to know more classmates, and maybe he can meet friends who are more compatible with and suitable for her. In addition, when a child lives in a dormitory for the first time, it is inevitable that he will encounter problems. Don\’t rush to make requests to the school or teachers for small problems. Let the child try to solve it by himself. Many times, the child just complains. Some parents are very nervous. If there is some problem, they go to the head teacher and the dormitory administrator to ask for their children to change their beds. They say they don\’t like anyone in the dormitory and it is too noisy. Many children don\’t mind at first, but the parents come anyway. Various problems were discovered during one trip. When dealing with school or dormitory disputes, the only principle parents need to follow is not to get involved in a hurry. A teacher who has been a class teacher for several years said that the conflicts that children have in dormitories are actually minor conflicts. For example, in the boys\’ dormitory, if there is an opinion, everyone may quarrel or even fight, but after the matter is over, they are still good buddies. Once parents are involved, problems within the dormitory or within the school become problems between parents and parents, and between parents and the school. Sometimes children are very capable of handling and solving problems, and parents are best to let their children handle it themselves first. \”In life and in school, parents should guide their children to learn to deal with problems on their own and allow them to adapt to the new environment. This is also a very important exercise.\” said the class teacher. Don\’t rush to ask the school or teachers for small problems. Let the children try to solve them on their own. In many cases, the children just complain, and the parents can do the logistics and provide verbal guidance to the children when necessary. Of course, if there is any problem that the child cannot solve, he should contact the school and teacher in time. Finally, I would like to send a message to all parents: We can only accompany our children for a certain part of their lives. In the end, the only one they can rely on is themselves. When he was 15 years old, you were worried about letting him go; when he was 18 years old, you were reluctant to let him go; when he was 25 years old and you wanted to let him go, you found that he could no longer solve any problems independently. Attached: Accommodation preparation list Bedding categories: air-conditioned quilts in summer and thin quilts in autumn. Two sheets, two pillowcases, one pillow core; one finished mattress + one cotton-wool mattress (if the school issues them, you don’t need to prepare them). School supplies: your own school supplies such as school bags, stationery, folders, staplers, glue , scissors, etc., books, etc., Chinese dictionary, English-Chinese dictionary and other reference books. Toiletries: 1. 2 basins, 1 bucket, 1 mouthwash cup, 2-3 towels, 1 mirror, 1 comb, 1 hot water bottle, 10-20 clothes hangers, and girls can also buy a disc hanger for drying socks. 2. Toothpaste, toothbrush, shampoo, washing powder (soap), shower gel, 1 shoe washing brush, 1 soap and soap box, and slippers. Other personal items: 1. Commonly used summer clothes and thin coats. 2. Have some cash, preferably a wallet or a small card holder. 3 copies of the household registration and physical ID of the parents and their children, and 3 photos of the children as backup. 3. 1 lunch box; 1 stainless steel spoon; 2 water cups. 4. Three padlocks. Lock wardrobe; lock small cabinet in classroom; classroom drawer (you can check before buying). Medicines: Bring some commonly used medicines according to your child’s characteristics: band-aids, cold medicines, anti-inflammatory medicines, etc. And Fengyoujing or toilet water.